What precautions should I take when getting frisky with my boyfriend while hiking.

My boyfriend and I are camping / hiking in some park (being vague) and he confessed that one of his biggest fantasies is getting blown while out hiking in nature.

I know he’s pretty clean and we’ll have plenty of wet wipes, so hygiene is not a concern.

What I am worried about is running into people there or just generally ending up in some list somewhere because someone happened to complain.

What should we do to make sure we have some fun but don’t get into trouble? Some simple tips and things to keep in mind?

Netizens’ comments

1. Don’t get lost.
   Like, don’t wander too far as to completely lose where the trail is. If you pop off the trail to the west, walk x number of feet, then place your pack (or draw an arrow or something that immediately stands out from the surrounding wilderness) facing to the east (i.e. back towards the trail you just left) of where you do the deed, that way when you’re in a post-coital haze and your brain is full of feel-good stupid chemicals, you know which direction the trail/home is.
2. that’s a) not very fun for you and b) not very ethical given the at bare minimum embarrassment and possibly trauma you’ll have caused the other person. So I think you should take reasonable precautions to make sure you are not disturbed such as
   – don’t do anything until you’re far enough into the wilderness that you rarely see other hikers – one every few hours or so at the most
   – head off the beaten track
   – stay mostly clothed so you’ll be able to hitch up your clothes and style it out in a matter of seconds
   – if you are near any sort of path find cover and check sightlines so that you’ll see an approaching hiker long before they see you, and long long before they know what you’re doing (lookout is going to be the bj recipient’s job because the bj giver won’t be able to see much).

Friends who eat out all the time and complain about being broke

Aight, here’s my thing to get off my chest.

I (M28) get so annoyed when my friends complain to me about being broke all the time. But I’ll see them post on their Instagrams all these dishes that look mid af.

Like, good for you, you went out and spent sixty dollars on a single one inch piece of salmon on a bed of rice. For sixty bucks, I can make six dishes like that at home.

I dunno if it’s just that cooking at home is a lost art, but god damn. why don’t you just do it and stop being broke?

Netizens’ comments

1. I had a roommate like that once. She got takeout 5 or 6 nights a week, then complained about being broke and gaining weight. We were cordial, but not friends, and she paid her part of the rent on time, so I just made vaguely sympathetic noises when she complained to me and figured it wasn’t my business.
2. you know i totally get what you’re saying. it can be frustrating to see friends complaining about being broke while indulging in expensive restaurant meals. cooking at home is a great way to save money especially when you have access to affordable ingredients. maybe they just need a gentle nudge in the right direction.
3. I have a friend like that. Filed for bankruptcy being -$40k in credit card debt (never owned a house or business). Asked to borrow money at least once a month, then Id see him getting crabs and eating good food. Had to stop lending him borrow money after the amount needed to borrow got greater and so did the time he can pay it back
4. I agree. I can’t believe how much people spend on food delivery too! No way I’m paying 2X the food cost to have it delivered.

I lost my v card to a 37 year old woman, and now A 14 year old girl has reached out to me claiming I’m her father.

It has been a weird couple of days for me and I need to get this off my chest. This all started on Friday when I got a Facebook message from an old colleague telling me my daughter was trying to get in contact with me, I hadn’t heard from this person in years so I was sceptical at first but I decided to hear them out.

The girl in question has recently lost her mother to cancer and the man who she though was her father turned around and told her she wasn’t his and kicked her out, she moved in with her uncle thankfully but ever since she’s been looking for her real dad.

Anyways around 15 years ago I was a naive young man barely in my 20’s working in a supermarket, when I started I was buddied up with a 37 year old woman who was drop dead gorgeous.

Like I said I was rather naive so obviously I instantly became infatuated with her easy going and tactile demeanour, sadly only a month after I started that job she handed in her notice and that spurred me to go for it and ask her out on a date.

she laughed and agreed, and so started the wildest 3 months of my life. I won’t go into details but we were intimate on a handful of occasions and I even stupidly confessed my love to her, but it was then she told me she was moving in with her fiancé which left me absolutely heartbroken.

Later a colleague would tell me that she was also seeing another guy at work at the same time she was seeing me (and cheating on her fiance).

Back to the present day and I had all but forgot about it, I have 2 kids and a very pregnant wife to think about after all, so this has somewhat knocked me sideways.

I feel for the kid having her whole world torn apart so abruptly but the thing is I don’t think I’m her father. though I was young and foolish I always used protection but there is a part of me that hopes I am, as I can provide the loving family that she is so desperately looking for.

I haven’t told my wife yet because she is 8 months pregnant with our third child and has enough to worry about but I have arranged a paternity test.

another thought that crossed my mind that she is contacting me first because I am the better prospect, as I went on to bigger and better things while the other guy still works at the same supermarket 15 years later and from what I’ve been told has a bit of a problem with alcohol.

I’m also angry at the man who raised her, playing dad all those years only to callously abandon her when she needed him the most. I’m also angry and sad that i might have missed out on so much of my potential daughters’ childhood.

the wife knows somethings up so I think I’m going to bite the bullet and tell her, I just had to get this off my chest.

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Is it me or does SG feels more and more….Dystopian?

at 30 with a pay of 5k, I can’t see myself being able to afford a house after paying for expenditures and parents for allowance.

How do other people make it? As a single, it seems like a dreary grind until death. It is dystopian how most of my friends seem to welcome death jokingly often too.

I know most would say ‘get a hobby’. am trying for that because most hobbies are just costly in sg. looking to get into a physical hobby that is healthy.

Netizens’ comments

1. Maybe more information on your expenses breakdown?
   Lots of physical activity are free or very low cost tbh, running, swimming, cycling etc.
   Have you even seen decathlon? Lots of sports equipment for sale on a decent price.
   Not to mention our nationally funded ActiveSG
2. I dunno why are people complaining with 5k salary as a single. I only got around 3k plus married with bto. Just spend within your limits? I still set aside money for gaming and hobbies though.
3. You need new and better friends. Friends who don’t indulge you in your doomer mindset. Yes yes, we are all on this earth for a few decades and then we’ll all die anyway – so why not choose to make the best of our time here instead of rolling over and dying inwardly years and years before we actually hit the grave for feal?
   Seriously if you think owning a home brings happiness or is a milestone that you’ve made it in life – I feel very sad for you.
   Life has so much to offer, and while having money certainly opens up more avenues, if it is the showstopper to your happiness, it simply means you’re not looking hard enough. So many wonderful experinces in life don’t cost even a single cent. Maybe the first step out of this is to accept and be grateful for what you do have, instead of indulging in frustrating fantasies and illusions about what you don’t/could have.

When I was around 12 I decided to be a rule-breaker and get discord.

I had no use of it until my favourite meme YouTuber at the time kept posting weird and sad threads on his YouTube community.

I decided on joining and made a lot of new friends until one day he messaged me (direct message) and sent a simple hug action.

The truth is, I said in general I wanted to jump through the doors and hug someone. But that message was for my other friend, not him.

He got confused but quickly started complimenting me and getting closer and I thought I had a really cool friend who made then hilarious content.

Soon however he started asking for good morning kisses and such. I said yes not thinking it was weird because he used the excuse he was foreign so I wouldn’t get it.

One day, when everything got bad personally he started asking me for pictures and more from me like ERP (role plays) which he got outta me. He liked my wordplay and said it was the best yank he’s ever had which made me feel gross.

Soon I got used to it, his weird schedule, getting up at lunch and staying up till 3 almost and more. he asked me to be his secret girlfriend (because he was very aware it was illegal) and I felt loved at the time because of how much we had in common. Since I moved around too quickly I never had friends.we both liked purple, cats, the same music, memes and enjoyed the park.

One day I got back online after school and noticed a strange amount of pings (the noise/ notification when someone types your tag in chat) from the server.

They were all… Congratulating me? For what?? I didn’t understand until he told me he told everyone. He also used me as a “secret” for his YouTube channel for when he reached a certain amount of subs.

I was a product, I was his doll and I couldn’t get away because he knew me. Where I lived and everything. He demanded more and more and more until my body felt too gross to go on.

12 year old me being told to shave and to dress a certain way. Our birthdays are close together, the same week. I told my mom but it’s only gotten me mocked and yelled at.

Despite the times I’ve cried, the times I’ve failed. My words finally have power against his when I got older.

My family favors the daughters more then their sons.

My parents had 4 children 2 sons and 2 daughters, they favored the women in the family, my oldest sister was taught how to drive.

But my brother and I were not the same as my sister, they forced the military mentality onto us, it was yes sir this and yes sir that.

And if we didn’t do what my father said he would get extremely angry and start throwing things and hitting us.

And when my brother and I hit the age of 16, we were neglected, my brother and I became dropouts later on.

I was 14 and my brother was 16 at the time and they just stopped we just basically became free labor for them and still are now.

My youngest sister is 12 years old and they treat her like she a angel even though she spoiled and disrespectful to her mother.

My brother and I have been through hell and back together and we plan on leaving together and never looking back.

I honestly feel jealous of other teenagers because their parents actually try for them.