So recently, we found out that one of my classmates (let’s name him Y) is a habitual liar, and has been gaslighting us for almost a year.

On a few occasions, he would quote our professors on things that we need to do in order to fulfil certain criteria of our assignments. When we try to clarify with our professors on these “requests” later, they would say they didn’t speak to Y at all, and didn’t make any such requests. When we confront Y, he would then said he has misspoke, deny the facts or mention that we may have remembered them wrongly.

On other occasions, Y would miss some of our project meetings claiming that he was sick. But then later we had to find out from another friend X who happened to be a personal friend of him, that he was not sick and even went out with X and other friends on those times he claimed to be sick. When we confronted Y again, he continued to insist that he has been sick and say we are overreacting.

To be honest, we have no idea what has triggered Y to treat us with the toxic behaviour since we know each other from the start, and we have not offended him once yet. It has become a little difficult of late to be working with him for assignments and this behaviour of his has affected other people apparently who are not in our course.

Any advice on what we should do?

Found out a guy I was dating was dating several other girls

Met this guy from a dating app. We decided to get together after a few meet ups and I literally fall in love with him.

Confessed to him and he said the same to me. We agreed that this will be a serious RS and promised not looking around anymore. I deleted the app thereafter.

During the RS, he refused to let me meet his parent and friends, he said this is between 2 of us, what’s the point of involving others? I thought okay maybe we need to be more stable before meeting each other friends and parents. He will always been busy and giving excuses not to meet. We can only meet once a week and I’m always the one initiating. I find it pretty weird and fishy.

So one day at his place, I noticed he was still using dating apps to chat with several girls at the same time, meet them, ask them to his place. He somehow will plans his days of the week well to meet different girls.

He used the same tricks and methods to fish those girls depends on what the girls want. If they are looking for serious RS, he will them that he is also looking for serious RS. If they are looking for causal then good for him, can just deal immediately.

He will called them pretty, sweetie, babe, etc. tells them they are the only one he want and only have them with all kinds of sweet words. In fact he only want to sleep with them and he don’t use protection at all despite the girls’ requests. I dunno why those girls okay with it?

The contents he chats with them are the same as how he talk to me as well.

I also notice he follows a lot of girls on IG.

We had a big fight over this and we broke off.

Are his behaviors normal or is he actually sick?

Why are girls nowadays looking for ons and fwb? Is this norm in this society now?

FYI: he’s totally not good looking.

I’m working in Singapore and here is my worse landlord story in Tampines.

My last landlord either has undiagnosed dementia or paranoid schizophrenia.

She would constantly come down to our unit and explain to me that she needed my help with something like changing her security code on this or that because someone was breaking into the house and stealing her “documents”.

She was constantly calling me at work or emailing me about something new every other day. I got new internet installed because her wifi wouldn’t reach and she told me the tech sabotaged her power outlets (which I told her didn’t work a week before).

She brought me out once to ask me if a pair of kids’ swimming goggles belonged to me. I told her no and she went on to explain that people are breaking into the house and trying to scare her and this was one of their “messages”.

She also left our sink leaking for 2 of 4 months I stayed there. Oh and when she finally got the sink repaired, she asked me to check our belongings because the guy was a “crook” and charged her for work he didn’t do.

It was like living in a mad house.

I dreaded coming home every day. On the day we left she tried to call the Police because apparently during the 15 minutes we were gone she thinks someone broke into the house for more “documents”.

Airasia is on my black list. I believe that it’s an airline with low safety standards and poor training.

Aircrash of Air Asia 8501 was caused by incompetency of captain and poor communication between captain and first officer. Their training is very poor on communication when their flight crew comes from all over the world. One pilot was pulling up and the other pilot is pushing down, which cancelled inputs to the plane, as the plane fall from the sky.

They also have quite a few incidents of runway excursions and burst tyres. These are largely attributed to pilot mistakes and poor cockpit resource management. And you see these categories of incidents most common in low end airlines in Africa and former CIS countries.

All Air Asias are the same as the same technical and management services are delivered across the different Air Asias. They are set up in this way for ring-fencing liabilities and assets that help in aircraft financing arrangements and they get different ICAO codes and treated differently from being the same airlines when they fight for airport slots and routes.

The only LCC I like is Jetstar. Their products are higher quality and they have solid engineering team backed by Qantas. They are always on time too.

My dad is a pilot and we do not fly Air Asia for all the reasons you said above. Especially now after years of limited revenue and high cost cutting it’s more risky than before. I have a work trip to a neighbouring country soon and the cheapest fare was Air Asia, I’m topping up the difference to fly Scoot. You can fly many times and nothing goes wrong. You can fly one time and nothing goes right. I fly multiple times a month for work and I’m super particular. Paying a little more for safety and service (when something doesn’t go right) is always worth it for me

So my husband rented a beautiful hotel room for us on my birthday in a beach in Miami.

Said room was a large studio and had two tvs so it was obviously designed for guest to also have guest.

Well at 9:30pm on a Sunday night 3 hotel staff (one not even in uniform) came knocking on our door saying that we need to keep it down because our neighbours filed a noise complaint. The hotel was pretty empty and they placed another family next to us which we though was weird but whatever however, we said okay and that our family was leaving.

Then the employee proceeded to go on about how she will call the police. Again, our family was leaving. It became escalated when I asked why she was threatening police presence. I then stepped away from the door and allowed someone else to speak with her. But later, when I asked the manager if the protocol was followed they said no and they don’t need to. The reason I am upset is that we are Asian.

So calling the police unnecessarily could have escalated the situation in a dangerous way. Today I was speaking to the GM of the hotel and I want to know if I’m maybe taking this too far.

I knew my husband since I was 20 and we were together for 10 years before we got married.

We moved into our BTO straight after we got married and has been staying there for close to 3 years now.

We don’t ever quarrel and nothing seems to be of issue but recently he asked me for a divorce. He said that he is very sian of our current standard of living and cannot stand it that I’m not ambitious enough. He complained about how at our age, some of his friends have already changed multiple cars and upgraded to a condo while he’s still stuck in a four-room flat and squeezing with the morning crowd just to get to work.

I wasn’t offended by his words because I really am not ambitious. I’m very content leading a simple life and don’t see the point of working so hard when honestly I already have enough money to retire if I continue to lead this simple life. What I feel most offended by is when I asked him why he did not raise this issue during our 13 years of relationship, he said it won’t matter because I won’t change and I shouldn’t force myself to change just because of him.

Am I that sort of an unreasonable and uncooperative partner to him? How can he just assume things like that without even asking me about it?

I can feel that he’s very adamant about the divorce and he said that he wouldn’t mind buying over my share of the house so I don’t have to continue paying the mortgage.

I can still stay in the house until I have enough money to move out on my own. If I want to keep the house, then he’ll sell his shares to me and move back to his parent’s place until he finds a new place. I have until the end of the week to think over his proposal and give him a reply.

This news is so sudden that I still have thoughts of it being just a bad dream.

I don’t know if it’s just me in shock that I don’t feel sad about us separating but I am very stunned to the extent that I honestly don’t know what I should be doing right now.

Giving birth was excruciating but his presence made the entire process torturous

Just screaming into the void here. I no longer know the man I married. It’s as if my pregnancy changed him. I had hoped by the time I gave birth he would be back to his old self but he’s gotten worse.

I’ve been home for 4 days and I’ve had maybe 2 hours of sleep each night since. Im so exhausted,dirty and emotionally drained.

He argues with me the entire time. He won’t help me in anyway. He complains and whines about everything. He disturbs me, the midwives and nurses while I was giving birth.

He created so much tension and stress, and for no reason at all. He was angry it took long.

He complained I cried too much and was too loud. It got so bad my doctor had him escorted out. He didn’t pick me up, so I had to get a friend to take me home.

I don’t know why he’s so mean and so angry. He wanted this baby and now it’s as if I and the baby are his enemy.

By the time I was visibly pregnant he just started to be an A hole and just never stopped.

I can’t believe that after 7 years of marriage we are done cause I can’t take this. I won’t. I’ve spoken to my parents and they’ll be coming down to help me.

I can’t stay. I can’t take it anymore. As soon as I can walk I’m going back home with them.