What should I do if I witness dishonesty and wrongdoings at work here in NUS? We have official work hours in here from 830 to 6.

However due to our boss being practically non existent, people had been testing the system. There are certain group of people who come to work as late as 1030 am, and leave work as early as 515 pm, constantly.

Also the same group of ppl have been self-declaring “work from home” and disappears on some days without informing our boss, and does basically nothing at home. Yes in our line of work, theres basically nothing much you can do at home except checking emails which takes 5 minutes.

Lastly, the same group of people have been intentionally hiding their work areas from workplace safety inspection, which is also wrong.

Very tempted to file a complaint against these lazy dishonest  colleagues, as what they are doing is clearly not normal and unacceptable in official companies outside.

Our working relationship is  on bad terms and I do not get along with them to begin with, due to a clash of personality, me being a very work focused company orientated person. I probably would have nothing to lose complaining against them?

I hurt my own feelings by snooping and finding graphic Grindr chats on my “straight” boyfriends phone

He’s still at work and will be there for 6 more hours so I can’t even confront him. I’m just so hurt I don’t even know how to react.

We’ve been dating for 6 years, have a son together, and moved away from our family to start a life together…and it’s all for nothing.

I’m just so mad that he would do this to me. He knows that I’m bi and super open and understanding. If he thought he was bi he could have said something.

We could have carefully calculated a way to split up without hurting our home or our son so he could be happy dating men but he had to be selfish and ruin my life in the process because he wanted to go explore this double life behind my back.

Most of the messages stopped after an exchange of Snapchat usernames and I couldn’t see the deleted chats on Snapchat but there was one that had a lot of graphic messages with explicit photos exchanged

and one of the guys I saw on there was someone I recognized that my boyfriend had introduced as a new friend and he went over to watch movies a few nights.

I now have a feeling he’s slept with some of these men. I don’t even know what to do I’m just so angry and hurt.

Hi, I shared a story of giving my ‘first time’ to a ladyboy a while back and I would just like to continue sharing my experience from that day onwards.

You might want to include a recap before sharing ‘Part 2’ of my story.

Recap

The story

Yeah I know I said that I will never go a lady boy again but I still went back to find them in the end after I had a few hookups with a few females.

Yes I finally managed to have a one night stand with a real woman after my experience.

However, their skills were subpar as compared to the mind blowing ‘first time’ that I had with the ladyboy in Geylang.

At first I thought that it was just a one off and I cannot judge the whole gender based on just a one off incident with one member of the gender but as I hooked up with more women, the memories of the experience with the lady boy just keep flowing back into my head.

I couldn’t take it anymore and wanted to feel like a King again and that made me go back to find my ‘first lover’.

After my second time with ‘her’, I realised that only doing the deed with ladyboys can make me feel like a King.

The borders have now opened and I have planned a solo trip to Thailand just to satisfy my ‘needs’ of feeling like a King.

Before you get me wrong, I am still a Straight guy but I guess I will never get any satisfaction from doing it with real females and so I would just prefer to do the deed with ladyboys instead.

Please respect my preferences and I would also welcome any recommendations on where to find the best ladyboys.

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A guy shared that he recently bought a Rolex watch for $46,000 from a reseller because he was trying to be humble.

He did not mention the model which he bought but simply said that it was ‘not very expensive’.

Here is the story

To be honest, I don’t know much about watches.

I’ve only worn Casio when I was a recruit during NS and bought a G shock for myself as a reward when I commissioned as an officer.

I’ve worn that G Shock watch ever since then as it has sentimental value until recently when my boss told me that I should get a watch with more status so that I can give a good first impression when I meet my clients etc.

Seeing that my boss wears a Richard Mille which I googled it to be at a price I can’t afford, I decided to be humble and got myself a Rolex at $46,000 from a reseller in town.

Well, after I bought it, my close friends have all came in to comment that I should not have spent this kind of money for a watch as all watches tell the same time.

Despite my efforts in trying to explain to them that $46,000 is my way of being humble in front of all the ‘big shots’, they still think that this is no way near humility.

Am I being too proud by doing so?

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I hate my boyfriend’s haircut

I love my boyfriend (27) but he cuts his hair in the hitler style. he even styles it kinda similar and since his hair is black I can’t help but see a massive resemblance.

I’ve asked him politely to style it differently, and I don’t know why he doesn’t do it. I know it’s his hair and only himself can decide how to wear it but come on! hitler?!

He is in no way associated with nazis or that kind of crap. I think he didn’t realize until I pointed it out, but he hasn’t made any efforts to change it

Netizens’ comments

• I mean, as long as he’s not styling his facial hair just like Hitler I don’t think you really have a leg to stand on here. That dudes haircut was fairly unremarkable. It’s the mustache that he’s known for. Lots of guys have their hair cut in that way.
• I hate that the haircut is associated with that because it’s a very typical males haircut that’s been used through every decade. Short sides, faded and longer on top is almost a universally good haircut for just about all men who are adults. It simply is the only real haircut that most guys can rock and still look decently well.
• The hitler style is very much in tho. All of the haircuts these days are variations of that.

Here is the story

I had agreed to go for a friend’s wedding a few months back but however as the date approached, I kena tested positive.

As I am only working part time without any benefits, giving my friend an ang bao would be too chor for me and I myself will also be paiseh to go without giving an angbao.

However, I had to plan my excuse properly to make it realistic, so I swabbed myself 7 times on the first day of being tested positive to have 7 ‘positive’ kits.

There and then, I dated all the kits for 7 days and proceeded to send a positive ART kit image to my friend in the buildup to the wedding.

I wanted to create an image to show him that I was not feigning my illness and I really wanted to go.

In fact, I tested negative on Day 4 but I continued to tell him I was positive.

His wedding is actually on my supposed Day 6.

I felt bad at first but convinced myself that it is better than me not having money for myself by going for the wedding and giving that angbao.

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