Do I F up for telling my gf she has no ass and her belly is big
My girlfriend is not fat, but she has some fats in her lower belly and thighs. She loves trying new restaurants and she enjoys eating a lot lately and maybe that is the reason why she keeps on getting fats in the wrong places. I noticed the fats are not getting into her ass, instead her thighs get fat, so I told her that she has no ass, and that she needs to squat.
She got upset, and i already apologized about it. I thought we were okay, it’s been weeks and she still occasionally mentions what I said about her ass.
She’s fasting now, she doesn’t go to restaurants anymore and is now searching in google about ass workouts and searching for gyms and trainers. It’s like she’s obsessed with losing weight and gaining ass muscles, and i feel really bad. But on the other hand, i feel like im helping her because now, as we speak, she is on the treadmill.
But when she gets frustrated with her workout and gets hungry, she blames me and gets upset again and i feel like this gonna be an endless argument.
Moral of the story, don’t be too honest with your woman. Sometimes lying can save you a lot of trouble.
She is bringing this incident up even after months of it. Never ending squabble
Sorry for the rant peeps but.. May I do a survey 1st?
Usually, if you all employ maids, do they cook for you? I’m not sure why is my maid here for since she hasn’t been any help in assist in prepping meals for the family.
Generally, her main job is to cook, our house is small, no pets no elderly. Taught her many things and many times repeatedly same cooking instructions still cannot cook even 3 dishes in 7 month of employments. Every time when I’m back from work, my kids will tell me they are hungry. Almost most of the meal I cooked for the family. Then for her, she can just cook for herself using a lots of good ingredients. Usual after my son comes back from school, he must eat because he’s hungry. But she nv prepare.. So I cooked for him too. What she can cook is luncheon meat and hotdogs for my kids only.
Liked no brainer food. I think might as well i quit my job and stay at home in order to let my kids have a balanced meal but then our pockets will be tighter as only 1 person working. Already programmed her, before cooking must put table mat. Did not put. Everything i do it myself.
Till now, I start to question myself. Why is she here? Is she be in any of the help. If you were in my shoe, will you still want to continue this employment? But my hubby warns me, if this maid cannot then forever dun employ maid in future since is so troublesome.
So I’m in a dilemma. Please help and thanks in advance.
Here are what netizens think:
let him eat the no brainer food she cook for your kid. it is normal to change a few times because you will only know when she actually works for you
Can she make a sandwich? Lettuce, tomato, egg, ham, avocado etc, sandwiches can be very nutritious.
You need to have lots of patience to have a helper. I have one for 2 years and she is still forgetting routine things. She could only cook simple soupy dishes and fry finger food for my kids, and most of the time I cook the – meals for the family…and I’m working. Imagine the rush when I get home.
You would need to repeat instructions for her and keep reminding her what needs to be done on a daily basis. You may want to train her to prepare the ingredients beforehand since you are the one who does the cooking.
Look for experienced maid instead. It is worth the pay, at least mine.
She is pure lazy. Stop buying canned/processed food and be VERY strict with her. Give her stern warning. Ask her to give you a list of menu for the week. If no improvement, get a replacement. Don’t waste time.
I’m frustrated with him I don’t have any love for him
My husband love kids in 4 years of marriage 1st and 2 year we both postponed.
In 3rd year I got pregnant but got a miscarriage..still now we are trying but we didn’t succeed..if I eat something alike, immediately if u eat this u will never baby. if I took a warm bath u will never get a baby every time he mocks me and even in food .your not prepare good food that’s y we don’t have the energy to have a baby..and are fond of money all time. he always discourages me in my career and does nothing. But he never cares for me. Even If I fall sick during my periods he doesn’t take care of me and instead mocks me that everyone has felt more than you, for this pain also you are not able to tolerate.
He opened the company, for himself to earn money which I never suggested. No, he is blaming me, I’m doing a lot of work. What u do is just simply sit.
I worked as a project engineer after marriage he didn’t send me to work. But before others, he would behave s such as he is treating me like a queen.. He used to be an aggressive person whenever we fight he breaks the phone, laptop tv mirror etc.I should not oppose to what he says. I’m scared a lot to convey my side to him whenever he suggest something.he do mostly business on interest without financial background and brings trouble financially and mentally.
Sometimes I do feel like do I need to live like this till I die.. or every marriage life will be some problem if we started breaking nothing will remain ..or am I thinking too much…
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If u already knew that the relationship is toxic, why bring children into the pic? Talk to him abt his behaviour and your feelings and if he does not change for better, u really need to consider your options. Dun keep quiet and expect miracles. It just wont happen.
So many warning signs to get out of this relationship. Leave him.
if you are looking for a sign… you already got the answer, everyone must be prepared to walk out of a toxic relationship no matter how painful it is…just imagine u have to spend the rest of your life in a toxic relationship? Be nice to self and love self..this is the basic of living, why should we come into this world to be abuse by our partners??? So in a way everything that happened in your life is you allow it!!!
I can relate. Especially the throwing and breaking things. Even self harm during fights. Traumatic time truly.
Is it a red flag for a guy to constantly ask for free things?
This guy (who’s interested in me) keeps asking me for things for free. I feel like he’s doing it just to start a conversation, but it is such a major turn off. For example, if i’m having ice cream, he’ll say hey when are u gonna treat me to ice cream, or you wanna share that with me.
Or when I bought some socks he’ll say it’s nice and to give him a pair (so we can match).
He’s not rich, which I don’t have an issue with. But he seems to have no ambition and he keeps asking for things for free.
Is this a red flag or should I give him a chance?
Here are what netizens think:
Same as girls, no difference
i may be wrong, but it could be his way of breaking the ice and starts a conversation going. He could be the shy type and not sure of how to find ways to continue to connect with u, except in finding things connected with u to say ba. If he is really really a cheapo, he would have insisted on the items. But so far from the above, seems that he is saying everything in jest but didnt really make u do it. If u like him enough, give him more time and observe further. If not, then just drop him since u never like him from the start, it seems.
When guys don’t pay you call them a cheapo, then woman leh? prostitute ah.
I’m not really ok with the guy asking for free stuff and also not okay with him having no ambition. But if u prepare to raise him then ok la~
Give him a chance? He’ll want double chances cos he wants to matchy-matchy. Drop him la. Don’t even be friends cos he will continue to want things. Lol.
Definitely some Prince or some wealthy kid who got a Mount Everest of inheritance trying to be humble and act poor. You’re sitting on a pile of diamonds and you don’t even know it.
Despite strict rules in the enforcement of vape, some people are still unable to get their hands of it.
Although there are quite an amount of health problems that could be associated with vaping, there are still many who continue to do so.
But this video you are about to see will completely change your opinion.
A vape factory in Malaysia was exposed on social media, after a video of workers inhaling vape on each of the devices before selling went viral.
The workers were seen going from one vape to the other to ensure that it is working.
The video was captioned with the text:
A video of a vape factory went viral on social media. Netizens; “This is what Quality Check (QC) looks like”
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E-VAPORISERS ARE STRICTLY PROHIBITED IN SINGAPORE
It is an offence under the Tobacco (Control of Advertisements and Sale) Act to sell, possess for sale, import or distribute e-vaporisers and their related components. Any person who is convicted is liable to a fine of up to $10,000, or imprisonment of up to 6 months or both for the first offence, and a fine of up to $20,000 or imprisonment of up to 12 months or both for the second or subsequent offence. In addition, since 1 February 2018, it is also an offence to possess, purchase or use e-vaporisers and their related components. The penalty is a fine of up to $2,000 per offence.
From 2018 to 2021, HSA had prosecuted 70 persons for selling e-vaporisers and their related components. The highest fine meted out so far was $99,000 for the illegal sale of these prohibited items. There was also a case where the offender was sentenced to 1 week’s imprisonment and a fine of $61,000 for selling e-vaporisers and their related components.
During covid, I gained weight and have struggled with depression since.
My work is very stressful and in many instances increased my feelings of depression of which my husband doesn’t want to listen to. I have never wanted to have my husband be part of my get-healthy plans because I don’t want an incredibly personal relationship to judge me for not following through.
In the last two months, I have started cooking at home again. In the last two weeks, I made a mental shift and started going on 5km hikes over the weekends and working out again.
Tonight after not eating anything all day, I ate dinner (two bowls of lettuce with light Italian dressing, and roast beef on a single bun). Because I had fasted for 20 hours I then had some Ramen and a curry puff.
I walked 13000 steps at work and then worked out doing intense cardio yoga for 40 minutes and my husband shamed me for eating the Raman and the hot pocket after dinner. When I told him that was uncalled for he told me that he was mad because if we got divorced I would have no problem losing weight.
I was dumbfounded and did not know what to respond.
I don’t know if he is saying it for real or taunting me to quickly lose weight, or is he finding a woman outside that is not fat?
Two months ago I moved to Singapore for work and moved in with this guy that was mutual friends with one of my old coworkers.
I have had zero issues with him as an actual person to live with, he’s a nice enough guy and keeps things relatively clean. However, in the past month, he’s been at the apartment less and less. Earlier today he stopped by and told me that the reason he’s been around less is that he is planning on moving in with his girlfriend and has already begun packing.
I don’t have an issue with that by itself, it’s been nice having the place pretty much to myself lately. The problem I have is that he also mentioned that one of his coworkers is looking for housing and that he is planning on subleasing to them, but since our the contract language lease is pretty murky about subleasing he said he is gonna do it under the table and just have his coworker pay him the cost of rent and he will continue to make all payments to the landlord.
I am a little annoyed about this because I did not sign a lease to live with this other person, and while I have not read the entire lease yet, I would think he would probably have to OK it with me in advance before making such a change (if he’s even allowed to sublease, which doesn’t seem to be the case), and if nothing else I feel like it would just be common courtesy for him to ask me about this before just dropping it all on me out of the blue.
A part of me really wants to contact my landlord and fill him in on this situation as I am 99% sure that subleasing is not allowed, but I hate being a snitch. The proposed new roommate also happens to be an old acquaintance of one of my good friends and she did vouch for this girl as a good person and said I wouldn’t have any gripes rooming with them for the remainder of my lease.
I will admit that a big part of my reasoning of wanting to report my current roommate is that I have really enjoyed the quiet apartment as of late, but I also think it’s pretty crappy of my roommate to just drop this on me without consulting me about it beforehand. Although my friend vouching for this girl is making me consider just taking this one on the chin, I am still leaning towards messaging my landlord about this situation.
Is it too much to ask my coworker to get me to work on time?
So I 27f have been carpooling with my 43f colleague to work. We literally live in the same building so it just made sense to carpool to work because we were both going.
I gave her between 50 and 100 dollars every month as a thank you and for petrol (sometimes 50 because its split with another colleague sometimes).
At first, it was fine. We would leave at 8:20 and get to work at 9 and leave work at 6. Over time she started leaving later and later. 8:30, 8:40, and then one day she asked to leave at 8:50. Which means we were getting to work later and later and we would have to stay later as well. My colleague is a senior at our company so she has more flexibility with her hours. I, on the other hand, am an intern who is being evaluated on work performance before becoming a permanent member of the company.
I recently asked my boss if i could stay and he said he needed to evaluate me and that evaluation included attendance. I started dropping hints to my colleague saying it would be nice if I could get home on time and that I would rather get home early than leave late and she just shrugged it off.
Finally i just straight up asked her if we could leave at a decent time so I could make it to work by 9. She replied saying she didn’t know why i cared so much and if she told the boss I did a good job I shouldn’t be worried. But I told her that I’m really just trying to cover my ass here because if I lose this job it’ll be really hard for me to get another one. The next day she said we would leave at 8:20 but she was clearly upset with me.
I know I’m messing up her schedule and she’s doing me a big favor by giving me a ride (it takes 2 hours to get to our job by public transit), but is it too much to ask to just come into work and leave work on time?
A netizen shared a video showing a Hyundai Elantra hitting a parked motorcycle while reversing into a parking lot at an open carpark.
The incident happened on 14 November at about 9am, at an open carpark in Bukit Batok East Avenue 4, and was caught on the dashcam of the netizen who shared the video.
He said that the driver had hit the motorcycle while reversing, and denied it when being confronted by the camcar who captured the incident.
The offending driver then allegedly tried to flee the area but was purportedly stopped by the camcar driver, before alighting from his car to “pick up the motorcycle and put it back at the same spot”.
The OP also said that the driver never left any note or his particulars behind on the motorcycle.
Here is what he said
I witnessed an incident whereby a car was reversing and had hit a stationary motorcycle which caused it to fall off to the floor.
The mentioned motorist tried to flee the area but i managed to stop him. He was angry towards me when I prompted him that he had “langgar” the motorbike.
“What langgar! I never langgar anything” He then reversed his vehicle, came out and picked up the motorbike and put it at the same spot.
He never left any of his particulars on the motorbike. Ive written a note and left it on the motorbike too
NEA Increases Visibility Of Corrective Work Order Sessions
18 Nov 2022
Corrective Work Order sessions expand to city areas of Singapore
Singapore, 18 November 2022 – From 2017 to 2021, the National Environment Agency (NEA) issued an average of 27,200 tickets for littering and high-rise littering. Over the same period, the number of Corrective Work Orders (CWOs) issued to offenders was about 10,200.
No. of tickets issued for littering and high-rise littering
Year
Total number of Littering Tickets Issued
2017
About 33,100
2018
About 39,200
2019
About 28,700
2020
About 19,400
2021
About 15,500
Average
About 27,200
2 Littering commonly occurs in neighbourhood centres, areas around hawker centres, MRT stations, and shopping malls. The majority of littering offenders are male and fall within the age group of 18 to 35 years old. Ground surveys show that cigarette butts consistently top the list of littered items.
3 NEA’s anti-littering enforcement regime takes strict enforcement action against those who litter, with fines comprising a composition sum of $300 for the first offence, while high-rise littering offenders are sent to court. Offenders prosecuted in court may be issued a fine and sentenced to perform CWO. Introduced in 1992, the CWO requires recalcitrant offenders to clean public areas for a minimum of three hours, up to a maximum of 12 hours. This regime serves to increase recalcitrant offenders’ awareness of the impact of littering, as well as experience the difficulties faced by cleaners.
4 Under the Environmental Public Health Act (EPHA) 1987, the maximum fine for a littering offence is $2,000 for the first court conviction, $4,000 for the second conviction, and $10,000 for the third and subsequent convictions.
Corrective Work Order Sessions at City Areas
5 To further drive home the impact of littering, NEA has introduced CWO sessions at city areas for the first time from this month. They were held at the Chinatown and Tanjong Pagar areas on 15 and 17 November 2022 (photos of the CWO sessions are in the Annex). NEA will continue to put up informative standees around locations identified for CWO sessions, to highlight an ongoing session to raise public awareness of CWO. NEA officers conduct targeted enforcement at littering hotspots, and at areas where large number of individuals congregate.
6 “Everyone has a part to play in upholding high standards of cleanliness and public health in Singapore. NEA will continue with its educational and enforcement efforts, to encourage members of the public to exercise social graciousness and take personal ownership in keeping Singapore clean”, said Mr Tony Teo, Group Director of Environmental Public Health Operations at NEA.
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ANNEX
Images from a Corrective Work Order (CWO) sessions at city areas of Singapore
