I asked his son doesn’t he want to have girls in his life and he responded “why would I? What are they gonna do differently?”. Is that not concerning?

Not to mention he’s invested into male social and legal issues, he’s not as of yet saying misogynistic things but talking about male issues puts you on that path, and he was pretty badly victimized by his dad’s previous girlfriend so that could affect his potential dislike, even hatred for women & girls.

I brought these things up to my husband and it started an argument.

He said I was calling his son an incel, called me misandristic for saying talking about male issues puts you on a bad path, and said his son just doesn’t happen to have women or girls in his life and that’s fine, said his son dislikes me for things like this.

I guess being a step mother is not so easy, trying to show concern but both my husband and his son take it for granted and told me not to meddle in their affairs.

We’re still arguing about it, Should I not be concerned?

Not too long ago I had met someone who we can call Alex, Alex and I clicked when we met and so we had started talking alot and even being a bit flirty yet still in the talking stage. One day this guy that Alex and I were on live with hits me up showing me a screenshot his friend had sent him,

it was a picture of Alex texting another girl calling her pretty and asking for her socials and as soon as i saw that i was furious and texted Alex, he asked me how could i be mad when i did it first, i was confused so i asked what he was talking about, he said “Don’t act dumb now me and my friends were on facetime and My friends told me you hit them up.”

i had absolutely no idea what he was talking about because me personally, i never did and never will do that. We had a bit of an argument and according to him his friend would never lie, I ended up telling the other guy who of which had sent me the screenshots of Alex to other girls, I told him everything and he talked to Alex.

Alex said he believes his friend because he had known him for three years and knew he wouldnt lie, I had shown Alex proof i dont know his friend and dont even have him added but Alex has been ignoring me while still texting other girls.

should I completely cut Alex off and blocking him on everything ?

Here are what netizens thinks:

• Of course you should, you are getting manipulated
• this one is call he kena caught straight away accuse u back and feign innocence.
• If you have to ask this question then with your intelligence you probably deserved to be cheated on. bodoh.

my bf had met a girl named Lana in his previous relationship on a dating app (he wasn’t loyal to his last gf because of the way she treated him) and they flirted on and off throughout his and his exes two-year relationship but eventually he cut her off bc his ex found out.

in the middle of our relationship, he started talking to her again daily and I thought nothing of it because he had told me they were just really close friends and she was a lovely and nice friend to him during his past relationship.

After an argument we had he was telling her how much he hated me and wanted to leave me and she encouraged him to do so, after that argument i found out him and Lana had been saying this so i told him i was no longer comfortable them being as close as they were but could still be friends.

yesterday though i found out he was cheating on me with her. i consider them saying they missed what they used to have, calling and texting behind my back to be cheating especially since she was convincing him to leave me and just discussing me in general in a way i wasnt comfortable with.

he has been crying to me since saying that he didn’t think he was cheating and that he is extremely sorry and that im the only girl he loves.

he said hes willing to cut her off aswell but i have been extremely distant with him and not talking to him much. im still deciding if i wanna be with him as this isnt the first red flag (he was in contact with his ex for the first 4 months promising to get back with her).

but im starting to feel guilty because i think i can tell how sorry he is. AITA?

He is honestly kind of overbearing. He talks, A LOT. And if I don’t respond to his chit chat messages, he just keeps sending more trying to strike up a conversation. He also complains about how many hours he works and how he is constantly working until 9 or 10pm. But I’m skeptical that is all work because of how much he talks.

He keeps doing this thing where he “checks in” on me. Sending me messages like “Make sure you eat lunch!” or “Make sure you get your workout in!” but its not like a one-off thing. This is daily, multiple times a day. Like yesterday, I told him I was behind on a project and he was like “don’t use being behind as an excuse to skip lunch or working out!” Neither of which I said I was going to do. Yes, in the past I have worked through my lunch or skipped a workout, but, like, I don’t need a babysitter.

Today, he sends me a message, “Make sure you eat before the meeting with [client]!” So I responded with “Hey, I really don’t need these messages. I know you mean well, but this is coming off patronizing.”

He went immediately into victim mode with “I just care about your health! I want you to take care of yourself! I’m sorry that my caring bothers you so much, but you’re my partner in this department!”

I’m not slacking on my work. I’m actually the one who brings in the big clients/projects for what we do, while he usually brings in little clients (we work in PR and I bring the national/international accounts, while he brings local or regional).

So I explained “Look, like I said, I know you mean well, but I am a grown woman and I haven’t died of a heart attack or starvation yet. I’ve got this.”

So her retorted with “Dude, I’m just being your friend and I care about you.” and just kept going on.

Like I said, I know his heart may be in the right place, but his head is not and it’s beyond annoying. AITA here? Did I overreact?