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S’PORE DESIGNER EARNS $2K/MTH, 2 YEARS LATER SALARY HAVEN’T HIT $3K, “IS IT NORMAL”

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Singapore designers, how are your career progession?

Some background info: I am a diploma holder with 2k starting salary. Hop over to a local creative studio after 1.5 years. Now coming to 2 years in current studio but salary haven’t even hit 3k

While I appreciate to have different exposure(advertising, video, branding, motion graphic) in a creative studio, the unpaid OT culture is pretty toxic.

Sometimes I wonder if its normal for a designer to have slow career progession. Hope to hear more from my fellow designers 🙂

Netizens’ comments

  1. I’m a degree holder and my starting pay back in 2013 was 2.2k lol. They don’t really care about your paper qualifications imo, it’s more about your portfolio.
    • (OP) it’s really building portfolio and the working experience that counts. Now coming 3.5years working as designer, starting to feel burn out not gonna lie. 
  2. hey i’m a fresh poly grad looking at full-time jobs for graphic design with video-editing/motion graphics, may i know what is a good monthly salary to start with?
    I’ve requested for 2.7k / 2.8k per month but a lot of companies asked if it’s negotiable (to which i said yes) but haven’t received a price from them yet.
    I feel that 2k is quite low imo, even for a fresh poly grad…I feel that 2.5k and above per month fits my expectations.
  3. Unfortunately ‘unpaid OT/pitch rush’ is still a thing. And in a smaller company, designers tend to be ‘bao ka liao’. Social media, copy writing, shoots etc. you learn on the job but also many things that’s outta the jobscope. Idk about now, but my career progression happened when I job hunt. Meaning I look for a higher position with each new job because waiting for promotion in agencies feels..slow. I hope things have improved since then!
  4. Does having a degree in the design industry help you land roles in MNC companies?

GUY TELLS GF “DON’T TELL OTHERS WE ARE DATING”, HER FATHER IS THREATENING TO KILL HIM

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My [25M] GF[21F]’s dad is a control freak and threatened to murder me if I didn’t break up with his daughter.

I told her if she wants to continue the relationship she needs to stop mentioning that we’re dating to any of her friends (who are in contact with dad), but she continued to. Help

Basically I told GF that she can’t mention that we’re still dating to any of her family because it goes up to dad and he gets pissed off.

I’ve already blocked him wherever possible as he’s sent several threats and tells me he’s got “a thing” in his daughter’s room and knows we’re still talking.

I think that’s just bluff and he only knew because we would have calls and GF’s mom and brother (who live separate from dad) heard and reported it to him.

Now we only text but apparently she told her friend that we’re still dating. I’m at my wit’s end because I told her many times to stop antagonizing her dad and yet she continues to.

Should I break up with her? I can’t be dealing with the family crap anymore. I’m supposed to go visit in a few months but I’m not sure I want to know her dad or his goons might come after me.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Yeah, the juice is not worth the squeeze here. I’d dip out before things get even messier. She’s probably half dating you just to make her dad angry.
  2. Yes you should break up with her. A father that threatens to kill you is crazy town. How on earth is she not going to be messed up from that. Your gf can become your wife pretty quick, and you don’t want to marry into that. That’s a show stopper for me. You want to spend your holidays and special occasions with that clown show?
  3. Your options are to dump her or try and get a restraining order against her dad.
  4. One thing is obvious: hiding the relationship from her dad is not going to be an effective strategy long term. You planning on not inviting him to the wedding? I think he’ll notice.

BARTENDER EARNS $6/HR BUT MADE TO DO EVERYTHING, BOSS THREATENS TO FIRE HIM

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I’m going to be fired on Monday.

I run a small bar and I’m made to decide everything except pay lol. I have a general manager who works on average 10 hours per week.

I have an owner who I’ve never seen do a single thing other than drink beer by the gallon. Sometimes the tips are even good enough that I don’t complain about being paid $6 dollars an hour.

I now find out we are closed every Monday and Tuesday for spring cleaning. By the staff. For $6 dollars an hour. For 10 hours. For two days!

Myself and the other night bartender have said absolutely not, and we have been told we will be terminated if we do not show.

On the bright side this has given me a week to job hunt, and boy is there a lot of opportunities out there right now.

I’ve already had two interviews and have another two tomorrow. One of them during the hours I am scheduled to work. Wouldn’t you know it, I think I feel a sickness coming on.

Netizens’ comments

  1. tell them that if they fire you then you will not come to work anymore
  2. Cleaning is difficult. Why would they underpay?
  3. Guess he’ll be having fun doing that cleaning himself, or paying a professional 10x that amount to do it.
  4. be straight up honest. Tell them you have interviews and that the current pay is simply just not worth your time anymore. If you’re gonna get fired for not cleaning don’t bother making an excuse to please them lol
  5. Go and sit around. Bring a feather duster and casually use it. If you don’t show they could just say that “you quit”. Go and make them fire you.
  6. Congratulations.
    This is an excellent example of how working people can do very well when they reach out to see what‘s out there, rather than simply endure.
    Don’t be afraid to pick up your labour and sell it to someone else when the market allows… such as right now in many places.

BF TELLS GF HE WILL NEVER MARRY HER BECAUSE IF DIVORCE, SHE WILL TAKE ALL HIS MONEY

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My boyfriend (M-26) doesn’t believe in marriage, because it “incentivises me” (F-25) to “divorce him and take all of his money”??

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I have been beyond happy with our relationship. He truly is the love of my life, and I have never been this in love with anyone before.

For the past 2 years I have been waiting for him to propose to me, when we would go on beautiful vacations I would get my hopes up extremely high, and I would end up being so utterly disappointed when he wouldn’t propose, that I would be holding back tears for days after.

I couldn’t handle this emotional roller coaster pattern anymore, and I finally asked him when he was going to propose to me. It felt like my heart was going to stop from shock when he responded by simply saying “never”.

After a long and heart wrenching conversation he explained that he “never planned to propose” to me, because he doesn’t believe in marriage, it incentives women to divorce their husbands and take all of their money”.

I honestly don’t know what to do from here, and I am completely heartbroken. Any advice??

Netizens’ comments

  1. Regardless of his reasoning he’s decided against ever getting married, so now you have to decide how important marriage is to you. You can decide to stay with him without marriage and be ok with that, or leave him to find another great guy who wants marriage too. Sticking around hoping to change his mind would be unfair to you both.
  2. So offer to get a prenuptial agreement. I’m guessing he’d have another excuse then.
  3. I think this should have been a conversation about 2-3 years ago to be honest so I’m sorry you assumed you were on the same page. No sarcasm or meanness intended! But I wouldn’t be able to stay with someone where I wanted marriage and they didn’t. You don’t need to stay with him because of 5 years of time, you can find someone less bitter and in the future, do try to talk about expectations sooner rather than later. 🙂
  4. Leave? If you want to get married you won’t to him. Call it a day on this man

XIAXUE DIVORCES FROM ANGMOH HUSBAND AFTER 17 YEARS – “WE HAD A GOOD RUN”

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Singaporean blogger Wendy Cheng, also known as Xiaxue, announced in an Instagram post on Wednesday evening (5 April) that she had ended her marriage with her husband Mike Sayre.

She revealed that they had been separated for a long time now, and will focus on co-parenting their son Dash moving forward.

She said in a lengthy Instagram post that she captioned “a note from Mike and Wendy”:

“After 17 years of being together, Mike and I have decided, mutually and amicably, to end our marriage. This announcement may come as a surprise to many of you, but we have actually been separated for a long time now.

We both took a long time to come to this decision, and it’s not an easy one to make. This may not be the fairytale ending that everyone wishes for, but 17 years is a long time and we had a good run with loads of love, happiness and memories we formed together.

Unfortunately nothing lasts forever. Our focus now is on co-parenting Dash and continuing to support each other as we move forward in separate lives.

To my ex husband, my partner in crime all these years and the father of my child, I wish you nothing but happiness for your future. Despite things ending this way, I never regretted picking you.

To all of you followers who have been here with us all these years, I’m sorry that this love story has come to an end. During this time, I know I sound cliched, but we would like to seek some privacy.

Separation is difficult, but it’s so much worse when you have to tell it to so many people – about a decision that technically has nothing to do with them.”

Got married 13 years ago

Xiaxue and her now ex-husband, American engineer Mike Sayre, first tied the knot back in 2010 and she gave birth to their son Dashiel Sayre 3 years later in 2013.

Images source: @xiaxue on Instagram

WOMAN CHARGED $608 FOR LOBSTER NOODLES, STAFF SAYS BECAUSE IT’S FROM AUSTRALIA

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A woman in Singapore, Stephanie, shared that she was charged a whopping $608 for a plate of lobster noodles at Paradise Teochew Restaurant.

She told STOMP that she had visited the restaurant at Ngee Ann City with her companions to celebrate her father’s birthday on 1 April, spending a total of $3,050.67 for about 12 people.

She said that she had ordered the lobster la mian, along with a few other dishes, which she described as only being “so-so” and not up to her expectations.

However, she highlighted the exorbitant price of the lobster noodles, which set her back $608.

She said that the staff allegedly told her that it was because the lobster was from Australia, and that’s why it was more expensive.

Stephanie added that the staff should have told her how much it was per gram at the start when she recommended the dish to her, and that she didn’t advise her on the prices first before taking their orders.

She added that the presentation of the noodles also came deshelled without the lobster head, tail or shell; and that there was no proof to show that the lobster was fresh.

She said that it might have been a frozen lobster for all she knows.

On her experience with the restaurant, she said that she advises people who want to frequent that “atas” restaurant to check the prices first before placing an order.

Restaurant responds

A spokesperson for Paradise Teochew Restaurant responded to the woman and said that they were sorry for any miscommunication.

They claimed that they only use fresh live whole lobsters and not frozen ones.

They said that they are sorry to hear about the customer’s unpleasant experience and “would like to extend our sincere apologies.”

They apologised for any miscommunication that may have arisen from the pricing of the dish, and added that while they do indicate the fixed price of premium Australian lobsters in their menu, they “understand” that not all customers may be aware.

They added that they will be “reviewing” their staff training protocols to make sure that all their customers are provided with complete information about their menu pricing.

On the deemed-subpar appearance of the dish, they said that they “understand that the customer may have expected a whole lobster,” and that they “regret any disappointment caused.”

WOMAN WHO LOST HER LEG IN PASIR RIS HORROR ACCIDENT, CRIES WHILE TESTIFYING IN COURT

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It was reported yesterday that 61-year-old SBS Transit bus driver Tan Phuay Khoo, who was previously charged for an accident on 19 January 2021 along Pasir Ris, that resulted in a 33-year-old woman being knocked down and sustaining serious injuries, resulting in her left leg being amputated.

He had pleaded not guilty in court for causing grievous hurt by driving without reasonable consideration for other persons using the road.

The victim, 33-year-old Bai, was called to the witness stand by the prosecution on the second day of the trial against the bus driver, according to Shin Min Daily News.

Traffic light’s green man was on at the time

Bai testified that on the day of the horror accident, she was on her way to the supermarket to buy some groceries.

She said that she had started crossing the road at the time when the green man on the traffic light was flashing before she heard a bang. She said that the next moment, she found herself on a hospital bed.

On her serious leg injuries, she said that her left was amputated from her thigh down after the accident, and her right leg was also fractured and had to be surgically reconstructed.

As such, she is no longer able to walk up or down stairs; or run, jump and squat without assistance.

She also said that she is not willing to go out anymore because she felt that she had become a different person now.

The victim also broke down while testifying in court, revealing that she has a 10-year-old daughter and sharing that she is worried about going out with her daughter after the accident.

She said that she is afraid of the weird looks that she gets from the public and fears it would be too much for her daughter, adding that she is worried about her daughter’s future.

The victim’s mother who was sitting in the public gallery of the courtroom, also broke down after seeing her daughter crying on the stand.

Bus driver maintains he had kept a proper lookout

The bus driver Tan Phuay Khoo’s lawyer, cross-examined the case investigation officer on 4 April, and argued that Tan had kept a proper lookout for road users when turning right with his bus.

The lawyer pointed out that Tan was seen in CCTV footage from his bus looking out for traffic and checking if the vehicle would hit the road divider.

The investigation officer agreed that the driver might have displayed reasonable consideration for road users, however, he still knocked down the woman.

The hearing into the case continues.

DRUNK MAN WHO PUNCHED CLEANER AT RUBBISH BIN CENTRE IN CIRCUIT RD, JAILED

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62-year-old Mohdmed Kassiah P. N. Sha was sentenced to 1-month imprisonment after pleading guilty to a charge of voluntarily causing hurt.

He had verbally and physically assaulted 20-year-old cleaner Ahammed Siyam, punching his chest in the process.

Another charge under the Protection from Harassment Act was considered for her sentence.

The victim’s employer, NRT Trading and Engineering, was engaged by Marine Parade Town Council to clean the estate, according to the State Prosecuting Office (SPO) Lim Yeow Leong.

What happened?

On 9 March at about 11.15 am, the victim was washing the toilets at Block 89 Circuit Road with his 48-year-old father Mr Babul Abdul Aziz, who was supervising.

The two Bangladeshi nationals then spotted Kassian sitting nearby, suspecting that he was collecting money from the people who were using the toilets.

Babul approached the man and told him to leave, but he later returned and attacked Ahammed at the Rubbish Bin Centre.

Ahammed was punched but didn’t fight back and called his father (the supervisor) for help.

However, Kassiah (the assailant) then called the police instead, claiming that he was attacked by two people at Block 88 Circuit Road.

Police officers later interviewed the assailant, who claimed that the victim and his father had assaulted him for “no reason” instead.

But the police officers noted that Kassiah was reeking of alcohol at the time and couldn’t provide any material facts of the alleged assault that he claimed, and was incoherent in his speech. His allegation of assault was also not substantiated.

The assailant was attended to by a paramedic, complaining that he had stomach pain and that he had too much to drink earlier, but refused to be conveyed to the hospital in an ambulance.

Meanwhile, the victim, Ahammed, sought medical treatment at a polyclinic in Geylang and was found to have suffered a mild chest wall contusion, and was given one day of medical leave.

The assailant, Kassiah, was subsequently arrested on 11 March.

Tin Pei Ling previously shared about the incident

Member of Parliament Tin Pei Ling shared on her Instagram about an incident at Macpherson, where a HDB cleaner was “hunted down” by a “likely intoxicated” man and punched in the chest.

The incident happened on 9 March late at night, at the void deck of Block 87 Circuit Road.

Tin said that the cleaners at the estate had been harassed by the man for a while now, and the harassment continued even on the day of Tin’s block visits.

She said that when the head cleaner of the estate, Babul, stepped in to defend his cleaner, the man then allegedly hunted down one of the cleaners and punched him in the chest.

Tin revealed that the victim was also Babul’s son, and that he was hurt by the incident emotionally; Tin appealed to residents to be kind and said the cleaners don’t deserve to be treated like that.

The Singapore Police Force is investigating the incident, and the assailant is described as being a man in his 60s who often drinks beer around the estate.

Tin Pei Ling’s Instagram post

Sth unfortunate happened today in MacPherson. Sharing the story here to raise awareness and hopefully, we can spread greater kindness towards those who work hard to earn an honest living.

Babul is an extremely hardworking man. He is very friendly and helpful, always on the ground to clean our estate and running around to check as well. Residents who know him have all praised him to me. Hence, I am very much saddened to know of what happened to him and his son today.

To all who have offered your well wishes to Babul, thank you! I have conveyed to him as well

RIVER VALLEY AXE KILLER WHO HACKED SEC 1 BOY TO DEATH, SET TO PLEAD GUILTY IN HIGH COURT

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A River Valley High School student who was charged with killing a 13-year-old boy in school with an axe, is set to plead guilty at the High Court later this year, in August, according to Channel NewsAsia.

The now-18-year-old is facing a charge of culpable homicide not amounting to murder, after his previous murder charge was downgraded.

His case was heard at a district court earlier today (6 April), with the district judge transferring the case to the High Court where the boy will be pleading guilty.

He was seen in court wearing a mask and sporting a shaved head, and his identity cannot be revealed due to a court order.

The 18-year-old had told the prosecution in a case conference last month (21 March) that he will be intending to plead guilty.

The court was informed by Deputy Public Prosecutor Sean Teh that a tentative date for the plea of guilty has been fixed on 7 August, with defence lawyer Joyce Khoo confirming that her client will be pleading guilty.

Recap

The 18-year-old River Valley High School student who allegedly hacked a 13-year-old boy to death with an axe inside a 4th-floor school toilet was previously charged with murder.

The then-16-year-old has since had his murder charge downgraded to culpable homicide not amounting to murder on 24 February.

The teen appeared in court on 24 February via a video link from his place of remand, wearing a white shirt and a face mask, and sporting a shaven head.

According to Singapore Statutes Online, culpable homicide is not considered murder when “the offender whilst deprived of the power of self-control by grave and sudden provocation, causes the death of the person who gave the provocation, or causes the death of any other person by mistake or accident”.

The reason for the downgrade was not disclosed.

If convicted, the teen faces a life imprisonment sentence with caning or up to 20 years jail with a fine or caning.

Background

The 16-year-old boy from River Valley High School was charged on 20 July 2021 with the murder of a 13-year-old schoolmate.

As the defendant is under 18 he cannot be named.

The defendant is accused of the murder which happened between 11.16 AM and 11.44 AM, inside a toilet on the 4th floor of Block D of the school. According to the prosecutor, the defendant was previously “treated” at the Institute of Mental Health.

The police received a call for help at the school at about 11.40am on 19 July 2021, and the victim was found with multiple wounds at the toilet, lying motionless.

The deceased was allegedly slashed on the head, neck and body with an axe that measured 50cm by 22cm on the day of the murder.

He was subsequently pronounced dead at the scene, and the axe was also seized as a case exhibit.

Investigations revealed that the victim and the alleged killer didn’t know each other, and that the boy bought the axe online.

Student saw axe dripping with blood

In yet another leaked Whatsapp message detailing the attack at River Valley High School that left a Secondary 1 boy dead, a girl was alleged to be the first to see the perpetrator.

The message appears to be a conversation between a parent and another identified party.

The parent detailed that the daughter was the first to see the attacker because the incident allegedly happened in front of her classroom.

She allegedly saw the boy (attacker) holding the axe dripping with blood, and his shoes were also allegedly drenched in blood.

Panicked students messaged their parents

A series of leaked Whatsapp messages allegedly from River Valley High School students detailing the “knife attack” at their school, circulated on Whatsapp

One of the students said that there was a male student holding a “v big axe (SIC)” outside their classroom, and that he looks crazy.

They shared that everyone was “damn scared” and that there was “literally blood dripping”.

In the other screenshot, it appears to be a conversation between a student and his/her parents.

The student corroborated the accounts of the first screenshot, saying that he/she saw a boy holding an axe.

The student alleged that three girls from his/her class saw a sec 3 boy at the water cooler washing away blood.

He saw them and asked them if they had a phone, because he “killed someone”.

The student said that classes 1H and 1G were hiding in the co-room.

The parent then replied “keep yourself safe”, and asked “can we fetch you now?”

WIFE REGRET HAVING BABY AS HUSBAND DID NOT HELP HER TAKE CARE CHILD AT ALL

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Husband refused to help with baby…

I was just wondering if this is normal in all married couples? That the husband regretted having a baby.

Hubby and I are married for 3 years now. We just welcome a baby 6 months back. We have everything planned out. Since we are both working, we get our parents to babysit when we work and we’ll take over after we ended work. As for weekend, we take turns to take care of the baby and do housework. We agreed that we both can get a weekend “off” every 2 or 3 months and we’ll get our parents to babysit.

At first, things are going well. about a month back, he started to complain about waking up at night to feed/coax the baby. He said he is tired and feels “overwhelmed”. He wished to go out during the weekend and hinted me to take care of the baby alone. I told him it’s ok to take one weekend off to work on himself. He went out drinking with his friends that weekend, got home drunk and needed me to take care of him as well as the baby. The hangover left him irritable the next day so it’s me doing almost everything alone again. The next weekend, he make plans to go out with his friends again, I told him it isn’t fair and I have been taking care of the baby for the whole week because he refused to get up on his shift. He cancelled the plan unwillingly.

He was very perfunctory when doing the housework. I actually caught him just mopping some of the “main” areas of the room and then claim it’s done. When the baby cries, he was reluctant to get away from his phone or he will wait for me to go first because he knows I care a lot about the baby.

I talked to him and his response was that he didn’t expect that having a baby can be so tiring and that there must be so much sacrifices.

I told him it’s our joint decision and our responsibilities as parents. He kept citing his sacrifices, as if I didn’t make a single sacrifice! In the end the conversation just ended with no solution as both of us felt “wronged”.

I am honestly hurt by how he seems to push all the responsibility to me when we both are working. At the same time, am wondering is it normal for husbands to regret having a baby?