This has nothing to do with money. We split the rent and we share everything 50-50. I am an engineer and my GF works in healthcare. One month ago her contract at ended and she has been unemployed since.

She has already found another job but she would be able to start two months after her previous job ended, that means in a month from now. So for the past month she has been living her best life. She’s spending her mornings studying for her new job but also reading, watching Netflix, going to the gym and for runs with her dog etc.

However she hasn’t started contributing more to the household. I mean she still cooks and cleans every day but she still expects me to wash the dishes and she won’t pick up my clothes after I have returned from work. The other day I left a bunch of my mail on the table and when I returned it was left unopened, I asked her why she didn’t look through it and she told me she’s not my secretary. I have been hinting that she should be picking up more chores now that she’s unemployed but she says that she’s not my housekeeper, she does more than half of the chores and since my workload has not increased I should be able to do mine.

I mean yes, I am able to do it but I am tired from work and she isn’t so I had expected her to step up a little but no, she claims this is her break from working hard and other hurtful things, like she didn’t go to med school to be a live-in maid etc.

So am I wrong For expecting her to do most of the chores while she’s unemployed?

A video was uploaded on the Facebook page which shows a video that was taken in an HDB flat in Spooner Road where a female spirit could be heard crying.

The flat should be one of the rental flats which is located at Spooner Road and it has been known to many Singaporeans as one of the most haunted estates in Singapore.

Skip to 0:40-0:45 and it’s best if you are using an earpiece.

FULL VIDEO LOADING…

A girl shared a story online after realising her socks were constantly missing and reappeared after a week or two. She posted the story of how she escaped from her sick boyfriend.

Here is the story:

I just made the most shocking discovery of my life, my boyfriend has been together with me for 2 years has a weird habit or fetish or whatever you wanna call it.

We are staying together and I realised my socks have been missing every other week. I asked my boyfriend he said that he has no idea. I started to digged around the house and I find it under the mattress and they were stacked in a pile as if someone gathered it.

I confronted my boyfriend as no one stays in the house only me and him, I asked why did he hide all my socks. He said that it’s a prank and I forgive him as it was a small matter. But something felt wrong.

I installed a CCTV secretly without my boyfriend knowing and mount it above the cabinet and faced the bed. The camera could auto-detect motion and start to record. I installed it and reviewed it a week later.

To my horror, I saw my boyfriend sniffing at my socks while “beating the aeroplane”…….

It’s not fresh socks from the laundry, its dirty socks leh.

Should I leave him or should I confront him, something is definitely not right with his head if I confront him. It would be like talking to a crazy person.

What should I do, any advice?

My mom is a social media addict and has to post everything. My wife had one request about her wedding. Other than the bridal party no one was to see the wedding dress. My mom kept trying to get my wife to post it for her friends on Facebook because she said everyone wanted her to do it. She was mad that she didn’t even get to post pictures of my wife trying on a different wedding dress and at least allow her to post the rejects. My wife said no and my mom was pissed.

Later when the mom’s and bridesmaids picked out their dresses my mom insisted on wearing white so my wife said F this and put the whole wedding party in white. Including the mothers and grandmothers.

The day of the wedding my mom took a candid shot of my wife getting her veil ready and posted it about 30 minutes before the wedding started. Tagging everyone in it. Including the father of the bride (my FIL) my wife wanted to surprise him just as much as me getting the first look of her dress while he walked her down the aisle. She even had the two photographers posted so they could get shots of the first look. Obviously this was important to my wife.

Her dad saw himself tagged in the photo so instead he saw his daughter on Facebook. My wife didn’t find out until after the ceremony because last minute preparation.

After the ceremony I kicked my mom out of the wedding and she wasn’t invited to the reception. My younger sister and my dad also left, along with a few family members.

My brother and I covered for the mother of the groom dance by leading an impromptu chicken dance to lighten the mood. The dj was super awesome and filled in the spaces with fun songs so at least the reception wasn’t a total bummer.

I really don’t even want my mom in my life now because what she did was petty and selfish. She pulled well maybe my FIL shouldn’t have had his phone on him and my wife shouldn’t have been such a stuck up diva about her dress. I have no interest in continuing a relationship with my mom at this point. My dad thinks I should put this behind me because it’s “typical women drama” but I told him it wasn’t and mom’s just a petty and what she does is not normal at all.

my colleague has been with the company for two years, makes 1/4 of what I make for the same job, same title, Same duties, same workload, and I started last week… she’s not happy.

she and I are pretty decent friends, like, she’s a funny girl that likes dog, and I’m just a dude that also likes dog, so, we made fast friends and she’s into the same nerd shit as me, hence why we work a similar job.

I say this so that when I say she was at my house early this morning.

It was 2 am, she was in my house, we were several drinks into a hangout, our friends were talking about the housing market, we started talking about work. She says my house is nice for a dude that works at (insert satanic corporation) and I joke, lightly, “it’s not bad for $75k a year”.

her eyes sunk into a sorta disgusted, kinda pissed look

She asked me if I have two jobs or invest.

I said I invest but it’s all for retirement or emergencies.

She asked me if I make that money at our job

I do.

She said she makes 20k a year or a little more if there’s a bonus one quarter.

It became awkwardly silent between us, it was noticeable because our friends made a comment about it

She asked me if I got a degree

I didn’t, she did

She asked if I have experienced, I don’t

She started cursing every manager, exclaimed hatred for every client.

I genuinely feel equally upset about the situation, because fair is fair, right?

She said she’s gonna address it tomorrow. What should I do?

My wife and I (28m and 26f) have been married for over two years now. We both have promising careers but neither of us are making a ton of money yet; we’ve been largely living paycheck to paycheck since we got together.

We’ve been sleeping on a way too old mattress and box spring since we got married that she inherited from some family member, and we’ve both been complaining about it. My side in particular has had a bad spring which was constantly digging into my side or lower back. We’ve both been researching mattresses and have agreed that we need to buy something new and better as soon as we are able.

So, anyway, a couple of weeks ago I went back home to attend my cousin’s wedding. My wife wasn’t able to go because she couldn’t get off work. When I got home my wife told me to go look in the bedroom. When I went I saw a new mattress on top of a new adjustable frame. It was wrapped in a red ribbon. My wife followed me in and said “Ta da!” When I asked her what was going on she told me that she had been slowly socking away money from her paychecks to buy a new bed, and that she had gone ahead and bought a nice, new, hybrid mattress with an adjustable frame so that we could watch TV in bed together. She seemed really excited about it.

I, however, wasn’t happy. I told her that a mattress was a major purpose and that we should have decided it together to make sure that it was something that we both liked. She said that she was really disappointed in my response and that she’d wanted to surprise me by saving up her own money and buying something nice that we needed, and that she’d thought I’d be happy. She said that surely the new bed was better than the old and that I should just be grateful to be sleeping on something better since I didn’t have to put any money in.

But I think it was a major purchase and she should have talked to me first, even if she did use her own money.

Here are what netizens think:

• You’ve been complaining about the old mattress and now you’re complaining about the new one. What else do you want to control?

• Doesn’t seem like it was about money at all. It was about wanting input on where you’re gonna sleep for the next few years.

• I think I would be delighted at such a surprise after 2 YEARS of being poked by bad springs and a broken down mattress.