My (30F) boyfriend (30M) of 5 months keeps accusing me of cheating

This morning he woke me up with kisses on my neck, being sweet. He whispers “Look, I get turned on by just laying next to you”. He was hard, we made love.

After I went up to make him breakfast in bed and he looked really happy becaused I put some extra effort into it. After breakfast we got intimate again but after we finish this time, his mood completely shifts.

I asked him if everything was alright and he says “yes, but I guess that’s not completely true”. So I keep asking him what’s wrong, because his voice sounds angry. “I’m not allowed to talk about that”, he says.

I instantly knew he was thinking about me with other guys/cheating. Last weekend he sat on phone and screamed at me until I completely fell apart in tears, and beyond, about cheating. I have never cheated on him. We meet very often and when I’m not with him I sit home studying, playing PC games or hang with my dog. I barely have friends or family. I like it like this, but it’s ironic how he still finds some way to accuse me.

The reason he said he’s not allowed to talk about it is because we both after that agreed to not talk about that again. He apologized sincerely to me and said he trusts I don’t cheat.

He thinks I cheat on him because I lied to him about what I did on New Years. We weren’t dating the last New Years eve. We started dating a month-two:ish after but we talked about the evening some time. Since I am quite a loner I told him I had a friend over, out of embarrassment of the truth. Truth was that I was just on a walk with my dad then went home alone and went to bed. He uses this lie of mine to justify all accusations of cheating that he comes up with.

Girlfriend broke up with me because I didn’t text her while she was sleeping.

Last night, I was hanging out with my close friends. We were playing board games, drinking, and simply having a good time.

My girlfriend and I had just got off of the phone and she had told me she was going to sleep and I wished her goodnight.

The next morning, I noticed she called me 7 times while I was sleeping. She called me the 8th time and she was furious about the fact that I didn’t text her while I was there and that I didn’t let her know I made it home that night.

I will admit, I believe it was my fault for not atleast telling her when I got home. However, I believe she was over reacting about the fact that she wanted me to talk to her, after saying she was going to sleep?

She broke up with me because of this and I don’t know how to feel about it and really unsure if what I did was that bad. Thoughts?

Netizens’ comments

• She was looking for an excuse to dump OP. Block number, move on.
• Last I checked, telling someone goodnight means you’re done talking to them until the following day. It’s stupid to keep texting someone you know is sleeping. If I kept hearing text notifications while I was trying to sleep, I’d be pretty angry. Are you a child? Why do you need to check in when you get home?

My boyfriend works selling industrial equipment and is effectively the assistant manager at his branch.

He doesn’t have the official title, but his boss, Dave, has been phoning it in for 10 years because he’s retirement age, so my boyfriend ends up doing most of the management tasks like performance reviews, management reports, and inventory.

My boyfriend is a shoe-in for the manager position once Dave retires, and Dave has promised to put in a good word with corporate when he retires.

I want a boyfriend really bad. I’m not really looking for a relationship or love right now, but life turned a scary for me today.

So my sister is BI and sometimes we sit and talk about releatiobships.

She is single and i have a girlfriend I’ve been with for 1 year now. When we were having one of these talks about just relationship stuff she brought up my girlfriend and said she wished that my girlfriend was bi too.

I just smiled and thought of it as a compliment and dint think anything of it. Sometime after that we went too a coffeeshop me my girlfriend and my sister.

My sister started complimenting my girlfriend and saying too me that my girlfriend was going too turn bi if i dint treat her right. I just found this odd i just thought too myself «wt.. is she talking about» i just felt it was really weird behaviour from my sister as she has never done stuff like that.

Some time pass and this keeps happening small jokes about my girlfriend turning les and small «flirting». Sometimes i noticed my sister moving on the couch too sit right up next too my girlfriend.

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My husband has been calling me horrible names for years, but just recently he started calling me “Big D” like almost on a daily basis and he thinks it’s absolutely hilarious.

As dumb as this sounds I cannot stand it. I’ve begged him not to call me any sort of names but THAT specifically. I think it’s extremely disrespectful and rude and just completely unnecessary. I’ve literally begged for it to stop.

Today, he called me Big D and was upset that I ignored him. I said, “I’m not going to respond to you calling me that, okay Tiny D?” And he told me to get the F out of his house.

I told him something along the lines of “I’ve genuinely asked you nicely to stop calling me Big D and you haven’t cared a single time how bad it hurts my feelings, so I’m just going to go ahead and do the same thing to you and you’ll get your feelings hurt real quick okay tiny d?” All he had to say in response was “you’re a b”