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RICH MAN’S SON TRIES A VARIETY OF JOBS FOR FUN, CAUSE HE HAS THE PRIVILEGE OF CHOICE

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I would like to share my eye-opening experiences for the last six months working as a casual worker and the state of how said group of labourers are perceived.

Background info: I come from a privileged background and work for my family business for the last ten years or so after graduation.

I haven’t been exposed to much hardship with the exception of National Service and a bit of racism in my studies abroad. About 9 months ago, I had a major tiff with my family regarding the direction of our business and we decided that it would be better for me to take time off to collect myself and find my way. It was fun at first to bum around but it got boring quickly.

I read quite a bit and was awed by Einstein’s experience as a patent clerk giving him new perspectives and decided to do something similar. I decided to take on any form of casual job for half a year with little to no commitment (so I can have the largest possible variety) – my shortest stint was one day and my longest was two weeks.

I gave myself a couple of rules to follow – no using of my car, limiting my spending to 20% of my daily wage, and not to quit no matter bad or tough the job was.

I found these jobs on FaceBook – a cornucopia of opportunities in various casual job groups.

I have worked as a food delivery rider, parcel delivery staff, pet transporter, mover, flyer distributor, general cleaner, IT crew, fishmonger, metalwork crew, AV crew, F&B staff, bar hand, food packer, warehouse operator, aeroplane cleaner, valet driver, durian opener, and a few more jobs.

It has been an eye-opening experience working.

The main things I noticed is that a good percentage of locals adopt an elitist mentality. Unfortunately, my family is guilty of this and to some extent, I too was. Most are very judgemental of blue collared workers and this is very prevalent in the F&B industry.

Toughest job: Metalwork crew. I had to cut metal objects to salvage profitable parts and it was extremely dangerous with sparks flying and a very dirty environment.

Most enjoyable job: Fishmonger. This was by far one of the most fun I had working as I learned to scale and cut different types of fish. It was also very interesting to work at the fisheries to see all sorts of fish(small ones to huge ones almost half a tonne).

Most interesting job: Valet driver, I witnessed plenty of older married men needing to be sent home/hotels with much younger women. Some of the dross these men say/do with their women in the car have definitely left a mark on me.

Most boring job: Warehouse operator, pretty mundane with too much repetition.

My experience as a bar hand watching guys trying to impress their dates is quite hilarious – I notice guys love to flaunt their wealth when it isn’t really great in the grand scheme of things. They tend to treat the bar hands and service staff like crap to look more alpha I’m guessing? Terrible viewing.

Other ‘interesting’ experience include delivering parcels to women who receive them not wearing underwear and being pretty nonchalant about it.

Distributing flyers/assisting and moving furniture from show flats to show flats for realtors was a jaded affair – I notice they tend to spew a lot of drivel to the prospective clients with little to no real knowledge about investments as a whole and only seem to care about making a quick buck. Males tend to be nicer to us, offering to buy food if we had worked the whole day without breaks. Females tend to be a bit more picky about not wasting flyers on seemingly unqualified prospects – very judgemental.

Working as an IT crew for tuition centres was pretty sad – I realised many tutors are not proficient and pretty much reading off their notes. I even noticed a few making mistakes in their lessons – quite alarming.

Cleaning flats and offices was.. peculiar. Some flats were really disgusting and I could not believe people are capable of being so gross and not able to pick up after themselves. Especially tenants moving out, woah. Some flat owners were really nice with isotonic drinks and snacks but the office ones were generally curt and snobbish. A typical HR who was in charge of us(usually middle age woman) would treat us as lesser beings and treat us as such.

Generally, people are quite condescending about lower waged workers and I even saw a few former JC mates brushing me off or being unnecessarily difficult in my experience in F&B. Thankfully, with the mandatory mask, I was never once recognised or questioned. I hope we will be a bit more gracious to people of all sorts of life – no one deserves to be belittled.

Transporting pets was truly amazing, I learned so much how the shelters are in need of help and how these animals truly need our help.

Overall, I made about $12000(close to $10/hour) in these six months and after my daily food and transportation expenses I had about $9000. I have donated this amount to the few shelters and will continue to do so.

I have learned so much for these six months that will echo for the rest of my life and have realigned my perspectives of how I should look at people and my family’s firm.

A good two weeks break to decompress and time to get back to bringing our business forward and being a positive member of society.

AMA and I will do my best to reply in a follow-up post.

Always choose to be kind and gracious, it costs nothing.

PRINCESS-LIKE GF CUTS BF’S T-SHIRT WITH SCISSORS WHEN THEY QUARREL

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no matter what I do for my GF, her family n friends have never approved of me.

Since we started to date, she felt that her life quality has dropped. She said she had given up a lot of things for me and she had been feeling quite mentally exhausted. She has been wanting me to propose to her and get our marriage but I feel that currently, we’re not ready yet. We’ve also been quarrelling for even small matters, she always thinks that she’s in the right and I’ve been purposely finding faults to argue with her.

She always gets angry for no reason.

That day her mum asked me to help her buy stuff and since she said she was tired from school, so I picked her up and send her home first. But she get angry that I didn’t tell her that her mum asked me to help buy items and she felt that buying those stuff unnecessarily.

She argue with me and said that I don’t bother telling her what was happening and then she throw my items on the floor, and take scissors to cut the shirts that I owned. While picking up those items she threw on the floor, she was raising her voice until the whole building could hear the arguments.

Sometimes she loves to play “cold wars” with me for no reason, suddenly blocks me for hours/days then doesn’t want to pick up any calls/messages. She is allergic to crabs so when we eat, she insists on eating crabs but I said no. She was angry and then walked/dump me there while we were dining.

She is also angry that I don’t share salted eggs and potato chips with her when I ordered like a bulk of it and she probably ate like 90% of it and I eat probably like half a packet.

Saying how ” I don’t love her anymore, don’t cherish her anymore after we’re dating”. She said how in her family, what she wants to eat n etc, ppl will always ask her, share with her and they don’t snatch with her snacks to eat.

So one of the days, I requested her to walk the dog as I was busy with a presentation and since for the past few days, it was raining so the dog didn’t manage to be out of the house. She said I’m treating her like a maid, asking her to follow my order. She never touched dirty things in her life. for example, when the dog poops.

I’m always the one picking up the poops. In her family, she ate alr just dump the plate/bowl at the sink/basin, for someone in her family to wash. She also doesn’t tidy up her room, sweep floors and etc, was always me when i go her house to help her housekeeping her room.

She also has a bad habits of wasting money on unnecessary. She always like to go cinema to watch movies , probably like every week. But i’m the one paying for it since she doesn’t have any income. She also rant that i am unlike other ppl bf, buy for their gf accessories.

MAN THINKS BEST FRIEND IS IN LOVE WITH HIS WIFE, “I WANT A WOMAN LIKE YOUR WIFE”

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I suspect my best friend is infatuated with my wife. I don’t know what to do.

I’ve known my best friend since secondary school days. We kept in touch over the years as we live in the same neighborhood. I’ve introduced him to my gf (who became my wife) so my wife also knows him casually. I used to hang out with him and the other guys. So he seldom meet my wife. I have to say all along I think I’m a 5/10 while my wife is a 9/10. Many times people wonder why she chose to marry me. Some days I secretly think I don’t deserve her but I suck it up and heck what others think and be the best that I can be for her because I love her.

Recent years my best friend got himself a gf and suggested the 4 of us hang out as his gf wishes to hang out with other couple friends. Soon my wife and his gf became pretty good friends.

Once we met for drinks at my place, when the ladies were not within earshot, he told me I’m so lucky to have married my wife. Nice figure, pretty face, can earn money, bet my wife will still look good when she’s older. While he’s stuck with his gf who will likely become fat after becoming a mother. If he had a choice he would want a woman like my wife.

During the earlier years he did ask me if my wife has a sister and if they look alike. I didn’t entertain him.

We usually don’t talk about our partners and he doesn’t usually speak like this so I was rather startled by his comment. I tried to reassure him that his gf seems like a good choice. I also wonder did he drink too much that evening.

I don’t know why I couldn’t shake off that conversation days after. We would meet almost every weekend and I’m thinking of reducing the number of times that he would be near my wife. I didn’t tell my wife as I didn’t want to startle her or let her know that he complimented her. I completely trust my wife but I would still prefer to take precautions. Am I overthinking? I’m also disappointed our long friendship is no longer the same after that night as I worry he may make a move on my wife.

GIRL’S FRIENDS GETTING IN RELATIONSHIPS EXCEPT HER – “IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME”

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I apologise if this sounds like a really stupid concern but recently, many of my friends have started to enter into relationships and by human nature you start to compare yourself to others and wonder why you have yet to enter one.

At some point I started to wonder whether there was something wrong with myself or anything but I try to often tell myself that is not the case and that my time will soon eventually come. I’ve recently confided in one of my friends and I have tried to change my mindset towards this situation by trying to focus on myself instead of constantly thinking about relationships and instead focusing on myself as an individual, but my mind keeps wondering and drifting to negative thoughts and I find myself constantly getting distracted and just overwhelming sense of sadness.

I guess in a way you could say I am feeling a mix of envy and sadness, Bottom line, I would just like some help on how I should change my mindset towards this situation, I have tried to focus on thinking about myself and other things but when all my friends happily talk about their relationships it just reminds me constantly of my situation and I do not have the heart to tell them to stop as they all sound so happy.

I guess what I am trying to say is I would really like to change my views and mindset towards this situation I am facing, I find myself being happy when I have things to do and when I am around friends, a distraction if you may say but when I am left alone these thoughts just keep coming back to me and I feel really helpless on how am I suppose to control them or change my perspective of it.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

HUSBAND WORKS WITH MANY FEMALE COLLEAGUES, WENT HIKING 1 ON 1 WITH ONE OF THEM

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My husband hangs out too much with his young female colleagues

I’m a (30F), married for 5 years. My husband (32M), has many female colleagues at his workplace. He’s a mentor to them, especially the fresh grads working there. He goes out to lunch with them almost every day and is probably close to a few of them. I’m totally fine with this as I know it’s just colleagues going out for lunch, and he’s just going his job. He still loves me and nothing much has changed.

Recently, he said he’s going out with one of them alone as she is leaving the company. They were going on morning hike at Bukit Timah, just two of them with no other colleagues. I was ok with it and didn’t think too much about it at that time. But when I saw his instagram photos with the girl on their hike, I couldn’t help it but to feel jealous. I tried to confront my own jealousy, as I realised the girl is younger, prettier and skinnier than me. It also made me feel fat as I know I have been putting on weight since the pandemic started.

I don’t know if I feel insecure. I would say we are still happily married and I know he’s not a cheater. It was just a platonic relationship with a colleague and they only went out once. Since then, I kinda feel something is ‘off’ with myself. I did not tell him anything about this as I thought it’s just a small issue.

What do you guys think? Is it acceptable for your spouse to go out with someone of the opposite gender alone? Are my feelings valid or am I overthinking?

WOMAN LOST SO MUCH WEIGHT THROUGH HEALTHY DIET UNTIL NOW BECOME CHIOBU

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A woman in Thailand lost so much weight through undergoing a radical healthy diet that she now looks like a completely different person.

Facebook page “Endlyna-瘦身那回事” shared photos of the woman’s before and after photos, as well as the healthy food that she eats to achieve her present physique.

They captioned their post: “Wow, this is too amazing, beautiful Thai girl relied solely on healthy fat-reducing meals, lost so much weight until she became beautiful! Too amazing! (rough translation)”

Among her meals include eggs, vegetables like broccoli, celery, lettuce, wheat grain rice, bananas and etcetera.

Netizens’ comments

  1. If you can save all the 29 types of food in the album and send them to me, I will be able to produce them for both of you
  2. I’m not sure if the diet helps but one thing for sure ~ too much eggs
  3. Looks very bland haha.. Need to be really determined
  4. It’s not easy but well done girl

MOTORCYCLIST HITS CAR ON EXPRESSWAY THEN RIDES AWAY LIKE A SUPERSTAR

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A video emerged online showing a hit and run accident on an unspecified expressway, with a motorcyclist hotting the rear of a car and riding away.

The incident happened on 13 October at about 6.57am, and was captured on the dashcam of the stricken vehicle.

The dashcam footage shows the motorcycle accelerating from behind the car and hitting it whilst passing, as the driver of the car then honked at him.

The motorcyclist was then seen in the front dashcam riding off without stopping, and the driver then shared the damages that his car suffered – being scratched at the rear.

Netizens’ comments

  • Lovely. Thanks for detecting these immature riders and sending them back to school to re-learn safe driving.
  • I’m more amazed that he didn’t fall and went under the lorry..
  • This kind of riding soon or later inside the blue tent
  • I dont understand certain ppl… mostly all vehicles now installed camera….. u hit, u stop and do proper procedure…. Got money settle pvtely, if not, insurance….. You hit & run become police case, more troublesome….
  • This dude must be late for his wedding.

AH BENG SHOUTS AND ATTACKS LORRY DRIVER AFTER ALLEGED COLLISION

A video emerged online showing a confrontation between a car driver and an elderly lorry driver following an alleged vehicular collision.

The younger driver was seen in the video pushing the lorry driver, and the netizen who posted the video captioned that the former also allegedly shouted at the latter.

The younger man wearing a hat, was seen angrily gesturing at the lorry driver and at one point even appeared to throw a punch before holding himself back.

He was also seen pushing the lorry driver, as another man held him back.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Behind one hit Infront… Still so loud
  2. Seriously boh, u hit rear still hit uncle
  3. Talk lah y need to push people wtf….
  4. What’s there to argue? 100% his fault for kissing backside ma.

Potential penalties

According to Chapter 224 of the Penal Code, anyone who disturbs public peace by fighting in public is guilty of committing an affray.

Upon conviction, offenders could face a jail term of up to one year and/or a fine of up to $5,000.

According to Chapter 321 of the Penal Code, anyone who performs an act that causes hurt to a person is guilty of Voluntarily Causing Hurt.

Upon conviction, offenders could face a jail term of up to 3 years and/or a fine of up to $5,000.

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THOSE WHO NEVER HAD COVID, OR CAUGHT IT 1 YEAR AGO, AT HIGHER RISK OF XBB INFECTION

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The Ministry of Health shared data on 15 October showing that certain groups of people are at a higher risk of being infected fith the XBB subvariant of Omicron.

These include those who have not been infected with the virus before, as well as those who caught it during the Delta wave last year.

A table for the cases in October so far, shows the recent cases comprise of those who don;’t have a history of infection being the largest group, while the second largest group were those who caught it during the Delta wave or before.

Minister of Health Ong Ye Kung also said during a press conference that “People who got infected last October or earlier … your risk of being infected is almost the same as a COVID-naive person,” according to CNA.

Source: MOH

MOH’s press release

 As we progress towards living with COVID-19, we will encounter new infection waves driven by emerging variants from time to time. Over the past month, COVID-19 cases have been on the rise, mainly due to the Omicron XBB subvariant. The Ministry of Health (MOH) has been closely tracking the trajectory of this wave, and has taken steps to ensure that our healthcare capacity remains protected.


2.     The Omicron XBB subvariant was first detected in August 2022 in India, and has since been detected in more than 17 countries, including Australia, Bangladesh, Denmark, India, Japan and the US. While observations from countries where XBB has been reported suggest that it is at least as transmissible as currently circulating variants, there is no evidence that XBB causes more severe illness.


3.     In Singapore, XBB is now the predominant subvariant circulating in the community, accounting for 54% of local cases during the week of 3 to 9 October, from 22% the previous week (Figure 1). The previously dominant subvariant, BA.5, is now estimated to account for 21% of local cases, while the subvariant BA.2.75 is estimated to account for 24% of cases.

4.     There is evidence that XBB may be driving an increase in reinfections. The proportion of reinfections among total COVID-19 cases in Singapore has been increasing over the past month, with reinfections currently making up about 17% of total new cases (Figure 2). Given that immunity from natural infection in the population is likely waning over time, this underscores the importance of ensuring minimum protection from vaccination and keeping our vaccinations up to date to protect us against severe infections.

Healthcare Capacity Remains Protected

5.     To date, the increase in hospitalised cases remains proportionate to the rise in overall local cases. More importantly, the number of severe cases has remained low. As of 14 October 2022, the number of cases hospitalised, requiring oxygen supplementation and in the intensive care unit (ICU) are at 562, 44 and 9 respectively, compared to 365, 37 and 13 a week ago. This is despite the 7-day Moving Average of Local Cases rising from 4,714 to 7,716 cases over the same period (Figure 3).

6.     Based on current information, MOH expects that this XBB infection wave will peak by around mid-November 2022. Using the BA.5 wave as an indication, hospitalised cases then peaked at 800 in July 2022, and our hospitals, while stretched, were able to cope with the numbers. Given that we are able to quickly ramp up to the same capacity and beyond, our projections on healthcare utilisation show that we have adequate ICU, hospital and COVID-19 Treatment Facility (CTF) beds to cope with the upcoming wave.

7.     In response to the surge over the past two weeks, public hospitals have rapidly activated various measures to operate about additional 200 beds to care for hospitalised COVID-19 patients. These include deferring non-urgent admissions, discharging stable patients home or to nursing homes, and transferring recovering patients to transitional care facilities and community hospitals. In the coming two weeks, public hospitals will operate a total of more than 800 beds for COVID-19 patients. We are also ramping up CTF capacity in stages, to provide over 800 beds by early November.

8.     Members of public are encouraged to only go to the Emergency Department (ED) for emergency conditions as our hospitals’ EDs continue to see a high number of patients daily, mostly for non-COVID related conditions. Patients who are triaged to be non-serious may be requested by the EDs to be diverted to Urgent Care Centres or nearby primary care clinics for management.

9.     To relieve the load on General Practitioner (GP) clinics and polyclinics, we urge employers not to require medical certificates (MC) from employees who have either self-tested positive for COVID-19 or have Acute Respiratory Infection (ARI) symptoms. This is to avoid patients with mild or no symptoms making unnecessary visits to GP clinics, which would compromise the standard of care for other patients who require medical attention. Those who are well should be allowed to work from home if they are able to do so. We also encourage those with mild flu-like symptoms to consider teleconsultation with their doctor. They may visit flu.gowhere.gov.sg for a list of telemedicine providers.

Revised Healthcare Protocols for Paediatric Patients and Pregnant Patients

10.     Our healthcare protocols are regularly reviewed and updated based on the latest COVID-19 situation. Currently, COVID-19 positive paediatric patients (3 to <12 months old) and pregnant patients (gestational age below 36 weeks) are triaged as Protocol 1 and placed under the Home Recovery Programme (HRP). In monitoring the COVID-19 trend from Omicron subvariants in Singapore, the risk of severe COVID-19 disease in these two groups is low.

11.     In view of the low risk, patients from these two groups can be managed as Protocol 2 by default, for self-recovery at home or under the care of their own primary doctors, with effect from 25 October 2022. These patients should continue to monitor themselves closely for signs and symptoms of concern (e.g. shortness of breath, chest pain, persistent fever >38°C) while recovering at home. If signs and symptoms worsen, they should seek medical attention.

Keeping up to date with COVID-19 Vaccination

12.     Vaccination is our primary defence against COVID-19 and given that immunity in the population is likely waning over time, we urge the public to get vaccinated or boosted when they are eligible to do so.

13.     As of 14 October, the bivalent Moderna/Spikevax vaccine has been made available to persons who have yet to achieve minimum protection, as well as those aged 50 years and above who received their last vaccine dose more than five months ago. We have seen good response to this, with over 4,000 people coming forward on 14 October to get their dose.

14.     We encourage those who are eligible to step forward for vaccination. They may walk into any Joint Testing and Vaccination Centre (JTVC) offering the Moderna/Spikevax vaccines to receive their bivalent vaccine dose. Please refer to www.gowhere.gov.sg/vaccine to locate the nearest JTVC.

Important for Everyone to Exercise Personal and Social Responsibility

15.     Our society will continue to build up even more resilience with each infection wave. As we ride through this wave, it remains important to protect our most vulnerable. Members of the public are encouraged to wear masks when in crowded places, or when visiting or interacting with vulnerable persons. In particular, experts have advised that the elderly and immuno-compromised should continue to wear masks in crowded indoor settings to reduce their risk of catching any respiratory infections.

16.     We urge everyone to continue to exercise personal and social responsibility by maintaining good hygiene, testing and minimising social interactions when unwell, and keeping up to date with vaccinations.

S’PORE TRAVELERS VISITING THAILAND WILL BE RANDOMLY TESTED FOR COVID AS XBB CASES RISE

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Singapore travellers who are visiting Thailand will be randomly tested for Covid-10, as Singapore experiences a rise in cases of the XBB subvariant of Omicron.

Thailand’s Department of Disease Control (DDC) said that the increased surveillance will apply to all airports in Thailand, according to The Bangkok Post.

Arrivals from Singapore and Hong Kong who display respiratory symptoms may be randomly chosen for testing at the Department of Medical Sciences.

Thailand reopened their borders fully back on 1 October, lifting the restrictions on arrivals, proof of vaccinations and testing.

The XBB strain has been detected in countries such as Australia, India, Japan and the US and presently comprises of 55% of the cases in Singapore, according to the Ministry of Health.

MOH has also tightened SMMs at all hospitals and residential care homes in Singapore for 4 weeks.