The husband invited a 47-year-old man into his home to watch him have sexual intercourse with the wife.
A husband who failed to fulfill his “bedroom duties” as he was not able to sustain an erection asked his colleague to do the deed.
The 47-year-old man has since pleaded guilty and been jailed 3 years.
Back story:
The husband has been married to his wife for over 28 years and they have three children. The husband eventually got closed with his colleague and shared fantasies of wanting someone to watch him do it with his wife.
The man even gave the husband the idea of him doing it with his wife and the husband did not say no to his idea.
They planned and eventually committed the crime.
The husband gave her wife a drug to make her go to sleep, as his wife was unconscious and blindfolded without her clothes on. The husband let his colleague into his home to watch him do it.
However, as the husband was unable to do sustain an erection he told his colleague to do it.
The man started to go all over the victim’s body while the husband stood aside and watch “the show”.
How they got caught:
The wife suddenly awake and took off her blindfold and discovered an unknown man was trying to have sex with her.
The man escaped from the home and the husband was interoggated by his wife and the story came to light.
Following the viral video of the 11 cyclists who chased down a driver on their bicycles and confronted him for honking at them, another has since video emerged online.
The latest video shows the PHV driver alighting from his vehicle to address the confrontation from the errant cyclists.
He was seen coming out of his car and challenging the cyclists to “come ah”, while holding onto his phone and filming them.
The incident was purportedly sparked off by the group of 11 errant cyclists, who were blatantly flouting cycling rules by riding in a group of more than 5 bikes in length.
They then blocked the left turn on the road because they couldn’t decided where they wanted to go, and the driver then honked at them.
The group then chased down the driver on their bicycles to confront him, and they confronted him with one of them hitting the bonnet of his car.
Potential penalties
From 1 Jan 2022, a new regulation will also kick in – cycling groups must not exceed the maximum length of 5 bicycles (or ten cyclists when riding two abreast where permitted).
Errant on-road cyclists will also face a higher composition fine of $150 with effect from 1 Jan 2022.
A netizen posted on social media recently to complain about a black motorcar which has been parking illegally on a double yellow line near the bin centre, resulting in the garbage truck not able to reverse in properly to collect rubbish.
According to pictures taken and posted up by the netizen, the car has been doing this not only once but in fact twice.
The netizen also mentioned that the photos taken were in the span of three weeks.
While only caught twice on photos, there might be a chance that the driver has actually flouted the rules more than twice.
The said incident in this post appears to happen at Block 761, Choa Chu Kang North 5.
Laws on parking on double yellow lines
According to One Motoring, the laws on parking on double yellow lines states that there should be no parking on continuous double yellow lines at all times, except when picking up and dropping off immediately.
A netizen shared how her husband has gained weight and when they are “doing it”, his belly gets in the way.
Here is the story:
“I have known my husband for more than half my life, married for 17 years. My husband was fat when he was a teenager but lost all the weight when he started to exercise regularly. He was a fitness junkie when we first met, I was very attracted to him. He was very fit. Those sports athletes on sports channels, in my eyes, he looked like he is one of those cyclists on tour de France.
I have always been slim, even after having children, I was able to maintain my figure and maintain my dress size pre pregnancy. Probably due to genetics too as my family side people are all slim. I’m in my 40s and my exercise friends have also commented that I can pass off as a mid to late 20s.
I know aging is inevitable and we have children to give attention to so I feel terrible for having these kind of thoughts. I didn’t tell him what I’m thinking. My husband has start to spend lesser time exercising so he has started to have a dad bod.
Also due to covid, we work longer hours and spend less time on ourselves. I do home workouts whenever I don’t have the time to visit the gym or jog. I do pilates or yoga every night. I know it should be more for our health but I would also appreciate it if he made an effort to look fit for me like how I’ve made an effort to look attractive all these years. I do enjoy sweating myself out for the health benefits so it’s not just a vanity thing.
What bothered me is when we are intimate, his bloated stomach is in the way. And knowing how he felt about being fat when he was a teenager, I don’t dare to tell him it bothered me. I do indirectly invite him to do home workouts with me when he don’t have the time to exercise outdoors but he always decline so I stopped asking. I also purposely change my home cooking to less fried and less fatty food. I forbid him to get frozen food. I purposely pop whatever I’m eating (healthy food) into his mouth when we watch TV. When he open chips to eat I tell the children come and share so he don’t have the chance to have the entire packet to himself.
End of the evening I purposely do my evening routine in front of him in hopes he will also do some sit ups. He is not working out as much and it’s bothering me. He is not fat at all now, just more on the not lean side anymore. His BMI is fine. I feel ashamed for having these thoughts. I’m never fat before, even when pregnant I did not gain a lot of weight. I have some friends who never lost the pregnancy weight and I was secretly relieved I don’t have this problem. I cannot imagine my husband becoming fat.”
According to the Police media release there have been at least 1,200 cases of phishing scams since December 2021.
Who they pretend ?
The Police said that they would like to alert members of the public on the following scams:
The victims would typically get contacted via phone calls from Whatsapp, Viber etc. The scammer would claim that they are officials from the government such as the Ministry of Health or even the Singapore Police Force.
The scammers even go all out to show fake badges or documents of the government institutions.
The worse one would be those that video call with fake police uniforms.
How they scam?
In the phone call, the scammers would ask for their personal information such as banking credentials, one time passwords to “aid” their investigations.
After obtaining the personal information of the victims, the scammers would use it to apply for multiple E-wallets such as PayLah, Singtel Dash, and Grabpay.
They would then instruct their victims to top up the E-wallets or link it to their bank account before transferring the money away.
By the time the victim received notifications that there was a transaction, the scammers are long gone with the money.
How to prevent?
Here is what the Police advised:
Ignore the instructions. No government agency will obtain personal information through a telephone call;
Never disclose your personal or Internet banking details, including NRIC, NRIC issue date and OTP to anyone;
Always verify the authenticity of the information by contacting the relevant government agencies through their official hotline; and
Report any fraudulent transactions to your bank immediately.
If you have information related to such crimes, please call the Police hotline at 1800-255-0000, or submit it online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness.
If you require urgent Police assistance, please dial ‘999’.
A netizen recently shared a story online about his relationship with a female friend that appears can’t be bothered about him.
Here is the story
So who is the toxic friend here?
Me: (Female)
– I make the plan to get her nice and rather expensive birthday gift (anyway my birthday is before her), Nonetheless, I gave the birthday present to her first. If I don’t get her the present, I guess she will not get for me either.
– I am usually the one who initiates the meet-up and adjusted to her timing.
– sometimes I get rather unhappy with her as she can post on her social media thanking her other relatives/friends for the gifts she received but she don’t really wanna post about mine? She told me she has forgotten. Am I not being appreciated?
– When I get angry and stopped talking to her. She don’t even bother to talk to me either. But keep saying she care?
– I just wanted her to make the effort, but I don’t see any from her. She told me being my friend is very tired.
Her:
– She gave me expired gifts on my birthday explaining that she never notice it. She just find it nice and want to gift me as a birthday present. While I make so much effort in planning her gift the other way round
– She told me her work is busy and her family is her priority. To me I understand that. But no one is ever too busy for a friend? Like what I said. She seldom initiate and plan for the meet up.
– I explain my concern to her feeling unhappy that I am not being appreciated because she seldom mention about me in socia media but she can do it for other people. I was being called childish by her.
– She get annoyed saying that I always pick up things and quarrel with her over small little things? That’s because I care for her so much? But what did she do? I felt I am not being appreciated. I guess she don’t even care and make the effort as a friend, perhaps to me?
– She felt tired and stressful being my friend.
Here is what netizens think
Part ways lah. Why you focus so much on this friend? To the extend “Wah u never mention me on social media”. Geesh. This is not your husband or bf right? If someone don’t appreciate you and treat you like donkey, you still want to post online and ask ppl to comment if you really are a donkey? Okay you are, pls move on.
The reason why you initiate the meetup is because you want to gain something from her!You are so materialistic loh! Why must you give her something and expect her to give you something in return?? Somemore need her to post on social media. Need to be so ego about it anot? I agree with her, you are childish and need to grow up.
Why do you validate ur friendship based on the cost n condition of gifts? isnt it what you give is from ur heart & dont expect anything back? Maybe what ur friend feel is that youre expecting the same value of gifts in return too much that she slowly feels its pressuring her thats why she says its tiring to be friends with you. If you value your friend without expectation, you will see a different light. Think about it.
A guy asks is it normal to for his girlfriend to sleep at her guy best friend’s house after a night out drinking.
Here is the story:
“Is it normal for your girl/boyfriend to sleep in her/his best friend’s house who happens to be a boy/girl?
So my girlfriend went back to Taiwan a month ago and she’s gonna come back in April. She has a lot of male friends, some of whom she has known for quite a bit of time. What she does is that she’d go out for a drink with them sometimes and sleep at her best friend’s house who allegedly has another vacant room.
Maybe I’m being too conservative and controlling, but I really don’t like her continuing to do this. She thinks I’m overreacting, and she says she’s disappointed that I doubt her and her best friends. I asked what she’d have felt like if I had done the same thing with a female friend, and she said she honestly wouldn’t care because she thinks it’s okay.
Am I an insufferable jerk? Am I being overly sensitive and protective…? Would you tolerate such behaviors..?”
Editor’s note: Your concerns are valid, that’s a red flag.
Between January 1 and 13, 2022, officers from the Commercial Affairs Department and the seven Police Land Divisions undertook a two-week operation.
A total of 149 males and 93 women, aged 15 to 75 are now part of investigations for scam-related activities and money mules.
The suspects are suspected of being involved in over 587 cases of scams.
The types of scams suspects are investigated for:
Internet love scams
e-commerce scams
banking-related phishing scams
tech support scams
China/Government Officials impersonation scams
investment scams
job scams
loan scams
In total, the victims lost over SGD$7.2 million.
Investigations and penalties
The suspects are who are found guilty of cheating can face a maximum of 10 years in jail.
Suspects who are found guilty for money laundering can be jailed up to a maximum of 10 years and a fine of up to SGD$500,000.
The offense of carrying on a business of providing any sort of payment service in Singapore without a license is punishable by a fine of up to $125,000, jail term for up to three years.
For more information on scams, members of the public can visit www.scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Hotline at 1800-722-6688. Anyone with information on such scams may call the Police Hotline at 1800-255-0000 or submit information online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness.
All information will be kept strictly confidential.
A netizen, John Paul Tan, shared on Facebook his experience of falling victim to a phishing scam, and having the entire life savings of his and his wife wiped out.
Here is the story:
“I was an OCBC scam victim. This is my story.
I share a joint account with my wife. It was a Tuesday morning and I had just come back from the doctor because my 11-month-old daughter had HFMD. I was trying to get her to drink water, when my wife told me she received a strange message from OCBC, telling her someone was trying to access her account.
It was the phishing message, she clicked it.
Things started unraveling, she tried calling the bank and was put on hold at least twice. I didn’t think too much about it, I trusted her judgment and my daughter needed to be fed desperately.
Later that afternoon, my wife had brought my 3 year old out to the playground when she called me in a panic. She needed to go to the police station to make a report, our bank account was compromised. I logged on to the account and our life savings were wiped out. We lost everything in 5 overseas transactions.
I called the bank immediately and they said that it had to be taken up by my wife because she clicked the link.
Eventually, she came home and we called the bank together. They told us that they would try their best to get it back in 9 days, but the money was gone and chances were slim.
I immediately took out my calculator and bashed in all the cash I had lying around. What if I can’t pay my bills? How will my kids eat?
Alas, it wasn’t enough.
Distraught
I was distraught. I sat down in the middle of the kitchen with my head in my hands, going through various stages of grief. “It’s all gone…” was the last thing I said. I made plans to surrender an investment I made way before maturity and took a huge loss, but at least I’d have cash.
The next day, my wife came down with a fever and she too was diagnosed with HFMD. I couldn’t get out of bed for 2 days. My mental state of mind had completely collapsed.
I got my ass out of bed on Christmas eve, only because I had work. I logged on, passed the workday as normally as I could. At about 1pm, when everyone else had logged off, I penned a heartfelt email to my staff, thanking them for their work in the year despite whatever hardships they may have gone through. I sent it and logged off.
I collapsed back in bed – but not long after, I got up. Somehow, I had gained a little perspective. I had the cash, nobody would starve, what was I really upset about? I asked myself how I wanted to be remembered, especially by the girls. It was never going to be about how rich daddy was. I wanted to be remembered as a generous person with integrity, always doing what was right even in adversity.
I got out of bed and had a Christmas eve dinner with my family (lovingly prepared by my parents). We prayed together and we were determined to put this behind us.
I wanted a normal Christmas for the girls. So we opened our presents on Christmas morning and had so much fun with all the new toys they received. But not long later, my 3-year-old developed a fever. She had HFMD too.
“This is a modern-day replay of the book of Job” I told my wife, almost in jest. I turned on Albert Hammond’s hit, just to humour me how much of a disaster Christmas was turning out to be. We had no choice but to self-isolate over the festive period because of the HFMD bug.
“But this story isn’t sad”
But this story isn’t a sad one. My parents made more food, a close friend had bought us groceries, another bought us some nice food for Christmas and New Year, another gave us free legal advice. The investment money came in, we were out of the woods. After the turn of the new year, the bank managed to retrieve 2 out of the 5 transactions. Obviously I would want to get all my money back, but it was more than I had expected (because I had already primed myself to get back nothing).
My wife and I sat down at the dining table that night after the kids had gone to bed. We talked for hours about how blessed we were to come out of this relatively unscathed. Nobody was hurt, barring some serious mental trauma. Most importantly, as devastating as it could be, the family stayed together through it all. It was time to start again, but maybe slightly differently this time.
In that spirit, not every victim is as fortunate as us; some who weren’t even victims have it worse than us. If you haven’t already done so, consider getting in touch with someone you know who fell prey and think about making regular contributions to a local charity. Be nice to your colleagues and loved ones, you don’t know what they may be going through. Above all, hug your spouse and kids a little tighter.
FAQs
As a public servant, I have also prepared some FAQs here, so you wouldn’t need to overwhelm me with texts.
Q: Omg are you ok? What can I do for you?
A: Yes, I’m fine, the family is ok. We have jobs and regular salaries, things will eventually stabilise. Please don’t do anything for me, read the last paragraph of the story and find it in your heart to help someone else less fortunate.
Q: How much did you lose?
A: It was quite a bit but in all seriousness, it’s not really about how much. Most likely, those that lost less in absolute terms are likely to be impacted more.
Q: How could the bank do this to you?
A: We hope the bank can wrap up their investigations and we can then consider if any action is required. Hopefully, laws can also change to make sure banks are better equipped (i.e. not putting anyone on hold in their hour of need) and to have more impactful regulations to make banks sit up when there are scams, instead of being absolved.
Q: Aren’t you angry with your wife?
A: She explained everything that had happened, I accepted that she didn’t act in bad faith and it could have happened to anyone (400+ others to be exact). Being angry with the scammer and HFMD is probably more appropriate.
Q: What is an Albert Hammond?
A: It Never Rains in Southern California”
Editor’s note: Respect your positive outlook bro, praying for you.
