my bf of a year has been wonderful. he treats me super well, gets along with my family and friends, and we spend a lot of time together. like at least 5 days a week and i stay over at his house almost all the time. he leaves his WhatsApp web open a lot and is comfortable leaving his phone with me to e.g. order food on delivery platforms, reply to his friends for him when he’s driving. he’s almost perfect (he does have his flaws, but nothing I haven’t learnt to accept) and i really want to spend the rest of my life with him.

However, i feel like cheating is so prevalent in relationships nowadays. it feels like almost every relationship I know has someone who cheated before. I’ve been cheated on before, I’ve cheated before.

My dad cheated on my mum before, many whispers talk about cheating/being cheated on, and the list goes on. my bf did cheat on an ex once, but he was so guilt-ridden that he confessed to it, and still felt guilty for a long time after they broke up. right before he got together with me, he was dating a married woman even to the extent of sleeping together.

He ended things with her after meeting me, although they were still talking in the early stages of our relationship. he did say being with a married woman went against his values and he didn’t like it, but he had nothing to lose as he was single, he says he would never cheat on me because he doesn’t want to lose me. he has also never cheated on any of his other ex-girlfriends, which my best friend who was the one who introduced us to each other can attest to.

I spent a really long time reconciling how I felt about his past with the married woman in the first few months of the relationship. many fights and tears later, I promised him not to rake up the past anymore. however, once in a while the fear still creeps up that he’ll text her, or he’ll invite her to his house if she throws herself at him again and I’m not around. is my insecurity justified?

I don’t want to doubt him but I don’t know how to work on this. please help 🙁

Housing is an essential part of life, but some people struggle while some flourish to make money.

In his Facebook post he said:

“Nabei I 35 already, HDB so expensive how to buy. Buy BTO only 2 room no value. Like that I buy a tent from Decathlon and go stay in Mandai Forest.

If I lucky still got durian drop down for me to eat.”

A girl said that she was slapped and cheated on by her boyfriend after she found a secret folder on his computer and deleted it.

Here is the story:

What is wrong with guys? Why must they keep a collection of naughty videos in their computer?

Am I not good enough? Why must he see other girls!!! I give it to all his demands, he won’t do what also can, front door back door all I give him. But he slap me because I deleted the whole folder.

A week after I deleted his videos he started to cheat on me, His phone rang when he was showering and I answered it. It turned out to be a girl and I did not know who she is and hanged up the phone. I kept quiet and waited for him to sleep before I used his fingerprint to unlock his phone.

I saw dating app messages of him and the girl, he said that I disrespected his privacy and touches his stuff to a girl he just matched on Tinder for less than 1 week!

How could he? Should I confront him about it? If I confront him about it means I really disrespected his privacy.

I’m in a dilemma, should I just go MIA?

Should the back facing seats on bus be removed? Since it is a facing someone directly and with the current situation the more it should be removed.

The person who posted the photo said:

“Some people are just so entitled and have no manners. I would like to see them sit on a chair someone rest their legs on.”

Here are what other netizens said:

1. “Backwards facing seats are just bad designs in an inconsiderate society.”

2. “Yeah I feel that they should remove the backward facing seats. Majority doesn’t sit anyway, most get nauseous and dizzy from it.“

A girl makes use of a man and gave him sob stories just to let men feel that “she needs protection” and make use of the feeling to cheat free beers.

Here is the story:

I met this girl called J (let’s just call her ‘J’). She goes around to keep telling guys in the pub about her sob story so that guys will buy her drinks.

She said that her boyfriend made her pregnant when she was young and due to her age then she was forced to get an abortion so that she can continue to work in a pub. Coincidentally, my friend was in the pub as well and we went out for a chat and smoke.

He then told me that J said the same story to him and said that she is poor and needs money. She will say she had an abortion, body weak, now need quick money to pay for hospital bills.

My friend told me that he had gone to this pub a few years ago and the girl was saying the same story, Macham gets an abortion every year.

My friend said that this is a common method pub girls used to bluff guys to buy them ladies’ drinks. Something similar to Thai girls who come to Singapore and tell guys that their “mom is sick, cow is sick, dog is sick, bla bla bla”.

If you go to a pub and the hostess name start with J one, u know who is it already. Guys beware.