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WOMAN’S BF HATES HER PUPPY, VERY ROUGH & VIOLENT TO THE LIL DOGGO

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My boyfriend of 3 years gets very annoyed with my dog who Iv had for just over a year.

I wanted a dog my whole life (I’m 38) & until Christmas 2020 this wasn’t possible. I got my dream dog (a mini dachshund) and he’s everything I ever wanted. Me & my boyfriends relationship is hard work and since iv had my pup it’s gotten worse.

He has no patience with him & has told me he hates dogs (he has and has had dogs all his life) and plays rough with him but too rough, he doesn’t like it when he sniffs him, or touching him at all when he’s just sitting on the sofa.

I just don’t know what to do, I end up loosing my cool because I’m fed up of telling him not to be so rough, telling him to tell my pup No instead of pushing him hard away, it’s got to the point where last night I locked my pup up in the kitchen for both of their benefits,

although it’s my pup who’s suffering but I’m keeping him from getting hurt (my bf doesn’t a lot of weight training so doesn’t know how strong he is) I love my bf so much but I don’t see a solution to this.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Did you guys not discuss this in advance? I wouldn’t date someone who was unkind to animals. Hard pass for me.
  2. Instead of locking your pup up in the kitchen, lock your boyfriend outside and tell him to kick rocks. Mistreatment of animals is a deal breaker.

SHIP BROKE INTO 2 IN SOUTH CHINA SEA, MORE THAN 2 DOZEN MISSING

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A ship broke in half during a typhoon in the South China Sea on 2 July, with more than 2 dozen crew members missing.

The Hong Kong Government Flying Service said that the 30-member crew abandoned the engineering vessel that was 160 nautical miles southwest of Hong Kong after it suffered substantial damage and broke in two pieces.

3 people have since been rescued and sent to the hospital, while the remainder of the missing crew is still at large.

Rescuers were informed of the incident at about 7.25am local time, and the ship was found near the centre of Typhoon Chaba.

The rescue operation was made all the more arduous by the harsh weather conditions and the nearby wind farms.

Wind speeds of 144kph and 10 metre high waves were recorded at the location of the shipwreck, with the government flying service dispatching two sorties of fixed wing aircraft and 4 helicopter sorties.

GIRL PUT ON LINGERIE FOR BF, WHO TOLD HER: “I DON’T REALLY CARE”

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I put on lingerie for my bf and he was dissatisfied, making my confidence plummet

I am 20 years old in a 2 year relationship with my 25 year old boyfriend. Im an empathetic HSP (highly sensitive person) while he is an extremely a blunt/opinionated hyper-masculine man. For the past month, we have been consistently arguing/disagreeing with each other. Now, I’m going to tell you what happened last night that was supposed to be a romantic evening that ended up being a bust.:

So, after a month of constant arguing and disagreements, we finally went on a date night and had a good time. The next day, I had a special sexy night planned for us. I had a Maid lingerie set ready to wear and I was going to cook us a good meal. It was my attempt to basically make up and create an intimate moment for us so that we can start craving each other again.

Now, its the night and he’s over at my place, unaware of the special night I have planned. I excitedly when to the bathroom to change into my lingerie, and when I reappeared in my sexy outfit (feeling cute n sexy), my bf said with an unimpressed look on his face, “So THAT’S what took you so long in the bathroom?”. I say “Yes” and then he proceeds to ask me “Who bought that? You bought that? Why?” and it instantly killed my mood.

I then ask him if he liked it, hoping he would point out SOMETHING that looks nice about me. But he then says “Eh, I don’t really care for it. I like it better when you wore when we went on our date.”

After hearing that I felt unsexy and embarrassed, it actually hurt my feelings. I then left again to change into regular clothes, but then he said, “I never said it was ugly. You wore the lingerie because that’s what YOU like, not me. You should have asked me first.”

I understand that but I felt his reaction was so harsh. I just began to cry, HARD. I felt that my efforts weren’t good enough to him. Our relationship is lacking intimacy, and here I am trying to fix it but it’s not in the exact way he wants it.

Never did he compliment me. He didnt even comfort me as I was crying. When I told him that what he said/ his reaction hurt my feelings, he flipped it on me that it’s MY fault I’m hurt, not his. He’s always telling me that I’m “too sensitive” when I really just want his to acknowledge my efforts and my feelings too (he’s an excellent gaslighter).

I just wanted us to have an intimate, comforting night. I wanted him to see how hard I’m trying. But I guess it wasn’t good enough….

WOMAN CANCELLED STARHUB INTERNET AFTER ONLY HAVING 2 DAYS OF INTERNET, CHARGED $700+

A netizen, Dolly Chin, shared on Facebook about how she switched over to Starhub internet but after the installation, only had 2 days of internet connectivity.

She then tried to reach out to Starhub for help but allegedly couldn’t get through to speak to anyone for help.

She then paid $60+ for the two days of internet service, before cancelling the Starhub internet service, but she was then charged $755.24 for early termination of the service.

She then received a lawyer’s letter demanding payment.

Here is what she said

Can anyone suggest what can be done?

We switched to Starhub internet but only had 2 days of connectivity after installation.

Despite repeated requests via all available channels (social media, whatsApp, mobile app, emails) for help, we were directed to the 1633 hotline that we had to take turns to call but could never get through to speak to anyone for help.

We paid 60+ for the 2 days of good internet but Starhub still slapped us with 700+ (and increasing charges) for cancellation after we dropped the equipments off.

We received a demand letter today.

Any advice?

Note: We have written to IMDA twice with images of communication and they just forwarded our email back to Starhub

GUY ACCUSES GF OF CHEATING, BUT ALL SHE DID WAS GO OUT WITH HER DAD

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My (30F) boyfriend (30M) of 5 months keeps accusing me of cheating

This morning he woke me up with kisses on my neck, being sweet. He whispers “Look, I get turned on by just laying next to you”. He was hard, we made love.

After I went up to make him breakfast in bed and he looked really happy becaused I put some extra effort into it. After breakfast we got intimate again but after we finish this time, his mood completely shifts.

I asked him if everything was alright and he says “yes, but I guess that’s not completely true”. So I keep asking him what’s wrong, because his voice sounds angry. “I’m not allowed to talk about that”, he says.

I instantly knew he was thinking about me with other guys/cheating. Last weekend he sat on phone and screamed at me until I completely fell apart in tears, and beyond, about cheating. I have never cheated on him. We meet very often and when I’m not with him I sit home studying, playing PC games or hang with my dog. I barely have friends or family. I like it like this, but it’s ironic how he still finds some way to accuse me.

The reason he said he’s not allowed to talk about it is because we both after that agreed to not talk about that again. He apologized sincerely to me and said he trusts I don’t cheat.

He thinks I cheat on him because I lied to him about what I did on New Years. We weren’t dating the last New Years eve. We started dating a month-two:ish after but we talked about the evening some time. Since I am quite a loner I told him I had a friend over, out of embarrassment of the truth. Truth was that I was just on a walk with my dad then went home alone and went to bed. He uses this lie of mine to justify all accusations of cheating that he comes up with.

CATHAY BUSKER CANCELS PERFORMANCE, SAYS IT’S BECAUSE OF COVID CASES

Following a myriad of allegations emerging online against embattled Cathay busker Jeff Ng, the 32-year-old singer’s performance yesterday (2 July) was canceled.

The singer stopped short of addressing the numerous allegations against him, and cited a rise in the number of Covid cases as the reason instead.

Show cancelled due to “Covid cases”

He said via an update on his Instagram Story in Mandarin:

“Due to an increase in the number of Covid cases recently, as well as the people around me testing positive, I have discussed with my team and we have decided to cancel tonight’s busking session for the safety of everyone.”

“I was really looking forward to everyone joining me in singing but these are trying times, I hope everyone takes priority in their safety and takes care of themselves.”

“I am grateful to everyone for supporting me and I hope you can understand, thank you.”

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GIRL DUMPED BF BECAUSE HE DIDN’T TEXT HER WHILE SHE WAS ASLEEP

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Girlfriend broke up with me because I didn’t text her while she was sleeping.

Last night, I was hanging out with my close friends. We were playing board games, drinking, and simply having a good time.

My girlfriend and I had just got off of the phone and she had told me she was going to sleep and I wished her goodnight.

The next morning, I noticed she called me 7 times while I was sleeping. She called me the 8th time and she was furious about the fact that I didn’t text her while I was there and that I didn’t let her know I made it home that night.

I will admit, I believe it was my fault for not atleast telling her when I got home. However, I believe she was over reacting about the fact that she wanted me to talk to her, after saying she was going to sleep?

She broke up with me because of this and I don’t know how to feel about it and really unsure if what I did was that bad. Thoughts?

Netizens’ comments

  • She was looking for an excuse to dump OP. Block number, move on.
  • Last I checked, telling someone goodnight means you’re done talking to them until the following day. It’s stupid to keep texting someone you know is sleeping. If I kept hearing text notifications while I was trying to sleep, I’d be pretty angry. Are you a child? Why do you need to check in when you get home?

MANAGEMENT IS SEXIST AND DISAPPROVES OF HIRING ANY FEMALE GENDER

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My boyfriend works selling industrial equipment and is effectively the assistant manager at his branch.

He doesn’t have the official title, but his boss, Dave, has been phoning it in for 10 years because he’s retirement age, so my boyfriend ends up doing most of the management tasks like performance reviews, management reports, and inventory.

My boyfriend is a shoe-in for the manager position once Dave retires, and Dave has promised to put in a good word with corporate when he retires.

Within the last year or two, my boyfriend convinced Dave to hire women.

3 women have been hired, and all have quit within a year. Recently, the last woman who quit was given an exit interview where she reported to HR about an instance of Dave telling her to toughen up when she reported S-misconduct. HR met with Dave and the offender after this, and it was essentially all brushed off since she quit.

They’ve been having problems finding replacement staff. Dave usually does the hiring but has passed the task along to my BF since he’s going on vacation.

Dave, despite having acknowledged in the past that the girls hired did a great job with customers and organizing the store, instructed my boyfriend to not hire women because “women cause problems”. My boyfriend says he’ll hire whoever is the best fit for the job regardless of gender while Dave is away, but he won’t make any reports to HR about Dave’s discrimination, because he fears for his career if he’s a whistle blower.

I’ve asked if I can create an anonymous email to report to their HR, and my BF has asked me to do nothing because he is afraid it will get tracked back to him and destroy his livelihood. My boyfriend insists that the best thing to do is wait for Dave to retire, and that things will be very different when he is in charge.

I am enraged that nothing can be done. I have a Bachelor’s degree in management and human resources and every cell in my body is screaming about this injustice.

GIRL WANTS A GIGANTIC BOYFRIEND TO FEEL SAFE AND FILL HER UP

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I want a boyfriend really bad. I’m not really looking for a relationship or love right now, but life turned a scary for me today.

I want a boyfriend. He has to be a big dude. He must be a titan.

Why? Because, even as a woman whose size and height is average in every way for a Singaporean, fear has made me feel smaller than ever. Every self-defence and martial arts class I’ve taken is flooding back to me and my fight-or-flight response has been triggered. I feel like a prey animal, because I am.

I am tired of being so scared. I am exhausted.

I just want a big, hulking boyfriend so men will think twice before messing with me, or even talking to me. Men don’t respect women. They only respect other men, and sometimes that respect comes simply from the knowledge that they couldn’t take the other guy’s stuff without consequence. Of course this wouldn’t stop them all, but the comfort I would feel being physically protected if I were with him would be amazing filling me up.

I am tired, terrified, and I wish I had a boyfriend.

BF CARES FOR GF’S PHYSICAL HEALTH, GETS RIDICULED INSTEAD

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Today I had to deal with my boyfriend trying to tell me not to listen to my noise-cancelling headphones at max volume.

Here’s the story:

I was listening to some of my favourite songs, on maximum volume, because it’s how I decompress. I jokingly told my boyfriend “Haha, I’m probably going to ruin my hearing.” He told me to turn it down, I told him that I was joking, and I’ve listened to it like this roughly once or twice a week for years, and if it was going to hurt me, it would’ve already done so.

He proceeded to get angry and tell me that he doesn’t effing care that it won’t hurt me, I still need to turn it down.

Mind you, this was all over the text. He told me that I couldn’t have the volume below 75%, and I said that I’m not going to do that. I then tried to text one of my friends about it, stating that “he keeps telling me to turn it down, even though I know my limits and know it won’t hurt me,” but accidentally sent it to him instead (I was texting both of them in my notifications bar and clicked the wrong name).

He then told me that he doesn’t care that I know my limits, 100% is too loud, and he’s trying to protect me. I replied and said that he doesn’t dictate what I do, and I know my limits, and I don’t do this often. He said that he doesn’t care, I can f up my hearing, and I went off. Here’s what I said, no paraphrasing, the exact text:

“For the last effing time, it won’t f up my hearing. I’ve had these specific headphones for three f-ing years and my hearing is fine. If having them at 100% was going to hurt me, don’t you think it’d already have done it?”

He told me that he doesn’t care anymore, I can do what I want.

I then told him to never try to tell me what I can do with my own body ever again. He said okay, told me to do whatever the fuck I want, and I told him that I was going to listen to music now. He said bye without saying “I love you,” which I don’t really give a shit about as I’m still fuming.

So,guys, am I at fauult for telling my boyfriend all these things after he tried to tell me what to do with my music volume?