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GIRL SAYS SHE GOT DRUNK & “LOST HER BODY” AFTER DRINKING

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Im bipolar and currently unmedicated at the moment. I hate trying to hide behind my disorder, but I always put myself in the most horrible and obviously dumb situations. A 20-year-old (at the time) who took my V when I was 16, had stopped talking to me for about 3 years and sent me a friend request on Facebook about 5 days ago.

I didn’t really think about why he sent me a request but I had been going out and partying a lot in my manic state. He told me to call him and he apologizes for some things that happened in the past.

He had mentioned he had alcohol which was my sole purpose for getting together with him.

I thought it’d be okay if I told him I wanted to hang out as a friend. I was taking shot after shot and I eventually got tired and laid down. We were watching the movie he put on and he pulled me under him and started kissing my neck.

I started to consent while I was drunk, after a second I kinda wanted it to stop but didn’t say anything.

I ended up blacking out completely while he was on top of me but he told me he kept going until he decided not to anymore due to me blacking out the next morning.

If I were sober I wouldn’t have wanted to have sex and once I sobered up I started to comprehend more and more that he still had sex with me when I was unconscious. I’ve been a mess ever since.

I have more sense than to do this but I feel like my mental health just puts me in a state to make decisions like this one, and it messed me up even worse.

Has anyone ever been through something similar?

MAN USED TO LIKE MEN, DREAMT OF WOMEN & WANTS TO TRY CHANGING

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I could like woman too. I’m coming from an extremely conservative and homophobic family. Since I’m 11 I experienced the weird male attraction. I started to aim after the male attention because it was the only approval I got.

For my body, my appearance, and my “adult” behaviour. I got groomed so bad, that I just recently understood (I’m 24 now) why I felt secure around people who treated me badly and left me with guilt because “I could have known better”.

Till this day I am struggling so hard with setting boundaries and defending them, it’s ridiculous. But also understandable for me (therapy actually did something).

I never really had any closer interaction with woman. For the longest time my internalized misogyny caused just more pain for me and other woman. I got jealous so fast and I always feared that other woman would take away my place in a group.

That I’m going to be unimportant. This happened in the past with my stepmother, who wanted me out of their family and in the end succeeded. I ended up being alone without my parents and a lot of men took advantage of that.

Over the last month I frequently thought about women and how it would be. I don’t like to label myself, I just keep every option and see what’s about to come.

I don’t know if I can be in a relationship with a woman. I don’t think so. Last night I had a dream. I was getting close with a woman. We didn’t have S but I was touching her body and I really liked that. Now the thoughts of a woman are again fresh out of the oven. Maby in a couple of month, when I’m a bit more stable and grounded,

I’ll give it a try. Of course while being open and honest what I’m expecting and looking for. I’m looking for an experience.

My last relationships sucked. One was manipulative, the other one didn’t care about using rubber that much. I wanna see something new. My whole life I got restricted or restricted myself.

Just some thoughts. I’m going through a tough time currently and trying to find my own path.

RICH MAN TOLD THAT HE IS A GOLD DIGGER CAUSE HE WANTS A WIFE OF THE SAME STATUS

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I a 38y.o guy am recently divorced. I was hanging out with a group of friends on Saturday who I haven’t seen in a while, and my divorce was an inevitable topic of conversation. My ex and I split amicably with no nasty court case or anything, and most of the questions were about what happened, and why.

Eventually, questions came up about me dating again. I wouldn’t say that I’m ready to start dating yet, but the conversation was more about what I would look for in a partner.

One of the things I mentioned is that I’d ideally want someone who was career-focused, professional, and made good money. Most understood, but one person there in particular who seemed to take issue was Alice. She isn’t a close friend of mine and I’ve only met her a couple of times, but she was good friends with others who were there.

Alice tells me that money and career should never be part of the criteria when it comes to romantic partners. She continues that if I only choose to date people with money, then I’m no better than gold-digging women who marry for money.

For context, I’m a pretty ambitious professional with a career that I’ve been working very hard on for years, and make a little over 200k/year. My ex is a baker by profession and was pretty burnt out by the time we met. We were together for nearly 10 years, and I supported her financially for that entire time. She didn’t really have any career ambition which made it hard for her to empathize or relate to mine.

I tried to explain to Alice that it wasn’t the same, and that after the experience with my ex it was more about finding someone I can relate to, who I won’t end up having to financially support. She counters that rejecting someone who might be a lovely person just because they don’t make enough money makes me a bad person.

TWISTED EX-WIFE WANT GO COURT, AS EX-HUSBAND’S NEW GF HELP CUT HER DAUGHTER’S HAIR

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Background: I know i’m the bad one here. My ex husband and I separated in October 2019. We had three kids over the course of 14 years, but neither of us were happy, nor had we been intimate for almost a year.

My children, current ages 15M, 10F, 6M, reside with their father, even though we have joint legal/physical custody. Kids wanted to stay in their childhood home and not change schools. This is an area that’s completely unaffordable for a single person, so I had to move a few hours away as I am paying him child support.

I met and fell in love with a wonderful man, who I am still with today, but, yes, I did cheat as technically I was still married.

My children met this man in April 2020 approx. six months after we started dating. Fast forward six months to October 2020, my now ex-husband (quick divorce due to it being uncontested and during COVID), is dating my boyfriend’s ex-wife.

Eight months later, he moved her and her three children (10F, 8M, 6M) into the house with my kids. Just a bit of info, this woman received a cash settlement of $250K+ during the divorce, so no, she’s not hurting for money and gets another $2500 a month in child support plus in addition to the $1700 I pay.

The issues:

My ex-husband refuses to let me have my children for half of the June holidays, even though they WANT to come and stay with me. The new GF and ex insist that my boyfriend and I get our kids at the same time, even though my kids want to have alone time with me, without these kids. Ex and GFs excuse is they want to go on a vacation.

I feel like we pay them enough, that it’s not our responsibility to coordinate with them so that they can go on a trip (ex-MIL has lived in the house since 2017 as well). They can obviously afford a babysitter or drive/fly their kids to a relative for a week. My parents live 1 hour away and would be happy to watch mine.

I picked my children up at the airport on Wednesday and my daughter’s hair had been cut – probably 10cm off the back. My ex promised me many times via text during the past year that he would NEVER let his GF cut my daughters hair (as she cuts her own kids).

I was devastated as it looks awful (this is a person who shouldn’t quit her day job) and when I asked my daughter (I didn’t make much of the issue because I didn’t want her to think I was upset), she said it was because the GF couldn’t get her hair into a bun before the ballet recital, so off it went.

I confronted my ex, he said his mom was supposed to take her to get it cut, but didn’t, and since I wasn’t around, he said fine. My own mother went to this recital and drove my daughter back and forth.

A simple phone call and she could have taken her to a salon prior. If not, I picked my daughter up two days later… they couldn’t have waited? The ex MIL knew how upset I was going to be.. yet GF and ex did it anyway. I have many stories like this, but ex says I’m the person overreacting.

Should I go to court?

GIRL GOT BF BUT STILL WANTS MALE COLLEAGUE TO TEXT HER DAILY

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Male colleague texts me everyday even though I have a bf

I’m a female. Last year I was shortlisted by my boss to work on a few months project with other dept colleagues. During the project, I became close with a male colleague. Ever since we get close he text me almost everyday to chat. We can chat everything under the sun.

It has been 1 year already. Now I crave for his text, if I did not receive his text, I miss him a lot. I wonder why he did not text me that day, is it cos he is too busy.

Sometimes I wonder why he put in so much effort to keep the conversation going with me. I try to find out if he likes me. But I think the answer is no. Is he bored? I think yes, but he can always find another person to chat also right?

I wanted to stop the daily texting with him. But I have already enjoy his text so much that if I ignore his text, I will hurt myself emotionally. He is a nice guy. I will hurt him as well. I believe no one wants to be ignored when u text the person right?

The reason why I want to stop the daily texting is because he is not my bf, hence I do not wish to continue but I also enjoy his attention when he text me haha. Anyone experience the same thing? How do u manage?

MOTHER DEMANDS MONEY TO GO FOR PLASTIC SURGERY

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My mother is in her mid 50’s and she’s well capable of working. She hasn’t worked an actual job in about 13 years because she expects all of her kids to basically give her an allowance for her to do whatever she wants.

Every time I give her money she needs some more the day after and she always has “financial issues” she needs to fix. She even went to Korea last year in November to get surgery for her butt and waist(plastic surgery not medical) and expected all her children to send her a thousand dollars but none of us complied so she had to ask a friend to let her borrow money. (Which now she wants us to help her pay it back but we are still not falling for it)

Like I mentioned before she’s well capable of having a job but chooses not to.

She expects her 4 children to take care of her but we have our own responsibilities and financial hardships. It bothers me the most because since she is a narcissistic manipulator and knows I’m the easiest one to manipulate she loves to put all her burdens on me because she thinks I will help her do it.

But I am tired of her taking advantage of only me out of all her children and always asking me for money and favors. AITA for no longer allowing her to juice me and take advantage of me? For some context, I am 24 and married (and pregnant) My little sister is 17 ( but part time employed and studying) and my two big brothers are in their early 30’s and they’re married and they have children)

 

 

MAN TOOK PLANE FOR FIRST TIME, ASKED IF HE NEEDS TO BRING A PARACHUTE

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A netizen shared a story online after bringing his employee overseas for work.

He shared that the employee did not take a plane before and asked all sorts of questions that makes no sense or were just absolutely hilarious.

Here is the story:

This happened just as the borders start to open and I had to travel to the states with my employee who I hired about 6 months ago.

When I told him about the trip he said he had to seek permission from his mother, for context he is 27.

I told him “If your mother tells you, you can’t go your fired and you will personally get a 1 year supply of diapers from me”.

Yeah, I know I sound mean but we often joke like that in the office.

So he eventually got his mother to consent to the trip and he started to ask me what is allowed or not allowed in the luggage.

He then popped a question: “Do I need to bring a parachute?”.

His tone was not joking! I answered him “Maybe you can tell me where got sell parachute? Maybe you can try NTUC or Sheng Siong”.

He nodded as he had no idea I was being sarcastic, I quickly told him there are no parachutes and he started to panic.

I eventually cleared the “education session” of flying with him and we were on the plane.

When the plane was taking off, he wet himself and started shaking. I had to tell him several times that it is completely normal but he was going to burst into panic mode soon.

I ordered alcohol as soon as the service starts and I made him drunk asap. So I don’t have to watch him.

We eventually landed and the first thing he did was to change his pants, during the whole flight the smell was just unbearable.

He did try to dry his pants in the toilet but it only made it worse.

MAN STEALS BEER AT YISHUN, BRINGS OWN EMPTY PLASTIC BAG TO STEAL

LOOKING FOR SUSPECTED SHOPLIFTER.

PLEASE HELP ME SHARE THIS OUT!

The pass few times I did this, all suspects came back and paid off and didnt went into police record the intention is to have them come back and pay off their mistakes.

Friends who know this person please kindly private message me.

Was contacted by an IO of SPF and was highlighted of this particular person but wasn’t made known of what the backstory was about. But when requested of the timings and exact clearer videos and photos of the particular timing the IO requested we did just that and took notice of the person.

Sadly today on 15/06/2022 at 1.07pm today, this suspect actually appeared into my family business with an empty plastic bag and openly shoplifted from our store. In the video as you can see my staff was trying to make sure he has concrete proof of this person had confirmed shoplifted from the store so called me up and requested to check the cctv feeds.

Upon confirmation that the suspect had shoplifted total of 6 cans of beer, I contacted the IO about this person appearing at my shop and was apparently replied saying that I have to call and make a new case.

Hence I have to take this step to show the power of social media, that I can get the compensation of the item that has been taken from my shop.

LOOKING FOR SUSPECTED SHOPLIFTER.

PLEASE HELP ME SHARE THIS OUT!

The pass few times I did this, all suspects came back and paid off and didnt went into police record the intention is to have them come back and pay off their mistakes.

Friends who know this person please kindly private message me.

Was contacted by an IO of SPF and was highlighted of this particular person but wasn’t made known of what the backstory was about. But when requested of the timings and exact clearer videos and photos of the particular timing the IO requested we did just that and took notice of the person.

Sadly today on 15/06/2022 at 1.07pm today, this suspect actually appeared into my family business with an empty plastic bag and openly shoplifted from our store. In the video as you can see my staff was trying to make sure he has concrete proof of this person had confirmed shoplifted from the store so called me up and requested to check the cctv feeds.

Upon confirmation that the suspect had shoplifted total of 6 cans of beer, I contacted the IO about this person appearing at my shop and was apparently replied saying that I have to call and make a new case.

Hence I have to take this step to show the power of social media, that I can get the compensation of the item that has been taken from my shop.

CCTV Footage:

TWO UNCLES ARGUING ON THE BUS, “F UR MAMA CB” ALL TALK NO ACTION

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Commuting on public transport is a day-to-day thing for many people, but a fight is something we don’t see every day.

A video was posted on social media after two men were seen having a heated argument with another passenger on the bus.

It is unclear how the fight started but the two of them seem to have a swell of a time cursing each other with ‘colourful’ languages.

The man wearing a cap took a very aggressive stance and insulted the other man’s mother and even point at his face

The offence of public nuisance, under Section 290 of the Penal Code, carries an imprisonment term of up to three months, a fine of up to $2,000, or both.

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SG MAID SAYS SHE HAS 3 HOUSES, 2 LANDS, 1 BEACH HOUSE & A CAR

With so many kinds of professions in the world, one would think that the only way to have several properties is to be a businessman or to have a senior title in a company such as a CEO and Director.

However, a woman working in Singapore as a maid shares her side of the story.

A video was uploaded on Tiktok where a Filipino woman was seen telling everyone how her earnings as a maid have transformed her life in the Philippines.

She stated how she managed to purchase 3 houses, 2 lands, 1 beach house and a car as well. She said that even though she was a maid in Singapore, she still managed to do well in the Philippines.

Analyse what she said

In Singapore, the average maid’s salary is around $600 a month and from living expenses in Singapore, at least another $200 is deducted such as mobile phone line and other daily needs.

With that said if she were to save every single cent she made, she would have at least accumulated S$4,800 in a year and working in 3 years would be around S$14,400.

S$14,400 is around 561,158 pesos (According to Google exchange rates).

The following screenshot shows that cities that are out of Manila are definitely affordable with her salary in Singapore.

If she worked here and accumulated every single cent, she probably can buy at least 7 to 8 houses

Screenshot from dotproperty.com.ph

Video of Maid saying she owns multiple properties.

One can only think if there is a country where Singaporeans can go and work and return with the capability to buy multiple properties.

I highly doubt so.