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HUSBAND CALLS WIFE FAT, “JOKES” ABOUT FINDING OTHER GIRLS

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Husband thinks I’m “too fat”

Because of quarantine and not being able to go out as much I’ve gained some weight over the past 2 years.

My husband has not been vocal about it until recently when he out of no where started to insult me and my weight.

He calls me fat and says things like “I can’t believe I chose this” when I walk into the kitchen in the morning.

I don’t feel like I’m overweight, I’m just not as skinny as I used to be. I’ve asked him to stop but he thinks I’m just joking.

He constantly jokes about finding a younger and prettier girl than me unless I lose weight and I’m starting to think he’s being serious.

Idk what to tell him to make him understand it’s hurtful. It’s been a few weeks where he’s constantly making remarks on my weight and it’s starting to affect me more and more.

I don’t want to be mean to him and get angry so I don’t know how to tell him to stop to make him take it seriously.

To everyone asking: I’ve gone from 165cm, 55kg to 65kg. I still feel fine and usually I actually feel better than I used to which I’ve told him, but he says I’m still overweight.

Netizen’s comments

Your first mistake is this

“I don’t want to be mean to him and get angry”.

Time to stand up for your dignity. Let him know exactly how hurtful his words and actions are. Be direct.

5 MORE TRAINEE LAWYERS FOUND TO HAVE CHEATED IN 2020 BAR EXAMS

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It was previously reported that 6 trainee lawyers had cheated in their bar exams in 2020, and had their admission into the legal profession delayed.

However, the Attorney-General’s Chambers spoke to Straits Times yesterday (19 April), saying that they are considering the applications by 5 other candidates who cheated in their bar exam in 2020.

This means that the total number of trainee lawyers who cheated in their bar exams now stands at 11.

The spokesperson who spoke to ST said that this is the first time the AGC has objected to applications for admission to the bar for cheating in the exams.

The spokesperson said that the Attorney-General feels that these trainee lawyers are not currently fit to be admitted to be solicitors of the Supreme Court.

She added that their misconduct demonstrates their lack of key qualities such as honesty and integrity that is required of every lawyer.

Recap

KUSU ISLAND FIRE: INVESTIGATION INDICATE THAT THE FIRE WAS NOT DELIBERATELY SET

Preliminary Findings on Cause of Fire @ Kusu Island

On 17 April 2022 around 6.30pm, SCDF’s marine and land-based firefighting assets responded to a fire at Kusu island. The fire involved a cluster of shrines on a hilltop. It was extinguished by SCDF with two water jets within an hour upon SCDF’s arrival on the island.

SCDF is leading an investigation into the cause of the fire and the preliminary fire investigation does not indicate that the fire was deliberately set. SCDF will continue to work with the relevant agencies to determine the probable cause of the fire.

Background

At approximately 6.30pm yesterday on 17 April in the midst of a heavy downpour, SCDF’s marine and land-based firefighting forces responded to a fire at Kusu island, one of the offshore islands on the southern coast of Singapore.

SCDF despatched a Marine Rescue Vessel (MRV) and a Rapid Response Fire Vessel (RFV) from Brani Marine Fire Station and West Coast Marine Fire Station. An additional firefighting crew from Marina Bay Fire Station was also despatched and responded aboard the RFV.

Upon SCDF’s arrival at the island, the fire was raging at a cluster of shrines located on top of a hill.

Using the MRV as a water pump, the firefighters laid a vast number of hoses from the jetty to the top of the hill, covering a distance of about 520 meters. The fire was extinguished with two water jets within an hour of SCDF’s arrival on the island.

There were no reported injuries. Damping down* operations are ongoing. The cause of the fire is under investigation.

*Damping down refers to the application of water to burnt surfaces immediately after a fire is put out. It is to prevent any potential rekindling of fire from hot burnt surfaces.

DR BALAKRISHNAN LOOKING FORWARD TO EXPAND COOPERATION WITH BANGLADESH

Minister of Foreign Affairs Dr Vivian Balakrishnan met up with Dr AK Abdul Momen, the Foreign Minister of Bangladesh on the 50th anniversary of our diplomatic relations with them.

He shared how he had a good exchange with Minister Momen and that they both commended the many Bangladeshis who helped contribute to our nation building.

He also expressed looking forward to expand our cooperation in many areas.

Here is what he said on Facebook

Delighted to welcome Bangladesh Foreign Minister Dr AK Abdul Momen to Singapore on the 50th anniversary of our diplomatic relations with Bangladesh .

Singapore companies are keen to be part of Bangladesh’s growth story.

We both commended the many Bangladeshis who have contributed to our nation building, and for their support of their families back home.

Minister Momen and I had a good exchange on global and regional developments.

We look forward to expanding our cooperation in many areas including trade facilitation, port development and food security.

WORKER ALLEGEDLY STOOD ALL DAY BECAUSE MANAGEMENT REMOVED HER CHAIR

A (presumed) safe-entry worker was seen standing at her station, allegedly for the whole day, by a netizen.

The netizen, Ryaan Hannafi, shared a photo of the incident on Facebook, showing the staff member standing beside a side table with the safe-entry QR code and scanner.

Hannafi asked the woman why she was standing all day, and the woman purportedly told him that the management removed the seat.

The netizen then pointed out the unfairness and highlighted that the woman was fasting, and he questioned why the management had the audacity to remove her seat.

The incident purportedly happened at Pasir Ris Central Hawker Centre.

Here is what he said

“Management removed the seat”
Thats what the makcik said when asked why is she standing all day.

What is this unfairness? She’s fasting and the management has the audacity to remove the seat. Which retard made the decision to allow this stupidity.

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DRIVER REVERSED WITHOUT LOOKING, ALMOST RAN OVER MAN & DAUGHTER

A video emerged online showing a driver of a Kia Forte reversing his vehicle without checking for people behind.

A father was walking behind with his young daughter at the time and almost got ran over by reversing vehicle.

The incident happened on 19 April at about 4.51pm, at Block 201 Hougang Street 21.

Potential penalties

Drivers who drive in a manner that is dangerous to the public is guilty of an offence under section 64(1) of the Road Traffic Act (RTA).

Persons found guilty face a jail term of up to 1 year and/or a $5,000 fine.

If the driver causes hurt, he faces a jail term of up to 2 years and a fine of $10,000.

If the driver caused grievous hurt, he faces a jail term of between 1 to 5 years and disqualified from driving for at least 8 years.

If the driver’s actions caused death, he faces a jail term of up to 2 to 8 years and disqualified from driving for at least 10 years.

MAN’S WIFE TREATING THEIR ADULT SONS LIKE “PETS” & SMALL CHILDREN

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Wife treats adult-age sons like pets.

I’m (54M) my (52F)wife of 32 years is treating my adult age sons (26M) and (21M) like they’re pets. After years of trying to get these men to become self sufficient and responsible citizens I’m at my wits end.

Both of my young men live at our home rent-free. They pay nothing for their phones, car insurance or anything toward our monthly bills.

I’ve tried to set up rent and went over monthly expenses and my wife comes to their defense and derails any accountability before I can collect anything.

They have a hard time holding down any jobs because they find issues with everything. They sit in their rooms and play games all day and night because they have no drive or motivation.

My wife says she’s just trying to be a protective mom and doesn’t see anything wrong with this parenting style.

She believes they will just magically mature someday. I’m going crazy because I feel like she’s harming these adult aged men by treating them like small children.

We both got married when we were young and struggled our way through school and had very little support from our own parents.

I don’t understand why she protects them from maturing and becoming self-sufficient. I’m ready to get divorced. I need advice.

ONG YE KUNG – NO NEED ART TEST FOR KARAOKE, UNLESS THERE IS DANCING

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Minister of Health Ong Ye Kung posted a short FAQ on Facebook about the need to wear masks or get an ART test done for the reopening of nightlife activities.

Here is what he said:

Nightlife businesses, including karaoke, resume today, after a two-year pause. Here are some FAQs:

𝗗𝗼 𝗜 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘄𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝘀𝗸 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴/𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗼𝗼𝗿𝘀?

As a precaution, we require dancing indoors to be masked on. This is in line with the Safe Management Measures (SMMs) 1-5.

𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗱𝗼 𝗜 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗮 𝗻𝗲𝗴𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗔𝗥𝗧 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗻𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗰𝗹𝘂𝗯𝘀?

Dancing in nightclubs involves a large number of people, in an enclosed space, coming into close contact for a long duration. A negative ART supervised by an MOH-approved test provider (https://go.gov.sg/covidtestcentres) is required to manage public health risks.

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗜 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝗳 𝗜 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗻𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗰𝗹𝘂𝗯𝘀?

The test result will be valid for 24 hours. So get tested not more than 24 hours before the end of your time at the nightclub.

𝗗𝗼 𝗜 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗮 𝗻𝗲𝗴𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗔𝗥𝗧 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗸𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗼𝗸𝗲 𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀?

Yes if the establishments offer dancing. Check with the establishment ahead of time so that you can arrange for an ART if needed.

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘄𝗲 𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝗮𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲𝘀 𝗳𝘂𝗿𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿?

Two key things will decide when we can take the next steps of reopening. One, our COVID-19 situation here, including the situation in our hospitals. Two, the risks of a next infection wave, and the emergence of a new variant of concern.

MAID LEFT 3 Y.O ALONE IN PUBLIC TO GO 7 ELEVEN

I hope to reach out to the employer here. 8pm this evening as I was driving out, I realize there was a pram parked at the middle of the walk way near by 225.

Saw a pair of baby legs dangling there, And the first thing that came to my mind was… WTF IS THE BABY DOING ALONE! I came down of my car and walked over and there was a boy around 3 years old looking very lost ( as if he was looking for someone ).

I asked him, where is mommy? He said mommy went to buy things..

The nearest 7-11 was a couple of minutes walk away! (Even so, you shouldn’t leave ur kid there alone in the pram).

I waited for a good 5 to 8mins before a maid came over with another boy (age ard 7) both baby and brother are Indian in case if u are wondering if its ur stroller you are seeing.

I scolded her for putting the baby there alone, and she could still argue and say because his brother is naughty and don’t want to go home so she just leave the baby there to go find the brother.

Please…. if you are the employer, I think it’s time you do something about it. If not some day you are gonna lose your kid to a word of “sorry”

P/S: Those who said I should have waited till employer came, employer wasn’t around. I have a 3yo with me too and I can’t just follow her all the way back to complain to the employer. (what if she hit/blame the kids for getting her into trouble). Then I would be the one at fault, because people would then say.. I should have known or expected it.

Anyway, each and every family has their own upbringing. NO RIGHT NO WRONG . We just have to responsible…

CAR RENTAL COMPANY LEASHES CAR WITH EXPIRED ROAD TAX & REFUSES REFUND

Rent at your own risk.

Rent a car with expired Road tax and informed on the day when grab prompt me that road tax is expired when changing vehicle in the grab apps,

Asked the company to renew it takes 2 days to renew, im driving for a living as a grab driver to feed my family, i cant drive the car for 2days for grab because of this.

Meet up with the boss, As per the Boss of the company he will compensate me 2days rental.

Upon returning the car, the boss twist the word by saying they can’t refund the money($65/day) only can extend the car. whereas my repaired car is ready to collect and my contract is only until monday (18th April 2022) with the company.

Such a disgrace to have a business point of view.

No standard at all, the money that they supposed to refund does’nt make me be poor but the service is such horrible.

Pls share so that others dont fall into their trap like me and some other people that commented in my post.