Locking up your home is the first thing one will do after leaving their gate.

While most of us have one, two or three locks. This uncle “overkills” his security at home.

A man who resides in Malaysia was seen unlocking his home which has over 10 padlocks and chains.

Over 3 minutes to enter his home

The man was seen in a video taking over 3 minutes to unlock his door.

However, netizens commented and said that if a robber has the intention to rob his home, they would have waited behind him and threatened him with a knife.

Others said: “It’s like advertising your home that there are a lot of valuables inside”.

While some defend the man’s action by saying: “Maybe he got kena robbed before and unsure to secure his home. Therefore he just add more locks.”

Here are what netizens think:

• Uncle, you need one good lock not 10 lousy locks

• Inside sure got gold bar, if I robber i don’t even bother unlock the locks, i jus saw hole through the wooden door.

• Uncle ah, by the time you open finish a robber waiting behind you loh.

@ahbengloh89

Kiasu Malaysian Uncle locks 10 plus lock at his home

♬ original sound Ah Beng Commentator

Let me start by saying she is not his mother! As any parent does, I tell my son to give me all his dirty laundry (mostly so I don’t have to touch it) so I can wash them for him.

One day he was not home, so, I went into his room and grabbed his dirty laundry. I notice a balled up towel in the corner of his closet and I just grabbed the end of it, thinking it was just a towel, nope! Out falls 2 of my girlfriends recently worn/dirty underwear! I stand there coming up with crazy scenarios in my head for a second like “must have gotten caught in the towel when he was done showering” or “maybe it got messed up in the clean laundry”. Then the realization hits me that our laundry basket is in the bathroom where we shower.

All I could say to my girlfriend was “we are about to have a weird conversation and I’m sorry”. I pull out the underwear and say “I found these in (insert son’s name) room” and her jaw just drops. I didn’t know what else to say besides “at least we know he likes you”

Now it is a little weird and quiet around my house. The worst part is, I don’t know how to bring it up to him!

The decision has been made to sit him down tonight after dinner. Im going to be short and sweet about it. Tell him that I’ll love him no matter what. Tell him why it wasn’t ok to violate my GFs privacy! Then take the opportunity to see if he wants to talk about anything, but not force him to.

OFF-TOPIC: To the guy who messaged me asking to trade my girlfriends dirty underwear for his SISTERS! You’re disgusting!

He just dropped his head and said “sorry dad” and I just completely dropped it and said “don’t forget the last barrel and went inside.

I feel like I’m in a mental prison waking up here everyday. I can’t remember the last day I was genuinely happy here.

I’m so sick and tired of this country where I feel like I know every corner, nothing is new. There’s no joy or excitement living in this country for me. I eat the same food everyday at home, I’ve seen the same streets in central Singapore for many times now. The working culture here is a slave culture, Singapore society just seem materialistic as a whole it seems hard to make genuine connections with other people.

I feel like mentally it’s like a ‘water droplet’ torture treatment where everyday things just get 1% worse, and now when I wake up I don’t have anything to look forward to, my life experiences are bland and repetitive. I’ve tried to go for some fitness class to change things, but it all feels very temporary from the ‘daily grind’. The everyday moments don’t change, I’m so tired and sick of all the repetition.

To those who are happy here, I don’t know how y’all actually do it. Maybe you can share with me some tips? I feel like I’m alive but barely living at all. I thought of migrating (since I was overseas for uni and really enjoyed it, it was the first time in my life I felt I was actually ‘living’ but now I feel like a zombie and another peg in the machine) but it’s not possible at this stage of my life yet.

Who do you guys cope with all the repetition in this tiny small island for many years?

Here are what netizens think:

• I doubt for a lot of people it’s the country itself that makes them happy here. For me, it’s family. I’m happy wherever my family is. Lesser contributing factors also include the food, familiarity, efficiency, friends. While you’re stuck at this interval, hope you find something that makes you enjoy this place,

• This sounds more like you are unhappy with your life right now rather than the country. Moving to a new country might not help if you are just gonna repeat your old habits. Why not take a moment and think about what makes you happy and unhappy about your life and make changes there?

• I have a friend who thought the same way, he was big on how life in Singapore is soulless and dull. So he decided to travel the world, he went to all kinds of exotic and different places. Then he got mugged in South America. He was badly injured qnd lost everything including the money in his bank account. The police told him he was targeted because he is an asian man and there was nothing they could do. When he returned to Singapore he was suddenly all pro-sg. Apparently he realised that most humans are trash and safety and security is the exception not the norm.

I found the word “Divorce” in my husband’s yearly goal section of his “Life Goals Notebook”

I don’t understand. We’ve 29F & 33M been happily married for 3 yrs. About to try for a baby together.

He had a job opportunity overseas that he really wanted but I told him I wasn’t going to accept leaving home and basically uprooting my life. He said he was over it and stopped talking about it.

I found the word divorce while looking at his yearly goal section of the new life goal notebook he got a month ago.

This was the biggest shock in my life so far, I haven’t brought it up to yet and I don’t know why.

I feel awful, just completely shocked and can’t even look him in the face especially when he’s acting like nothing’s wrong.

I’m also afraid of what he might be planning to do. I sense a shaky future and unstable life already. I’m so devastated right now.

Netizens’ comments

• Better have a conversation before children are in the picture

• WARNING! DO NOT TRY FOR A BABY!

I’ve been “seeing” him for almost three years.

I’m now six months pregnant and he’s married – so he’s been cheating on his wife with me for three years.

I know he won’t leave her but the baby will be here soon. He knows he has to tell her because you can’t secretly co-parent a child but he’s scared.

I want it out in the open so I can have that plan in place sooner rather than later.

How wrong would I be to tell her myself?

Here are what netizens think:

Welcome to single parenthood!

Honestly unless you want to be a poor sole parent, people should only be having kids in a committed long term relationship.. untimely this is her choice.. there were options here but now they are long gone.. her body, her choice, her decision to become a sole parent.. keep it or adopt it out are the only two left now.. how can someone with a whole other family not be throwing up red flag after red flag and you not notice it is beyond me..

It’s a growing trend in modern society sadly and it’s only going to get worse until we start taking responsibility for our actions and stop enabling hedonism. I think it’s a direct result of promiscuity, unresolved mental health, hook-up culture

Men have been having mistress’s for 1000’s of years. It’s the reason children born out of wedlock didn’t have any inheritance rights – the men could shag left, right and centre and didn’t have to take care of any babies created.

I guess a part of me feels just slightly sorry for you, that you have that low self esteem. I’ve been where you are. Mine lasted..3 months. 3 months. I knew what I was doing was so very wrong, and I did the right thing and ended it, then got myself into therapy.

Became a sugar daddy because I’m lonely and disabled.

With my level of disability and being social in person is nearly impossible.

I can’t really go to bars/hold a job/do anything socially, I run into people just walking down the street, and let alone being in a dark bar. Doesn’t work out well even with me trying several times. Nearly got into a fight once over it.

So I tried dating apps – those are a joke. Too few of women and too many guys. Hard to stand out.

So I found sugar dating sites – sifting through the undesirables is easy enough. I’m early 20s so I purely wanted women my age.

During all this I basically had a new girl every weekend, met some cool hippy chick, and eventually met a girl I really liked. Well 3 actually. Chose one and let the rest go.

Sure it cost me quite a bit but the pool of women was amazing. Ever since covid it’s been dead though and I’m lonely again.

Just thought I’d leave this here for any other guys with disabilities that there’s options out there if you can afford it.

Oh and there was lots of bed activities, if you know what I mean. Some quite good – some quite bad. It’s a box of chocolates.