why does women whose husband had an affair outside always only blame the 小三 (aka mistress)? When I was younger, I happened to date a married man. At first I didnt know he was married but I found out and he started to tell me the sob story about how his then-gf forced him to marry her by lying to him about being on pills.

She got pregnant and said if he doesnt marry her, she will commit suicide. But he was not happy being with her and finds her to be super controlling and psycho. I was dumb then and of course, felt sorry for him.

So we dated and eventually, his wife found out. The only truth that he said to me was that his wife is indeed a psycho. She threatened me and forced me to apologize to her. At that time, she was pregnant with their second child so I also didnt want to agitate her, so I gave in and apologize to her.

However, her husband got away with having an affair and I even heard they have a third kid soon after. Now that I am older, I wonder why did she blame me like it was my fault when it was HER husband who did her wrong.

I also heard I was not the only “affair” her husband had. He even slept with her own friends and she didn’t even find out.

So to all married women out there, if your husband is not faithful, no matter how many women you chased away, he will still find someone to cheat on you with.

A girl shared a story about how the proposal she received from her boyfriend was a disastrous one. She expected the man to say some romantic things and brings out the ring, but she was disappointed in a split second.

Here is the story:

My boyfriend bought me a nice dinner and we walked along Esplanade and enjoy the wind. Moments later, he puts a blindfold on me and said that he has a surprise. Deep down I was so excited and knew what was coming.

He told me to turn around and remove the blindfold, I saw him down on one knee holding an opened ring box and I almost cried, the next second he said: “Will you BTO me?”

WTFFFF, How was I suppose to respond people jogging in the area stop and started to clap for me as they cant hear how my boyfriend proposed to me. I am a good girlfriend I know that I need to protect the face of my boyfriend and I said Yes. He was so happy while putting the ring on me.

We took a couple of photos by the bay before leaving the area. While in his car, I took off the ring and returned it to him. He started to panic and asked me why. I kept quiet and got angrier as he needed to ask me “Why?”.

On the drive back we did not speak another word till we reached my home. Before I leave his vehicle, I said: “Will you take a spoon?”. He was confused and asked me “what spoon?”. I said well if you’re going to eat then you need a spoon. He got more confused, then I asked him: “You ask me to BTO or to marry you?”

He said to marry, of course, he suddenly understood my spoon question. He apologizes and said that he will do better again. I told him not anytime soon the mood is really ruined.

He said that he will do a spectacular one the next time. I told him, better not to tell me this as you already have raised my expectation to a higher level after realizing your mistake.

He kept quiet for a moment and started to look stress. I said bye to him and went to take the lift.

Hi people, I would like to create awareness and also hopefully find some footage of the car plate number of the Ninja Van that beat the red light at Sengkang East Way on 4 Sept 2021 at 4.20 pm.

The traffic light is near Compass One Starbucks. The van was so close to knocking me down. TP IO called and mentioned that it is tough as I did not see the car plate number and the traffic junction did not have a camera. Thank you very much.