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S’PORE’S MOST VIRAL GHOST SIGHTINGS IN RECENT TIMES (PHOTOS & VIDEOS EVIDENCE)

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Over the years, social media has been rife with alleged ghostly sightings, from phantom passengers to headless apparitions.

With the rise of social media, these supposed encounters have captured the imagination of Singaporeans, as the debate on the authenticity of these alleged sightings rages on.

The Pontianak at Pasir Ris Park

A Facebook user, Nur Umairah, shared online about an encounter that she faced during her night run.

She was at Pasir Ris Park for her usual night run and on that night, she wanted to try a different route – so she ran all the way to the end of the park all alone.

To her right was lush, forested vegetation; and to her left was nothing but pitch black darkness.

She just continued running, without having much thought in her mind.

She then reached the end and turned around; and upon running back, she could hear a faint voice calling out to her from behind.

She then removed her earphones and listened, trying to figure out if it was something paranormal.

Her suspicions were proved right and she just bolted off and continued running while reciting her prayer.

Apparently, she took some photos at the time and after she edited them and increased the brightness, a figure of a woman sitting alone on a bench could be seen.

The Hungry Ghosts of Marsiling

A netizen shared a story of how he accidentally walked into and stepped on the roadside offerings for the Hungry Ghost festival.

He was on his way to meet his friend for supper when he accidentally stepped on the offerings, and he said that he started to feel something perched on top of him.

As they later walked past a forested area, he saw a female ghost smiling at him and humming a song, he then took a picture of the spirit.

He was at McDonald’s waiting for his food when he noticed eerie fingerprints on his receipt.

Here is the full story:

This is from my friend pov the one I go out wif tgt …it started when I was walking below my block and I sudd walked into a circle of candles with rice scattered around the candles .There was red powder inside of the circle and I started to feel something perched on top of me , and nails digging into my skin. I ignored it and just went to meet my friend , and while we were walking , a woman clad in white with long hair rode past us humming a strange song. She suddenly turned back and smiled at us.

Her eyes were black and her complexion pale. Awhile after we heard the sounds of bells and suddenly we heard something behind us and we saw a black figure .Fast forward abit and we were at McDonald’s. when we ordered our food and got the receipt from the machine , there was nothing on it . My friend placed his phone and wallet on top of it so no one could have touched it.

But some fingerprints appeared on the paper which did not match any of ours . We tried to see if we could have put our finger prints on accident but it was not possible to do it .Finally when we were walking home I decided to use my iPhones night vision to look up the dark hill and we saw a white figure walking around . I think it’s the same lady who cycled past us.

Radio DJ’s encounter with headless apparition

Love 97.2 DJ Violet Fenying shared about a spooky experience she had at the old Mediacorp campus from 2016.

She had wanted to take a selfie of herself in her sponsored outfit, so as to credit her sponsors, so she put her camera on timer and posed for a few pictures.

The next day, while she was on holiday with her family, she browsed through her gallery to delete some unwanted pictures taking up space in her phone.

She then saw the photo that she took the day before and was speechless.

She had captured an apparition wearing period clothes, and the figure was headless.

She then asked the wardrobe department if anyone had borrowed a costume from them, but they said no.

Mysterious guest inside KTV room

Images source: Screenshot from Tropic Monsters TV on YouTube

A girl named Ting shared about a supernatural encounter that she and her friends experienced at a local karaoke located at the basement of an unnamed location.

Ting said that she went to the KTV with 2 other colleagues, and the 3 of them were all wearing black.

Throughout the night of drinking and singing; from the corner of her eyes, Ting kept seeing a guy sitting beside her (in her peripheral vision).

She described it as being like when you think you see something but it’s not there.

So she brushed it off as her just being drunk.

Suddenly, one of her colleagues who was singing halfway, stopped and asked:

“Eh who is that guy?”

Her colleague said that the TV screen suddenly went black and he saw the guy’s reflection on the TV.

The group then packed their things and left.

After leaving the room, Ting asked her colleague what colour the guy was wearing, to which he said “white”.

She compared it to what she thought she saw and was shocked, the “guy” that she saw in her peripheral vision was wearing white as well.

They then went to the counter to make payment, and they were charged for 4 people, when there was only 3 of them.

They then explained the situation to the woman, who laughed it off and charged them for 3 people instead.

The next day, the group rewatched their Instagram videos and discovered something shocking.

A reflection on the TV of a “man” in white wearing a cowboy hat was captured by one of the cameras.

He appeared to be holding on to something that looked like a cane.

WW2 nurse still roaming Old Changi Hospital

Old Changi Hospital, located in Singapore, is known to be one of the most haunted places in the country. It was built in 1935 by the British colonial government as a hospital to treat British soldiers stationed in Singapore.

During World War II, the Japanese army occupied Singapore and used the hospital as a torture chamber and execution site.

The atrocities that took place during this time have led to many reports of paranormal activity at the site.

There have been numerous reports of ghost sightings and strange occurrences at Old Changi Hospital over the years.

Visitors to the site have reported hearing unexplained noises, footsteps, and voices, as well as feeling cold spots and experiencing sudden changes in temperature. Some have even reported being touched or pushed by unseen forces.

The nurse who was raped & murdered in WW2

One of the most famous ghost stories associated with Old Changi Hospital is the story of the ghost of a nurse. According to legend, during World War II, a nurse was raped and murdered by Japanese soldiers in the hospital.

Her ghost is said to haunt the hospital, appearing as a pale figure in a nurse’s uniform. Visitors have reported seeing her in various locations throughout the hospital, including the operating room and the maternity ward.

A video was captured back in 2017 showing a white figure dressed in what appears to be a nurse gown and holding onto some towels and walking down the corridors of the abandoned hospital.

Japanese soldiers

Another commonly reported ghost is that of a Japanese soldier who is said to have committed hari kiri in the hospital after the war. Visitors have reported seeing his ghost wandering the halls of the hospital, and some have even claimed to have been pushed or grabbed by him.

In addition to these specific ghosts, there have been many other reports of paranormal activity at Old Changi Hospital. Visitors have reported feeling a sense of unease or dread when entering certain areas of the hospital, and some have claimed to have seen apparitions or shadows moving in the darkness.

One of the more notable incidents involving Old Changi Hospital took place in 2008, when a group of Singaporean ghost hunters filmed an episode of their show at the site.

During the filming, one of the crew members claimed to have been possessed by a malevolent spirit. He began speaking in a strange language and acting erratically, and it took several minutes for his fellow crew members to calm him down.

While skeptics may dismiss these reports as the result of overactive imaginations or a desire for attention, many people believe that Old Changi Hospital is truly haunted. The hospital’s tragic history, combined with the reports of paranormal activity, have led to its reputation as one of the most haunted places in Singapore.

Famous ghost of German girl at Pulau Ubin

A video emerged online showing a ghostly encounter purportedly captured at Pulau Ubin.

The video was taken by a security officer, who captured what he claims to be the ghost of the famous German Girl Shrine on the island.

The security guard was taking a video of the island’s surrounding at night to inform his supervisor that he couldn’t do his “round check” because it was raining that night.

But as he panned his camera towards his right, in the distance beside some foliage, a figure wearing what appears to be an “old medieval gown” could be seen floating across.

The video then zoomed in on the figure, showing the purported ghost’s attire, with the lower part of the gown appearing to be puffier than the top.

The legend of the German Girl Ghost

The legend of the German Girl Ghost dates back to the World War 1 period (1914 to 1918). She was said to be a daughter of a German coffee plantation owner who lived near where the German Girl Shrine currently sits at Pulau Ubin.

Two names popped up from research into the story, via the past land deeds – Daniel Brandt and Hermann Mulingans, but in-depth investigations into the girl’s parents were inconclusive.

The story goes that the German girl’s family was taken away by British soldiers for internment but she somehow managed to escape. However, she slipped and fell into a quarry before dying, and her dead body was then found by the Boyanese people and covered up with sand.

Her body was later retrieved by Chinese workers who then gave her a proper burial, and the grave was then exhumed in 1974 to make way for quarry excavation works before being relocated to its current location, at the German Girl Shrine in Pulau Ubin.

Ghostly figure wandering along the beach

It is said that the German girl’s spirit remained on the island. Since then, visitors to Pulau Ubin have reported seeing the ghostly figure of a young girl in a white dress, wandering through the forest and along the beach. Some have even claimed to have heard her crying or calling out for her father.

The legend of the German Girl Ghost has become a popular topic of discussion among paranormal enthusiasts and ghost hunters. Many have attempted to capture evidence of the ghostly presence, with some claiming to have recorded eerie voices and strange apparitions on film.

Despite the many sightings and stories, there are some who believe that the legend of the German Girl Ghost is simply a myth. They point out that there is no historical evidence to support the story of the girl and her family, and that the legend may have been invented to attract tourists to the island.

Regardless of whether or not the German Girl Ghost is real, there is no denying the eerie atmosphere that permeates Pulau Ubin. The island’s dense jungle and deserted beaches make it the perfect setting for a ghost story, and visitors can’t help but feel a sense of unease as they explore its winding paths and hidden corners.

The legend of the German Girl Ghost at Pulau Ubin is a fascinating and spooky tale that has captured the imagination of many visitors to the island. Whether you believe in ghosts or not, there is no denying the eerie atmosphere of Pulau Ubin and the allure of its mysterious legends.

Ghostly passenger on Double Decker bus

Chilling video footage emerged online showing a bus driver in Singapore catching sight of a ghostly apparition on his bus’ CCTV cameras, according to Mothership.

Facebook page Supernatural Confessions posted footage of the ghostly encounter that was sent to them by Syed Wilson, who runs the Dark Arts of Syed Wilson Facebook page.

They said that the footage was taken by a bus driver in Singapore, who noticed someone (or something) sitting on the upper deck of his double-decker bus.

However, he knew that there was no one on the bus at the time and when he went up to the upper deck to check things out, he found nobody at all.

Black figure seated & looking down

The video begins with the bus driver filming his driving station inside the bus as the buttons beeped before he panned the camera up towards the CCTV panel above him.

There appeared to be a man dressed in black wearing what seems to be a hat, seated on one of the outer seats and looking down.

The CCTV footage also reads: “Passengers in bus: 0” despite there being a “man” sitting right in front of the camera.

He muttered to himself “it’s too early for something supernatural to happen, how can there be anybody upstairs?”

Had asked the “person” to come down earlier

The driver then went up the stairs onto the upper deck, where he found nobody at all, saying “SIAL LAH TAKDE ORANG KAN! (there’s nobody here)”.

Visibly spooked out by this point, he said out loud to himself “I even asked the ‘person’ to come down just now” before hurling an expletive.

He then walked all the way to the back of the bus to check on every seat to confirm that there was indeed nobody, before the video cuts off.

Not to spook anyone else further but based on the bus’ screen, it was a bus service that runs along Punggol.

Ghost playing Hide & Seek

A netizen shared how he was cycling late at night and saw somethiung spooky.

He had goosebumps all of a sudden and took a quick snapshot on his camera.

He then cycled away from the place quickly because of what he saw in the photo.

He had captured a photo of a female ghost hiding behind a tree.

XMM KENA WHACKED BY AH LIANS UNTIL JIALAT, AS THEIR GANG CROWDS AROUND & FILM

A video emerged online showing a girl being confronted by another group of girls, before getting mercilessly beaten up by them as they punched her face repeatedly and pulled her hair, while a group of guys surrounded them and filmed them while chanting “whack, whack, whack!”

What the video showed

At the start of the video, the victim, seen wearing a black shoulder-strap top, was seen trying to flee from her attackers with another girl who was holding on to her hand.

However, the assailants gave chase and managed to catch up to the victim, as they were followed by a group of guys armed with their mobile phones and recording the whole thing.

In the next shot of the video, the victim was seen being surrounded by her attackers and the huge crowd of guys, as her rescuer watched on helplessly.

A heated exchange then ensued as the crowd bayed for blood, and the victim ended up getting railed on by 4 of the other girls, as they rained heavy blows repeatedly on her head and viciously pulling on her hair, dragging her down onto the ground.

She remained squatting on the ground as she held on to her head, evidently in pain, as the crowd of guys recorded the whole thing and cheered the assailants on.

Different POV of the initial attack

The video then cuts to the next shot, presumably a different POV of the attack, showing how the attack came to be.

One of the assailants in white was seen screaming vulgarities at the victim as a guy screams off camera “whack whack whack! no need scared one, just whack!” before another of the assailants, also wearing white, joins in and screams at the girl.

The victim could be seen turning around to look for support as she cries, while the assailant in white could be seen happily smiling away as she laughs with her accomplice.

The two girls then suddenly grabs hold of the victim’s hair, catching her off guard and throwing her onto the ground as they rained heavy blow after heavy blow on the victim’s head.

Corners victim to a fence

The attack then escalates to another location, as seen in the next shot, as the girls took the assault beside a fence.

The crowd could be seen gathering around the girls and filming as a few of the guys even climbed on top of the fence to get a better view of the attack.

The confrontation continues as the assailants cornered the victim, who was literally back against the wall, facing the 4 assailants and the whole entire group of guys filming her.

This time, another of the assailant, also wearing a white top but sporting a light-brown ponytail, threw a right hook at point-blank range, striking the girl square on the face before unleashing a barrage of repeated punches on the victim, before switching to slapping the girl repeatedly as she held her hands up to protect herself, in futile.

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Conducted “post game interview” with the assailants

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Background behind the attack

According to an anonymous netizen, the 4 girls who attacked the victim, did so because the victim had spoken badly about them.

The 4 alleged assailants

One of the attackers issues public apology

PUBLIC AND PRIVATE HOSPITALS DIFFERENCE, WHEN SURVIVAL CHANCES ARE LOW

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Help please! Have there been cases where private hospitals were able to treat someone when public hospitals were not able to?

I have a family member who has a tumor in an area where it is very complicated to remove and the TTSH doctor is saying the chances of surgery success and survival is low.

My family is planning to seek a second opinion from other hospitals, including private ones.

I’m wondering has anyone encountered cases where the second opinion was entirely different in a good way?

– I’m not well-informed about the differences in public vs private hospital treatment, but have there been cases where private hospitals were able to treat someone when public hospitals were not able to?

My family is feeling pretty hopeless and depressed now and we’re going to grab onto any hope we can get our hands on.

Here are what netizens think:

  • my mum passed away from pancreatic cancer. It’s insidious and known to be a a really tough cancer to treat. We too had also weighed the differences between the two and we had sought opinions from friends and relatives whom are surgeons or doctors. I’m pretty sure the doctors and nurses from government hospitals are more than equipped to handle their treatment and I do not think private vs government would make much difference except for the cost which can be exorbitant and can put your family into debt. If your family is in good financial standing, you could go private just for added comfort for your family member, the process and waiting time might be shorter and you could have selection of doctors. I do not think it makes a real difference in terms of treatment. As for now, I can only say the cancer is hard to treat. Please spend precious and quality time with your family member while they are still around.
  • You will only know when you get the second opinion medical report. I know you are looking for reassurance that seeking a second opinion may turn out differently but it’s not going to happen that way. Other people’s experiences are based on their own circumstances, not yours. So you need to remember that. You will also have to face the extra task of weeding out factually inaccurate and unsound advice. Which I’m already seeing here. Best of luck.
  • TTSH say tumour complicated to remove and has low chance of success, they are just telling you the truth. Private doctor will do for you at no higher chances of success. Please do get a second opinion. But unless there’s a mistake, there won’t be a big difference in opinions. Life has many unpredictable and helpless moments. Be brave and faced it. I lost both parents within 5 years, both to cancer. The pain, the helplessness, everything you can imagine, I have experienced. But I learnt one thing. If can’t improve situation, don’t bother overthinking. You will just make yourself more miserable. Better off to just face and accept.
  • the reason why private hospital is better in treatment is because they use drugs which public hospital won’t. but of course the treatment is many times more expensive.
  • In general, for Singapore, public hospital doctors are equally competent as private hospital doctors. But definitely feel free to seek a second opinion as any doctor can be wrong.
  • My friend’s father had a terrible experience at a public hospital and the private doctor righted the wrong. Sometimes it’s “luck” depending on which doctor you get. I’ve had a really good local doctor at a public hospital before.
  • The deal is that private doctors have a conflict of interest and will most probably tell you what you want to hear. That said, go ahead and ask for it anyway but keep the above in mind.
  • For pancreatic cancer, the prognosis and treatment plan may not be very different even if you seek second or third opinion. But for somebody who has little knowledge of how the cancer can progress will benefit from the reassurance of hearing of another specialist. You can make an informed decision from there. My personal opinion is the gov run NCC is as good as those in private practice.

MAN’S KKJ GOT CUT OFF IN CIRCUMCISION GONE WRONG, GETS ONLY $35K IN DAMAGES

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In a startling turn of events, a young Malaysian man, who underwent a traumatic circumcision 13 years ago, has seen a drastic reduction in the damages awarded to him after winning the lawsuit against the Malaysian Government and four other parties.

Background of the Incident

The story begins with a young Malaysian man who, at the age of 10, had the entire head of his private part cut off during a circumcision procedure, according to the Harian Metro.

The lawsuit, filed against the government and medical practitioners, claimed that the prescribed procedure was not followed, leading to irreversible damage.

The High Court, sympathetic to the victim’s plight, initially awarded a substantial sum of RM3.1 million in damages. The decision was based on the assertion that the medical staff’s delay in treating the injuries left no hope of saving the victim’s private parts.

Court of Appeal’s Decision

However, the recent decision by the Court of Appeal, led by Datuk Ravintharan Paramaguru, unanimously reduced the damages significantly. The panel deemed the initial general damages of RM2 million (SGD$575k) too high and unsupported by documentation.

Consequently, the general damages were reduced to RM100,000 (SGD$28.7k), and special damages were reduced from RM108,356 (SGD$31.1k) to RM23,556 (SGD$6.7k).

Apart from the government, the four other parties named in the suit include a medical officer and the director of Kuala Lipis Hospital in Pahang, and a specialist doctor and the director of Selayang Hospital in Selangor. Each played a role in the alleged failure of the prescribed circumcision procedure.

Prescribed Procedure Failure

The heart of the lawsuit lies in the claim that the prescribed procedure was not carried out, resulting in the severe consequence of the entire head of the genital being cut off. This failure led to the irreversible changes in the victim’s body, impacting his life significantly.

The victim’s mother claimed that her son, now a young man, became introverted and no longer sought friendships with peers due to the permanent changes in his body caused by the circumcision incident.

The lawsuit also highlighted the alleged negligence of the medical staff, asserting that their delay in treating the injuries exacerbated the situation, eliminating any hope of salvaging the victim’s private parts.

Defendants’ Appeal

In response to the High Court’s decision, the five defendants, including the government and medical practitioners, appealed. The Court of Appeal found the awarded sum too high, leading to the significant reduction in damages.

NURSE WITH DEGREE SAYS PAY ONLY $3K PLUS, IN DEMAND JOB BUT PAY LOW

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Dear admin, please grant me permission as I’m keen to gather diverse perspectives on this matter.

Greetings to all, I am a fresh graduate nurse and i’m pretty shocked at how low the pay is for dip/degree nurses. Many of my peers start with a salary of $3350 without honors; with merit, it rises to $3.4k-$3.6k. Honors students can earn around $4k, while diploma holders begin at approximately $2.5k. After CPF deductions, the take-home pay for degree holders without honours might be just above 2k.

I’m unsure why the government is actively encouraging locals to join the nursing workforce when, based on last year’s employment survey, the pay remains among the lowest in the university.

Given the demanding nature of nursing, coupled with the aging population, one might argue that the starting pay should be significantly higher to retain local nurses.

The government has sought assistance from other countries, including India and the Philippines, to address the nursing manpower shortage but we all know they would leave after their 6 years bond & employing foreigners are just short term solutions.

During COVID, 20% of Philippine nurses left Singapore, and it’s widely known that foreigners often view Singapore as a stepping stone to later work in Australia. Unfortunately, nursing lacks appeal among locals due to low pay and persistent discrimination and stereotypes, with the profession still being labeled a “dirty job” and I feel that there’s no way we can change the mindset of the generation nowadays as it has been fixated like this for so many years..

WOMAN HOOKED UP WITH HUSBAND’S DAD & HAVING HIS BABY, INSIST SHE DID NOTHING WRONG

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In a small village near Pontypridd, a love story is unfolding that challenges societal norms. Stephanie Fuller, 22, is defiant in the face of criticism for expecting twins with her husband’s father, Darren Fuller, 44.

Background of the Relationship

The tale begins with Stephanie, Declan, and Darren—characters entangled in a complex web of love and criticism. A timeline of events leads us to the current situation, marked by controversy and unconventional family dynamics.

Declan Fuller, Stephanie’s husband, accuses her of running off with his father Darren, citing an afternoon rendezvous captured on a baby monitor where she was seen going into his father’s room. Stephanie vehemently denies any wrongdoing, providing her version of events to counter the claims.

Addressing the controversial baby monitor incident, Stephanie clarifies that there was no inappropriate activity. She recounts falling asleep while watching TV with Darren, with the bedroom door open, and refutes Declan’s allegations.

Stephanie explains that Darren initially played a protective role in her life, and their relationship evolved from a protective friendship to a romantic involvement. She emphasizes that by the time Darren moved in, her relationship with Declan had already soured.

The Decision to Be Together

Stephanie reveals that her relationship with Darren only escalated after Declan demanded a divorce. Despite the age gap, Stephanie and Darren express their love for each other, with Darren immediately reciprocating Stephanie’s feelings.

A snapshot of the current domestic scene portrays Darren cooking in the kitchen, and Stephanie cuddling with their toddler, Willow. The trio resides in a three-bedroomed rented home, seemingly content in their unique family setup.

Stephanie shares the surprise of an unplanned twin pregnancy. She expresses happiness and highlights Darren’s role as a stepdad and grandad to Willow, emphasizing their excitement for the twins’ arrival in December.

The intricate family relationships come to light, with the twins being half-siblings to Declan and Willow, and simultaneously aunt or uncle to Willow. Darren plays the roles of grandfather and stepdad in this unconventional family structure.

Stephanie and Darren acknowledge the societal criticism but remain undeterred. They express their love and commitment, prioritizing their happiness over public opinion.

MAN WITHOUT A JOB GETS SCOLDED BY GF, AFTER GETS JOB STILL GET SCOLDED

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How do you deal with an overly needy gf?

My GF has been pestering me to be with her or game with her all the time.

We used to go on dates and game often because I was jobless.

But I found a job and she seems to still want to keep up the previous gaming lifestyle.

She keeps pestering me to game with her the entire day, making a big deal out of it if i say i am busy.

I had to resort to telling her a white lie that I am busy at work sometimes, just to catch a breather.

To put things in perspective, it is something along the line of gaming before work, gaming during my work breaks, gaming after my work till late at night, gaming the entire day during weekends, gaming with her when she is bored at her relative’s home.

She has depression, and the jobs she was in did not last long, and she is mostly a stay home person, I already do all her chores, go to work to support our living and now i am also expected to entertain her the entire day?

To make it worst, she even invaded my personal gaming space by joining my 5-man team with my kakis, thanks to that, we had to exclude one of us so that she can join my games, even had my bro bitching to me that she is causing our ranking to drop because of her low skill level. I did not tell her this because I do not want to create drama.

What do I do? Sometimes she even resort to coming over to my place during my work at home just to squeeze out every last drop of time i have left, or straight up ask me to game with her when i am offline from the meetings etc

Here are what netizens think:

  • Establish boundaries. Tell her your availability and stick to it. Don’t allow unauthorised home visits and don’t eject your teammate because of her. Manage and talk.Most importantly, it was mentioned in passing but it could be the real problem: you said she had depression. it might be worth encouraging her to see a psychiatrist as that could be the root of some of the issues
  • Do you think the world has only one girl to be your girlfriend? Even if so, you don’t need this girl in your life. Take care.
  • Mobile legend is it? Or pubg? She have to find a job n cut gaming time. If she dont want to then u both are on different path. Talk to her

WOMAN DISS MOTHER-IN-LAW AS SHE OVER RELIES ON HER SON, TAKING UP HIS TIME

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I have a lot of resentment towards my mother-in-law

She is not a bad person, in fact she is very kind and helpful from her heart. She is the type of friend who will go all out to help you no matter what problem you have.

However, her dynamic with my husband is bad… really bad. She was a single mom since he was 7 and she was probably too young to manage a child so he was on his own a lot. Then she was absent during his growing up years leaving him with relatives while she worked and also fall out with the relatives due to her easily offended behavior.

When he got into adulthood, he had to in turn take care of her like a parent which included managing her finances, taxes, her rental property, her medical appointments, basically she doesnt learn/know anything and depended on him a lot and sometimes I see how that stresses him out. They argue a lot when they talk too which is where all my resentment is arising from.

My husband is one of the sweetest man I have ever met until it comes to his mom. But being her only son, he cannot shun the responsibility so all the interactions stresses him and out and in turn stresses me out.

Next, I know she is easily offended so I am always cordial to her to keep the boundary. Means I give her respect but I can never give her love. I know she wants to love me like a daughter because that is in her nature, she has a lot of love and a lot of strong feelings.. but I just can’t because of resentment and boundary. I keep the boundary so that we will not have a relationship so we will not have a chance for conflict. In other words, I do not have any desire to be personal with her on any level and I think she can sense it.

Lately, the resentment got stronger because she said she is having anxiety and that also worried my husband. I have no sympathy towards her, I feel that she is weak and useless and burdening my husband. Additionally, I feel like a horrible monster because I have so much sympathy for even people on the streets, the homeless but I have no sympathy for her. I feel horrible and angry when I think of her. I dont like this version of myself.. Just ranting.

ELDERLY SAYS THE YISHUN MEME STARTED FROM THE 80s, LEGIT STORIES OF SIAO LANG

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Growing up as an elderly living in Yishun during the 80s, I have seen and experienced many things. One of the most memorable things would be the Yishun meme that has been circulating around the internet and social media for the past few years. Many young people nowadays are familiar with the meme but are unaware of its origin.

I will be sharing my personal stories of what I know about the Yishun meme and how it started.

The Yishun meme first came about in the 80s and was popularised by the locals who lived there. It was a term used to describe the people who lived in the neighbourhood as “siao lang” (meaning crazy in Hokkien). It was not intended to be derogatory but rather a term of endearment used among the locals to describe those who were more eccentric or outgoing in personality.

The term “siao lang” was first coined by the locals during the 80s and was used to describe people who were more daring and outgoing. These people were often seen as eccentric and were referred to as “siao lang”, as an expression of admiration for their courage and daring attitude.

At the time, Yishun was a relatively small and quiet neighbourhood. Most of the people living there were either elderly or middle-aged. It was a close-knit community and everyone knew everyone else. As such, the locals usually had a good understanding of who was “siao lang” and who was not.

The Yishun meme was born when the locals started sharing stories about their “siao lang” neighbours with each other. These stories quickly spread and soon the whole neighbourhood was talking about it. It became so popular that it even spread to the neighbouring towns and eventually the internet.

As time passed, the Yishun meme slowly gained traction and eventually became a viral phenomenon. The stories of the “siao lang” neighbours spread far and wide and soon it was being shared by people all over Singapore.

BOSS SUKA SUKA FIRE PEOPLE FOR THE SMALLEST THINGS, EMPLOYEE SAYS SHE BLACKHEARTED

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Bad part time job experience

Is there a group chat or list of bad part time job to avoid??

I was doing part time at this studio, the boss is super long winded, rude and sacarstic. She treat everyone like a dummy, told us what to do from Step A to Z and kept repeating. When someone suggested a certain way to do things faster and more efficient, she will say things like ‘just follow what I said, i am here to tell you how to do things fast’ but end up lecturing us saying we do so slow (using her method)

She fire people just cause they use phone for awhile, despite not affecting the work flow and speed. Isn’t it normal for people to take a short break(just a quick check on phone) from the continue hours of working. It’s understandable to fire if the person causes delay in work, but everything was on track and even faster than the expected schedule. I honestly feel she just wan to find excuse to cut manpower since the production are done faster, completing earlier. She could’ve say things nicely and explain she wan to reduce the manpower instead of blaming the person using some lousy excuse.

The quality of her items are very bad, all with defects and scratches. Instead of putting it aside, she will tell us to just pack it into the box. (So she don’t suffer any loss) I hope this kind of blackhearted business won’t last long and people don’t suffer under this shity job and boss

If there’s a list, will share which studio is this so others won’t go there to work

Here are what netizens think:

  • Lol. How can u use phone without reducing workflow or speed.
  • Theres a site called Glassdoor
  • Would you like to start such a group chat or list instead?