I’m sure many of us have had moments in our lives where we’ve looked back and wished that we’d done things differently.

For me, this was when I was in my early twenties and wasted all my money partying with my good friends.

Wasted a lot of money on his ‘bros’ and drinking

At the time, I thought it was a great idea. We would go out every weekend, staying up late and having fun. I thought that it was a great way to socialize and let off some steam.

I never really thought about how much money it was costing me. I was young and naive, and I thought that it was money well spent.

But now, looking back, I realize that I was wrong. All those nights out partying with my friends have cost me a small fortune. I’m sure that I could have put that money to better use if I had just taken a step back and thought it through.

But it’s not just the money I regret. Over the years, my friends have started to drift away. I don’t see them anymore, and I have no idea where they are.

Now, I’m left with nothing. I would do anything to go back and change my ways, but it’s too late. I can only look back and think about what could have been.

I guess it’s a lesson learned. I’m older now and wiser. I know that I should be more mindful of how I spend my money, and the people I choose to spend my time with. I will never make that mistake again.

I just hope that my friends are doing okay, wherever they are. I hope that they don’t look back and regret our time together like I do.

I know that it was fun while it lasted, but I can’t help but feel like I should have been more responsible.

I guess this is one of those things that you learn as you get older. You realize that money isn’t everything and that time with the people you care about is much more important.

I wish I had seen that sooner, but it’s too late now. All I can do is move forward and try to make better decisions in the future.

My (24M) Girlfriend (25F) Wants Something I Don’t Think I Can Give Her In Bed

Hey, first time posting in here. After about a 2 year stint of not having intercourse/being out of the dating scene to focus on myself mentally and in my career I met someone who I care for deeply.

Somebody who in the month span that I’ve known her I care for deeper than any previous relationship that lasted much longer and took much longer to get to the level we are at.

Emotionally we connect incredibly well. Value wise we are very similar and have no issues. Even in bed we don’t have “issues” because we both have a lot of fun, however, I feel (and know) I am not giving her exactly what she wants.

So far in our history I’ve made her climax multiple times so that isn’t the issue, though it is not consistent and I am working to improve on that.

What really gets her off is rough pounding. Hitting it as hard as possible. She wants this for 5-7 minutes and I’m not able to achieve this.

Every other partner (8 others in the past) enjoyed some of that but not the entire time. We would spend some time on foreplay, then some slow intimate acts, a little bit of roughness, a few position changes, back and forth and variance in speed/hardness.

My girlfriend on the other hand really just wants me to pound the entire time. In your opinion, does this make us incompatible for the long term if I don’t think I will be able to achieve this? Could I eventually achieve this? I could tell once or twice that she was “upset” or kind of disappointed that I wasn’t able to do what she wanted and afterwards she discussed it with me. She thinks I can improve on this but I have this doubt in my head that I can’t get to that point.

My main issue is that going that rough and fast makes me cum ALOT quicker than if I switch up the pace. What really hit me was when she mentioned that a previous partner was able to maintain this for 10 plus minutes of continuous rough pounding. Again, is this something I COULD improve on? Are there solutions to this in your opinion?

Husband is boring in bed

I (29F) have been with my husband (30M) for 5 years, sleeping together longer on and off. He is gradually getting worse in bed.

All of our good sessions are with me initiating/riding/controlling the session. If I ask him to dominate me and take control, he gets nervous and does weird things (pokes me, awkward thrusting that doesn’t feel good at all).

He acts very inexperienced sometimes and it is truly strange to me because he is not.

This is pretty new as he used to be better at basic penetration. I have explained what I like many times and he doesn’t listen. He is just not intuitive.

I’m not sure why the basic things that used to feel good are getting worse. He is angry when I tell him.

He has no interests and doesn’t watch adult videos etc. it truly seems like he doesn’t have much interest in intercouse, and it definitely ends when he comes.

I regularly give him BJs and HJs to the point of coming and he never returns the favor

Is there an article I can send him that he can further his bed moves? Trying to help him verbally is doing nothing for me

Netizens’ comments

1. Have you tried encouraging him? It sounds like he’s being criticised a lot.
   That’s not going to do much for his confidence and it will be a downhill slide everytime he feels like he’s not good enough.
   Try praising the things he gets right, maybe even go a little bit OTT to build his confidence up.
   If someone always feels like they’re doing something badly, they aren’t going to want to do it
2. Giving him reading isn’t going to do anything for someone who seems to have lost their interest in your pleasure. If you can’t talk about it, then giving him a book or article to read won’t do anything either.
   Meanwhile, there can be so many explanations of what’s going on. The fact that he gets angry isn’t a good sign but either he’s bad at receiving constructive criticism or he’s been storing up frustration and/or resentment over something. Again: if he won’t tell you, then you can only stumble in the dark, guessing.
3. You say he’s “gradually” getting worse in bed. That implies that has a level of ability that he is slipping away from. My guess is that something is going on with him, and it’s likely psychological. If you flat-out said he was just bad, then I wouldn’t say this, but you describe an ongoing regression in his ability.

My (22f) roommate (26f) constantly farts in her sleep and I don’t know how to approach this. Please help!

So I recently moved to a new place and I have a new roommate whom I met after moving. She’s a sweet girl and we get along great but over the last few nights I’ve been here, she has passed gas multiple times in the night.

Sometimes it’s loud and sometimes it’s not, but there’s always a horrendous stench. It doesn’t even smell normal, it smells so bad that I’m worried she might have some health issues.

It also makes it extremely difficult for me, especially because we make it a point to lock the bedroom door (for safety reasons) and the windows are kept closed.

I’m literally typing this in bed right now because she’s already let out twice and I’m dreadfully waiting for the next one.

I want to approach this with her for both of our sakes but I don’t want to embarrass her. How do I go about this?

Netizens’ comments

1. Imagine someone asking you to stop sleep farting 😂
2. My boyfriend is a sleep farter. I have one of those wax melters on my side table for nights when he really stinks. We also keep a fan going to circulate, but the only thing you can really do is hold a blanket to your face and wait for the smell to go away.
3. Cool fact – I fart myself awake in the morning. That’s when I know it is time for me to be up and about and be productive. I live alone. With a cat. He doesn’t mind.
4. Bad smell does not necessarily indicate bad health or bad diet, this is a common misconception. Many very healthy foods, such as cruciferous vegetables, can produce sulfuric smelling flatulence as part of the normal digestive process.
5. have you tried a diffuser? febreeze? nose plugs? this will be highly embarassing for her and if i were you i would exhaust all possible options of coping by yourself. maybe even a physical barrier like a privacy partition would help. its gas so it wont obviously fix it completely, but it might help a little.

Woken up by a Neighbour’s extremely loud vomiting at 5/6am every morning.

Every 5/6am, one neighbour (i have no idea who) will begin to vomit his guts out. Its seems like his toilet echoes out his voice. It’s so damn loud.

My sleep quality is like crap now because i get woken up by his gut throttling puke. Cant tell if he’s puking from illness or drunkenness. Who am i suppose to reach out to for this issue.

Netizens’ comments

1. i think the sound might not be vomiting, but brushing of the teeth (tongue specifically).
   don’t know why, but some old people would brush their tongue till the point they physically gag and make a vomiting sound. some of my older relatives brush like that
2. I think they are just hurking their phlegm out. Old ppl are notorious for doing it really loudly
3. Omg!!! I have this same nieghbour too. But he does it at 7+am. He does the same every morning. This guttural vomiting sound but no actual vomit. It’s just the vomiting motion
4. Based from comments this is more widespread than any of us expected
5. Looks like your problem will be short lived as he doesn’t seem to have very much longer to live.

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GF (25F) of six years admitted to me (28M) that she cheated on me twice in the first 2 months of our relationship.

Feeling lost and hurt. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 years and we started talking about marriage.

She started feeling really guilty and self admitted to me that she had cheated on me twice very early in our relationship.

Apparently with this guy she had met a couple months before she met me. They were basically hooking up quite often but were never dating.

She didn’t even like him that much but she kept on going back to him because he was her first when it came to hooking up and she had a connection with him that looking back she says was very unhealthy.

After the 2nd time she cheated she felt really bad about what she was doing and ended it with him and blocked him.

She never told me back then because she really liked me and couldn’t bear to lose me. I am truly hurt by this.

We have been together for such a long time and have loved each other very much. My friends tell me this isn’t even that big of a deal but I’m having a very hard time letting it go and forgiving her.

I truly don’t want to end it with her over this but It’s been 3 weeks since she told me and I still can’t let it go.

It’s starting to really negatively affect of relationship and have even talked about breaking up. Any advice on how I can forgive her and let this go? Or maybe I should end it with her?

not sure how to approach a new gf with a stinky vajajay

We have been dating for a few weeks. We started having intercourse around date 3 or 4. After the first time I noticed a smell when we were doing it but just let it go as I know that sometimes it can have different smells.

We have been going for a few weeks now and it just doesn’t get any better, to the point where I haven’t been able to come because I am so taken back by the smell. It is hard to concentrate on the nut.

I have noticed myself already getting annoyed with her being around and I don’t get excited to go on dates.

I am not sure if I prematurely asked her to be my gf and am now realizing that we are not meant for each other or if I am only getting annoyed because of this problem I have in the bedroom.

I am trying to figure out how to approach it with her without coming off like a complete a-hole. We are so new into dating that.

Is it even worth it to tell her something so personal and sensitive? Or should I just break it off?

Netizens’ comments

1. How would you want to be approached if your genitals were smelly?
2. You’ve got nothing to lose by telling her. She will either take it on board and get checked out, potentially resolving the issue, or she will get offended and break it off, which is where you’re at anyway. Just be gentle.
3. Genuinely approach her with concern and say you’ve noticed an abnormal smell. You can say you saw online it can be a symptom of certain infections and has she seen a gyno recently.
   If you frame it as a health concern instead of how it impacts “your nut” you’re less likely to come across as a jerk.
   Alternatively you can just break up.
4. Why is no one talking about how you wrote that you get annoyed with her and don’t get excited for dates?? Sounds like the issue is beyond the smell. When you really have a connection with someone, talking about smells isn’t such a huge issue. It seems like you aren’t that into her and need to break it off.

I remember the first time I laid eyes on her. I was at a café in Hanoi, Vietnam, minding my own business, sipping a cup of freshly brewed coffee, when I saw her.

She was tall and slender with big beautiful eyes and a radiant smile. Her long brunette hair was tied back in a bun, and her porcelain skin glowed in the light of the sun. I was captivated by her beauty and grace and knew in an instant that she was the one.

Extended my trip because of her

It was then that I decided to stay in Vietnam for longer than the two weeks I had initially planned. I wanted to get to know her and explore the country with her.

I extended my trip and spent every day with her. We went sightseeing around Hanoi, exploring ancient temples and ruins, and taking in the vibrant culture of the city. We ate at the best restaurants and spent our evenings strolling along the streets, sharing stories and laughing until the sun came up.

Every day with her felt like a dream come true. I was madly in love with her and she felt the same way about me. We were inseparable and I couldn’t help but feel like I had found my soulmate in Vietnam.

Sadly, when my two weeks were up, I had to return home to Singapore. I was devastated to leave her, but I promised her that I would come back soon.

I kept my promise and returned to Vietnam a few months later. However, when I arrived, I realized that she had left the country.

I was heartbroken. I couldn’t believe she had gone without saying goodbye. I searched high and low for her but I never found her. I was left with a heavy heart and an empty feeling inside. I had lost the love of my life and I would never be able to forget her.

I still find myself thinking about her from time to time. I can still feel her presence when I wander around the streets of Hanoi. I can still remember the way she smiled and the sound of her voice. I can still feel the warmth of her embrace and the way she made me feel alive.

She left a piece of her heart in me and I left a piece of my heart in Vietnam.

To this day, I have never forgotten the beautiful girl I met in Vietnam. I still think about her and dream of the day I will finally find her again.

I had visited Bangkok some time back as it has been a while since travelled.

Apart from travelling, I wanted to meet some new people and maybe you know get some Siam bu to have a fun time.

Made a Thai friend

I decided to try out a new eatery that had caught my eye. I sat down and ordered some food, and soon a young Thai man came to my table and introduced himself. He was friendly and welcoming.

We got to talking and soon realised that we had a lot in common. We shared a similar sense of humour and we both enjoyed travelling. We ended up talking for hours and I had a great time.

When it was time to leave, he asked me if I wanted to meet his wife the following day and she could introduce some of her pretty single friends to me.

I happily accepted and we exchanged numbers before saying our goodbyes.

Found his wife very familiar

The next day, I went to his house and was welcomed warmly by him and his wife. She introduced some of her friends to me and we all had a wonderful time together and I was touched by their hospitality.

I found his wife very familiar but couldn’t figure out who she was and she too acted like it was the first time that she had seen me.

As the evening drew to a close and we had some drinks, I couldn’t help but feel a strange sense of familiarity when I talked to her. We continued to talked for a while and then it hit me – I had slept with her before.

It was a few years back when she had been working in a Siam diu in Singapore. We had an affair and were quite intimate throughout her stay in Singapore.

I had honestly completely forgotten about it until that moment, as I had many different siam bu with me back in the day.

However, I did not mention it and I could tell from her facial expression that she was hoping that I don’t mention a thing as well.