I met this girl in a club and started dating her. We cohabit for a few years in my parent’s house. Then one day she started asking about marriage and also started arranging for BTO matters. She even plan on what job to find after she retire as a stewardess assumingly she got pregnant. I did not want to marry her due to her special background.

Before I met her, she works in the club and let any guy took advantage of her. She told me she had 3 abortion before so she is always feeling tired and weak.

She’s dirty and doesn’t cherish herself working in this kind of places until when we dated then she switch job. I am unable to overcome the barrier that she was being USED by many guys. I wonder how come girls like her can even think that they can find decent husband and happily married? Isn’t it naive? She likes giving her hard earn money to her mother which I did not approve.

Her mom knew she was working in club and did not object at all, since she was making money to support her. What kind of parents is this?!

In fact I’ve no respect for her mother. How can she witness her daughter earning fast money and still spending her money happily. When she finally got the BTO flat she wanted and in high floor, she told me to put in deposit together. But I didn’t want the flat, the BTO is what she wanted. She should put the deposit since she is the one that wanted a BTO.

She was so upset and left me. What right does she even have to be angry and leave me when I picked her up from her bad situation and told her to find better job. Her family couldn’t even be bothered. What I wanted was to live with her without marriage or children. But our relationship went downhill when she became naive.

What do you think I should do? Should I ask for my money spend on her back?

 \As of 11 September 2021, 12pm, the Ministry of Health (MOH) has detected a total of 555 new cases of COVID-19 infection in Singapore today. 

Closure of Chinatown Complex and Community Surveillance Testing for Visitors

MOH is investigating cases of COVID-19 infection amongst individuals who work in Chinatown Complex (335 Smith Street).

A total of 66 cases are currently linked to the cluster. Of these, 63 work at Chinatown Complex, comprising 58 stallholders and stall assistants, 4 cleaners and 1 Safe Distancing Ambassador working at the Complex. The remaining 3 are household contacts of cases. To break any potential chain of transmission and enable deep cleaning of the premises,

Chinatown Complex will be closed to all members of the public from 1500 hours, 12 September to 2359 hours, 15 September 2021.

Staff working in Chinatown complex tested

All staff working at Chinatown Complex are being tested for COVID-19. To cast a wide net around the cases, and to contain the cluster quickly, persons who have logged in with SafeEntry to Chinatown Complex from 8 September to 11 September will be issued Health Risk Alerts (HRA). They are strongly encouraged to go for a polymerase chain reaction (PCR) test as soon as possible and to reduce their social interactions for 14 days. 

Free testing

To uncover any community infection cases, MOH will also extend free COVID-19 testing to members of the public who had visited Chinatown Complex between 8 September and 11 September

A photo emerged online showing the fantastic four a group of matreps gathering at a lift lobby.

They were seen not wearing their masks and flashing gang signs to prove their allegiance to their gang.

They were presumably celebrating “baju baju friendship friendship”.

Image source: @yoursgkaren on IG

A guy shared how he is “very of a h*rny person” and that he is “looking for a fwb (friends with benefits)”.

But he said that he doesn’t know how to approach his friends to be his “fwb”.

Here is the story:

“hi i wan to keep this Anonymous thanks but i have this prob that i am very of a h*rny person and looking for a fwb with friends but i don’t know how to approach my friends for fwb

because i don’t have a gf but i want to have s*x and I’m so sick of watching p*rn.

I jus want to find a friend for fwb but how to tell if they r h*rny or not”

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Met this guy from a dating app and we’ve been talking for a few months and meeting up quite a few times as well. We text on a daily basis and I can feel that he likes me too. Everything is great so far but recently something about him is low-key bothering me.

First is his lengthy past relationship (>5yrs) that makes me feel like I’m picking up someone else’s unwanted dump. Like he just gave most of her 20’s to a girl who eventually dumped him, I felt like he’s a leftover for me. Second is that he is nothing more than three inches. (if u know what I mean).

But I feel so depressed right now. I feel like my bf has been toying with me for the past six months.

I gave in to having unprotected sex with him and ended up missing my period. The first thing he said when he knew I missed my period as we will need a lot of money if you are going for an abortion. I was so hurt by what he said. I get that we are still studying and don’t have that much money.

It really looks like he is just using me for sex and nothing else. We broke up few weeks later with him deciding to mia on me.

I don’t know what wrong have I done to deserve this. I guess the only good thing was I didn’t end up being pregnant, but he returns later after finding out that I did not have a baby.

And I find it so difficult to trust anyone now.

A netizen shared how he broke up with his girlfriend after 8 months and she’s now dating a new guy.

He said that he has a tendency to throw his phone when he is angry, and he caught her staring at him which made him angry, so he then threw his phone.

Here is the story:

“So I got this ex. It’s been like the 8th month since we dated.

But then like. After the break up. I got this habit of throwing my phone’s when I’m mad or some shit.

It’s like. Yes there’s anger but I just can’t control it.

But guess what ? She said her new boy’s heart was too “precious ” .

Then wtf am I for ? I dated you for 7 months. Full of chances. Why ? BECAUSE I F**KING LOVE YOU.

Then during school hours, she tend to stare a lot.

I got some time and talk to her why keep staring all.

Then I’m just so fed up to the point I can’t face her no more. I threw my phone and other stuff.

What a monster have I become. Any tips ?”

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