My brother 33M has been dating his new girlfriend for about 4 months. She seemed like a nice girl except she just doesn’t like my other brother’s wife. I’ve heard her talk alot of **** about her. That she’s “weird and her hair colour is ugly”, just stuff like that. My brother’s wife is a weird character but she’s a sweet person that changes her hair colour often.

Might sound biased after saying that. I don’t say anything the times I’ve heard her talk shit about her. She usually says it discreetly later on to my brother.

Yesterday we had a family dinner at a nice restaurant. My brother’s wife came in wearing a dress. Truth is said, it was tight and low cut. Nobody judged her and we had a great time.

My brother and his girlfriend rode with me and my sister. We rode together to the restaurant. While we were driving, my brother’s girlfriend randomly says “did you see hoochie in that dress, she looked like a hooker.” There was a long awkward silence before I said “excuse me?”.

She says “who wears a dress like that to dinner?” My sister looks at me to say something. I say it’s none of your business and I’m pretty tired of you talking bad things about her. She against says that it’s the truth. I say okay let’s see how bad you are and we ride in silence.

We meet up at my parent’s house and we walk in and I go up to my brother’s wife and tell her that my brother’s girlfriend has something to say about her. She goes red in the face and calls me an AH for instigating. My brother and his girlfriend leave. Everyone asked what I was talking about and I told them what she said.

My parents told me I should’ve left it alone, my sister says I was in the right but also in the wrong. My girlfriend praised for it.

I have always been somewhat skeptical of ghosts. I have always had people around me who attributed things to ghosts, even when a logical explanation was available.

My opinion has begun to change; I began living alone, no big deal I’m not afraid of the house settling or bumps/bangs I have dogs and they knock stuff over all the time. I recently got an oculus. I cleared the room and made my play space.

I also keep my dogs out of the room so they don’t get hit or stepped on by accident while I am playing. So I’m playing my game, my TV was off, after playing a while I notice sound my TV is on as well as the speaker. I take my headset off, look around, and turn both off.

I started playing again, and then I noticed my watch alarm going off. It’s a digital watch that I have never set an alarm for. I rarely wear it; it was sitting in a drawer. So I think okay, my oculus is somehow sending a signal, and these somehow are being affected by it. I start playing, but I have this weird feeling like someone is there. I look over my shoulder (you can tap the side of the Oculus, and the screen shows your surroundings using your cam). I don’t see anything, but I see my big dog looking at something, not me. I scanned the room and nothing. I start playing again, but I can’t shake the feeling, so I check again this time, taking my headset off.

My dog is still looking behind me. There’s nothing there but open space. I put the headset up for the night because I felt weird. I have lived in this house for about 7 years and never felt this feeling before here.

Fast forward to yesterday. I’m playing with some friends on my oculus. I hear a TV turn on, and my friends also hear it. This time, it was a TV in another room. I turn it off, and I see the controller in the middle of the floor. It’s a guest room where the TV is rarely used; the remote is always directly below the mounted TV on the console. It has sat there for months without moving. I keep getting the feeling I’m being watched but not always just intermittently.

I don’t know what to think. I have always been skeptical of ghosts, but I can’t explain the remote. Maybe somehow, the Oculus messing with electronics but looking online I haven’t found any proof of this happening to anyone else.

I will update on any more occurrences.

So, My husband (M34) and I (F28) got married recently and moved into our new home, The neighbourhood is nice and quiet and the neighbours are really nice. Except for this family that lives right next to us.

Although we just got back from our honeymoon, I still wear lingerie and sometimes walk around in them when I wake up in the morning when making coffee or breakfast.

The other day I was in the kitchen preparing coffee while my husband was out and heard a knock on the door, I immediately went to grab my robe (long) before answering. I opened the door and found our next-door neighbour, I asked how he was doing and he told me that his 7-year-old kid was at the toilet window which is facing our living room and since his daughter uses “binoculars”, she saw me wearing “inappropriate” clothes while walking around in the living room.

I was taken back. turns out his daughter uses her binoculars to supposedly watch “birds” but she obviously peeped through our large glass windows to see inside even though we have curtains on. My neighbour said this wasn’t cool and his daughter just saw “something” she can not unsee and that is not appropriate. I asked him what he meant and he requested that I be a little considerate when it comes to clothing (or lack of) but I thought that was just ridiculous since that is my house.

I argued that this is my home I get to wear whatever I want and also, his daughter had no business peeping wtf. He said she is just a kid and didn’t mean any harm. Went as far as to say she was just being “curious”. I said sorry but you gonna have to leave. He did not take it well and implied that he’d take steps to ensure I don’t “expose” his daughter to stuff like that in the future. He left and I just thought my entire day was ruined especially after he said he’d bring this incident to the neighbourhood’s group’s attention.

I told my husband what happened when he got home and he agreed with our neighbour saying that I should “just leave the lingerie in the room” where it belongs and learn to put some decent clothes on before getting out of the bedroom to avoid this type of incidents. He also said I was wrong to speak to our neighbour like that and that if he was in his shoes and his kid witnessed “that” he’d be just as furious if not more. So we should cut our neighbour some slack.

I feel like I was the AH for how I handled this situation but I think since I’m in my own home then why can’t I wear what I want and be carefree.

Here is what netizens think:

• Shame on your husband for siding with your neighbor over you. In the privacy of your own home, you can wear whatever you want to wear. The neighbor should be chastising his daughter for peeping into your home instead of trying to control a grown woman’s choice of dress in her own home.

• And how did the neighbour know she was wearing lingerie? How did the kid know what she was wearing was inappropriate? It sounds like the neighbour ended up looking through his kid’s binoculars.

• If your husband doesn’t feel lingerie is appropriate wear then he doesn’t get to see you in lingerie.