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GF COLDWAR TO BF, DON’T WANT TO SOLVE PROBLEM & AIR ‘DIRTY LAUNDRY’ TO FRIENDS

need some real advice as I’m trying to figure this one out

been w my gf about a year now and we know of each other past dates and partners and how we were treated etc. She has been treated very badly in her past.

Like people ghosting on her, guys posting on ig stories but cannot reply her, she being apologetic to guys, she hating the feeling of being in a cold war with guys (even if it’s just a date) and more.

I have noticed a pattern in the past few months. She is doing all of these to me and she doesn’t even realize it. When I confront her she just Gaslight me.

– she ghost me when she’s angry

– she can use fb and ig for hours without replying me

– she complains to her friends about me

– never apologetic even when she’s in the wrong

I’ve been contemplating if I should just cut my losses and move on. I love her and it hurts but I feel like a part of her hasn’t healed and she’s causing damage to me.

I’ve emotionally withdrawn myself from the rs (eg reply late, don’t bother when she’s angry) and I feel toxic.

What would you do in my position? Everytime I voice out something, she gets annoyed at me and then ghost me cos she’s mad.

I kind of have my answer but I just wanna see how others who have been through something similar would react.

MAN GOT FIRED AFTER HE HAD A RELATIONSHIP WITH MARRIED COLLEAGUE

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I recently got fired from my job after I had a relationship with a married colleague. It’s been a difficult few weeks, and I’m still trying to make sense of it all.

It all started when I started working with this colleague. We had an immediate connection, and soon we were spending more and more time together. We kept it professional during work hours, but it soon became clear that we both had feelings for each other.

After a few months, we decided to take our relationship to the next level. We started dating, and it was the best time of my life.

But then it all came to an abrupt halt. We had been dating for a few months when I found out that she was married. I was shocked and felt like I had been betrayed. It was a difficult moment, and it took me a while to process it.

I didn’t tell my employer about our relationship, but it soon became clear that they had found out. They called me into a meeting and told me that it was against their policy for employees to date colleagues. They told me that I was going to be fired for violating their policy.

I was devastated. I had never expected that it would come to this. I had thought that our relationship was private and that it wouldn’t affect our work. I felt like it was an extremely unfair policy and that I was being punished for something that wasn’t my fault.

Then the joke was, I was fired but she did not get any forms of punishment

I tried to appeal the decision, but it was no use. The company wouldn’t budge. I had no choice but to accept the consequences of my actions. My relationship with my colleague had cost me my job.

Looking back, I can’t help but feel a sense of injustice. I know that it was wrong to have a relationship with a married colleague, and that it was against the company policy.

But I also feel like the company’s policy on dating co-workers was inhumane. It was a zero-tolerance policy, and didn’t take into account any extenuating circumstances. I feel like it was an outdated, draconian policy that didn’t take into account the complexities of modern relationships.

I’m still trying to come to terms with what happened. I’m still trying to move on and find another job, but it’s been a difficult process. I know that I have to take responsibility for my actions, but I also feel like the company should have had a more flexible policy and taken into account the complexities of modern relationships.

GRAB DRIVER SHOWS OFF HOW HE EARN $1,175 DURING CNY PERIOD

There’s a common misperception that driving for a ride-hailing service like Grab or GoJek or Tada is an easy way to make money.

But the reality is that it can take a lot of hard work and dedication to make a good living.

Recently, a Grab driver in Singapore shared a screenshot of his impressive earnings in a couple of days. He earned a total of $1,175.82 on Jan 22, 2022, after driving for during the CNY period and completing 137 jobs.

However, netizens said that his health might be affected for driving Grab a whole day. A netizen said: “No life and soon will be visiting hospital”.

While another man pointed out that the driver should have spent time with his family for Chinese New Year, assuming that the man has a family. (Brain got water)

“hello CNY must celebrate with family why the whole year driving still not enough must work on the cny” said Tan

Here are what netizens think:

It’s because many drivers off la on this special day. Those who drove will surely gain. Every yr the same no need be so happy will never happen again for the next few months till another CNY…

Now is good time to choing for money if you are single lah. Because now is supply less demand more.

Once in a while okay lah… CNY comes once a year. So no harm chiong for one or two days lah… after that rest for one week.

Power. More than my 1 week earnings

Confirm drive morning till late next morning… Chiong all e way. 

he very young no family yet.. so time foe him earn money now.. and now alot ppls do that even they got family. Every one got different needs. So I don judge others ppls life. We dk what they go thru

GIRL SAYS 90% OF MEN WHO GOES OUT DRINKING TO FIND GIRLS GETS NOTHING

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 As a woman, I know all too well the dangers of men going out drinking in search of a girl.

For many men, it’s a rite of passage, a chance to be “the man”, the one that gets the girl, the one that all the other guys are jealous of.

However, what they don’t realize is that nine times out of ten, they’re going to get nothing out of it.

It’s a sad reality, but it’s true. The truth is, when guys go out drinking, they’re usually looking for a hook up. They want something fast and easy, and sadly, the girls they’re looking for usually don’t want the same thing. They’re looking for something meaningful, something real, and it’s unlikely that they’re going to find it when they’re out drinking.

If a guy is serious about finding a girl, he’s going to have to put in a lot of effort and be willing to put himself out there. He’s going to have to talk to a lot of girls, and he’s going to have to be willing to put forth the effort to get to know them.

He’s going to have to be willing to put in the time to get to know them, and he’s going to have to be willing to invest in the relationship.

It’s not easy, but it’s what it takes to find a real connection. When a guy goes out drinking, he’s usually looking for something quick and easy, but he’s not going to find it.

He’s not going to find the girl of his dreams when he’s drunk and looking for a one night stand. He’s going to end up with nothing, and he’s going to have wasted his time.

So if a guy is serious about finding a girl, he’s going to have to put in the effort. He’s going to have to talk to girls, get to know them, and invest in the relationship.

He’s going to have to be willing to put in the time and the effort if he truly wants to make a connection. He’s going to have to be willing to put in the work if he wants to find something real.

And that’s the truth. Nine times out of ten, if a guy goes out drinking in search of a girl, he’s going to get nothing. It’s a sad reality, but it’s true.

So if a guy wants to find a girl, he’s going to have to put in the effort. He’s going to have to be willing to invest in the relationship, and he’s going to have to be willing to put in the time and the effort if he truly wants to make a connection.

GF KEEPS BF’S ‘PROTEIN’ IN A CONTAINER AND SHE USES IT FOR FACIAL TREATMENTS

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I’m a firm believer in the power of natural beauty treatments.

For years, I’ve been dedicated to learning about the many ways to use ingredients found in nature to keep my skin looking its best.

Recently, I discovered a unique ingredient that has become one of my favourites: my boyfriend’s protein.

Yes, you read that right! I use the protein that my boyfriend releases after our ‘workouts’ to give my skin a natural boost. I had heard of people using natural ingredients like honey and oatmeal for their skincare, so I figured that a high-quality protein couldn’t hurt.

At first, I was a bit hesitant to try it out, but I decided to give it a shot. I poured some of my boyfriend’s protein into a container and mixed it to make a paste. Then, I applied the paste to my clean face and let it sit for about 10 minutes.

I was amazed at the results! My skin felt softer and smoother. I could also see a slight improvement in the texture of my skin. I was so happy with the results that I started using the protein as part of my weekly skincare routine.

Now, I keep a container of my boyfriend’s protein in my fridge and use it every week. I mix it into a paste to make a paste and apply it to my face. After 10 minutes, I rinse it off with warm water.

I also use the protein in other ways. I mix it with honey to make a face mask or with oatmeal to make an exfoliating scrub. It’s amazing how versatile a simple ingredient can be!

My boyfriend was a bit surprised when I first told him that I was using his protein for my skincare routine, but he’s now a firm believer in the power of natural beauty treatments. He’s even started using it himself!

I’m so glad I discovered the power of protein for skincare. It’s a natural, free way to give my skin a boost and I’m loving the results. So, if you’re looking for a natural skincare solution, try using your partner’s protein . You might be surprised at how much of a difference it makes!!

MAN CRIES AFTER JB PELANGI MASSAGE GIRL TOUCH HIS BIRD, KENA ASK IF HE IS GAY

A Singaporean who went to Johor to have a message with his friend posted a video on TikTok consisting of text and photos, mentioning that when the two of them to a massage parlour in Johor, Taman Pelangi, they said that the masseuse touched their lower bodies.

The text mentioned that when two men went to a massage parlor in Johor Bahru Rainbow Garden (Taman Pelangi), they pointed out that the masseuse touched their private parts, even though they were stopped, they touched them twice again.

The masseuse also asked if one of them was gay and why he was not sexually aroused, and even pulled open the other’s underwear to look at his lower body.

The man said that the masseuse continued to ask inappropriate questions, which made him very uncomfortable, and then terminated the massage service early, and broke down and cried afterwards.

A spokesman of the massage parlour told Shin Min Daily News that they have no way of confirming the other party’s allegations. After all, the massage booths cannot be equipped with electronic cameras, and they can only listen to the opinions of both parties.

However, he emphasized that the massage parlor has been in business for more than 10 years and does not allow masseurs to provide “special services”, and will warn the other party if they know that someone provides such services.

In addition, the spokesperson also mentioned that the masseuse involved pointed out that the other party was dressed like a girl, so it was impossible to ask him if he wanted “special service”.

MAN GIVES UP ON FINDING JOB, BECAUSE FRESH GRAD PAY LOWER THAN FAST FOOD

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I used to be a young, ambitious man with a bright future ahead of me. I had just graduated from college with a degree in business, and I was eager to start my career.

I was confident that I would find a job in no time and that I would be able to make a good living.

But the reality of the job market has been a rude awakening for me. I had applied for dozens of jobs, and all I got were rejections or no response at all. It was disheartening, and I was starting to lose hope.

I finally got a few offers but the salary…

Then I heard about the pay at some fast food restaurants and I was shocked. I was earning much less than what these fast food workers were making. It made me question why I had even bothered to get a degree in the first place.

I was also feeling defeated by the job market. Everywhere I looked, I saw people with years of experience or even more education than me getting paid far less than I was expecting. I was beginning to feel like I was never going to be able to make a decent living.

The situation was so dire that I was seriously considering giving up on finding a job and taking a fast-food job instead. I was feeling so desperate that I was willing to take a job that would pay me less than what I had expected when I graduated.

But then something changed.

I decided to give fast food work a try and I was amazed at the results.

Not only I am having a job better than most fresh grads I am also getting free lunch and dinner.

But I did not last long there due to the long hours. I eventually found a job that paid me well and gave me the flexibility I was looking for. I was relieved to know that there were jobs out there that would pay me what I was worth and that I didn’t have to settle for a lower-paying fast food job.

My experience has taught me that if you are a fresh graduate and you are struggling to find a job, don’t give up. There are lots of websites that can help you find the right job for you. You just have to be willing to look for them and be patient.

Also, don’t let the job market discourage you. I know it can be hard to stay positive when you’re faced with rejection after rejection, but don’t give up. There are jobs out there that will pay you what you are worth and give you the flexibility you need.

So if you’re a fresh graduate and you’re feeling like giving up on finding a job, don’t. There are still plenty of opportunities out there and you just have to be willing to look for them and be patient.

FISH MONGER ADD WEIGHTS TO FISH TO CHEAT CUSTOMERS DURING CNY

Buying a fish to prepare for a celebratory feast can be a tricky task. As the consumer, you want to make sure you get the best value for the money you’re spending.

Unfortunately, sometimes vendors can take advantage of unsuspecting customers by adding metal weights to the fish’s belly. This deceptive practice is known as “gut loading” and is often seen in the days leading up to Chinese New Year.

A netizen posted two photos on Reddit after his mother found metal weights in the stomach of the fish

Gut loading is a form of fraud in which a vendor adds metal weights to the stomach of the fish. This increases the weight of the fish and thus the vendor can charge more for it. It’s a dishonest way of making an extra profit, and it’s illegal in many countries. Unfortunately, this kind of fraud is still quite common in some parts of the world.

The good news is that there are steps consumers can take to protect themselves from being duped by gut loading. The first is to inspect the fish closely. Look for any signs of metal weights or other foreign objects in the stomach. If something looks suspicious, don’t hesitate to ask the vendor for an explanation. If you’re still not satisfied, you can always go somewhere else for your fish.

It’s also a good idea to ask the vendor how much the fish actually weighs. This will give you an accurate idea of how much you should be paying. If the weight seems too high, you may want to investigate further.

Finally, if you’re buying a fish for Chinese New Year, make sure to buy it from a reputable source. Ask around to find out which vendors are known for their honest business practices. This will help you avoid being taken advantage of.

Gut loading is a dishonest practice that can leave customers feeling cheated and frustrated. However, with a little bit of caution and common sense, consumers can protect themselves from being taken advantage of. By inspecting the fish closely and buying from a trustworthy vendor, you can ensure that you get the best value for your money and enjoy your Chinese New Year feast without any worries.

SIAO LANG IN KUALA LUMPUR, STOPS THE CAR TO SHOW HIS FAT FACE AND WALKS OFF

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The man was seen huffing and puffing like a big bad wolf. He stopped a car with his body and pulled up the wipers of the vehicle before laying his fat body on the car.

He then squeezes his face together to minimize the size of his fat face. He pushes the wiper back into position before walking away like a gangster.

Kuala Lumpur

The scene was captured in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia when a man was seen huffing and puffing like a big bad wolf.

The man, believed to be in his late 30s or early 40s, was seen walking around the carpark and then suddenly stopping a car with his body and raising the wipers of the vehicle before laying his fat body on the car.

He then squeezes his face together to minimize the size of his fat face and then pushed the wiper back into position before walking away like a gangster with a strut.

The incident was captured by the car camera and it has became a joke.

While some people suspect that the man was high on substances, Many others also have questioned the man’s mental health and if he was under the influence alcohol.

The video of the incident has been shared widely on the internet and many people have reacted to the incident with some calling it a ‘madman in Kuala Lumpur’.

Mental or drug

This incident is a reminder that mental health issues should not be taken lightly and people should be aware of the risks of substance abuse.

It is also a reminder of how important it is to be aware of our surroundings and be alert when we are in a public place.

The incident has sparked a debate online and many people are asking if the man was suffering from a mental illness or if he was under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

It is important to remember that mental health is a serious issue and should not be taken lightly.

It is also important to be aware of our surroundings and to be alert when we are in public places.

It is also important to know the signs of mental health problems and to reach out for help if you or someone you know is suffering from mental illness.

GIRL GO MASSAGE SHOP, VIET GIRL SUDDENLY STRIP DOWN & SHOWS HER NEI NEI POK

A girl went to a massage prior to visiting her grandma’s house and she was shocked when the masseuse started to take off her top and exposed her breast to the girl.

“BTW THE SHOP IS SOME TCM HEALING SHOP LIKE LEGIT TCM KIND NOT SHADY KIND LIKE KINGSPA SO I WASNT EXPECTIN OK” the TikToker said.

She added that the massage was $50 and comments started flooding in and asked her where the location is.

She also said that the woman who exposed herself to her had pink nips.

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She then posted a TikTok video describing her weird encounter.

It remains to be seen what measures the government and authorities will take in order to ensure that massage parlors in Singapore are properly regulated and monitored to prevent similar incidents from taking place in the future.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Confuse on the last part when you said you were happy about it
  • Why did she do that and how come ur happy
  • Where is the shop? I also need to unload my life story.
  • Ok so where is the shop? I think there the pie spoil need go check..
  • The story confirm fake, since she is not sharing the location it means she is just making things up to be viral on TikTok.