A netizen shared how her boyfriend has a really close female friend that she “doesn’t like” him being close with.

She shared that when she msgs him, he ignores her; but when his close female friend msgs him, he replies very quickly.

Here is the story:

“Hiii„ keep me anonymous thankiew!!

So my bf have this really close girl friend and they see each other every day as they r in the same sch.

I have been telling him that I don’t like him being so close with that girl (she doesn’t even know he is dating fgs) but he still doesnt wanna do anyth.

Even when he sees her notifications, he would reply quickly but when he sees mine, he doesn’t give a damn about it.

I dont even know what to do anymore man„ it’s really annoying and hurtful :11„ any advice abt it?”

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A girl took to Instagram to share how her boyfriend acts in a different way whenever he is out with his friends.

When he is out with his friends, he would tell them that they (the OP and him) are just friends but when they are alone, he would become clingy and keeping telling her that he loves her.

Here is the story:

“hi id like to remain anonymous pls

umm what does it mean when u have a bf but he acts in a certain way infront of his friends?

Like hes always saying that him and I are just friends infront of people but when we are alone, he gets clingy and says he loves me and all tht. Is he embarresed of me?

and one more thing, I asked around if other people knew we were both togther and they were completely clueless about it”

A netizen shared her story with us about her cheating ex-boyfriend who has been fooling around since a little while after Covid-19 started last year.

Here is her story

”I am working as a front-liner and have been busy since covid reached our country.

My ex-boyfriend was working as an agent in a financial services agency and we did not get to meet much as it was hard for our schedules to meet.

I first caught him cheating when he was using Tinder and he had the cheek to tell me that he was just prospecting for potential clients.

I decided to give him the benefit of doubt and even commented that some of his prospects are quite pretty.

Few weeks later, I caught him and one of the girls he swiped on Tinder in bed at his place.

He begged me for forgiveness and blamed it on the alcohol that they took while “discussing” a potential investment plan.

The third and final straw for me was when someone who I did not ever meet before came to my workplace to ask me to leave my ex as he had promised her that he would leave me for her but kept procrastinating on it.

I decided to grant them their wish and dumped the useless guy.

It is as if the Covid situation and my ex’s cheating counts are linked together because as the covid case count rises, so did my ex’s cheating counts.”

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Ladies, I need advice on what to do when you really hate a certain group of people that your partner hangs out with.

For context, i came to know from a mutual friend that these 2 friends of my boyfriend’s have been bitching about me .

My boyfriend is aware of it as well. These 2 guys are obnoxious sexists who diss their girlfriends, their friends’ girlfriends and generally almost the entire female population, and even claimed that females only exist for the purpose of reproduction. I also found out that when my boyfriend meets up with them, they bombard him with bad points about me (some are true and some are made up stories) as if they are trying to destroy our relationship.

I’m sure i have not offended them in any way, maybe just a little hostile towards them due to their narcissistic characters. While i do not wish to be the petty girlfriend who controls who my boyfriend chats/hang out with, i find myself getting bothered that he actually chose to engage with that kind of friends. Y’know when you rant to a genuine friend they will empathize and offer solutions, but this kind of friends just add oil to fire and sprout some nonsense they do not have to take responsibility for.

I openly told my boyfriend that i do not like that those friends are not respecting me and our relationship, but he kind of brushes it off. I know that i can stand up for myself by confronting the friend but at this point i do not want to do it without his knowledge first.

We have plans to BTO soon but I’m not sure if this issue will become a big problem in the future. I’m not so confident that my boyfriend will continue to love me the same if he constantly hears negative false rumours about me. What if he chooses to believe those friends instead 🙁 Thoughts?

why does women whose husband had an affair outside always only blame the 小三 (aka mistress)? When I was younger, I happened to date a married man. At first I didnt know he was married but I found out and he started to tell me the sob story about how his then-gf forced him to marry her by lying to him about being on pills.

She got pregnant and said if he doesnt marry her, she will commit suicide. But he was not happy being with her and finds her to be super controlling and psycho. I was dumb then and of course, felt sorry for him.

So we dated and eventually, his wife found out. The only truth that he said to me was that his wife is indeed a psycho. She threatened me and forced me to apologize to her. At that time, she was pregnant with their second child so I also didnt want to agitate her, so I gave in and apologize to her.

However, her husband got away with having an affair and I even heard they have a third kid soon after. Now that I am older, I wonder why did she blame me like it was my fault when it was HER husband who did her wrong.

I also heard I was not the only “affair” her husband had. He even slept with her own friends and she didn’t even find out.

So to all married women out there, if your husband is not faithful, no matter how many women you chased away, he will still find someone to cheat on you with.