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WIFE UNABLE TO EXPRESS LOVE TO HUSBAND, SHE THINKS IT’S SAD

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WIFE UNABLE TO EXPRESS LOVE TO HUSBAND, SHE THINKS IT’S SAD

My husband is an extremely expressive and affectionate man who will shower me with “I love you” and “I miss you” daily. Even if we just met that morning, he will text me “I miss you” in the afternoon.

On the other hand, I can’t. I almost never send such messages or say these things first, and I even find it hard to say I miss you. The only time when I really felt that I miss him was when we were still dating and our busy schedules kept us apart for about 2 weeks. That was when I told him “I miss you so much can’t wait to see you”

Apart from that, I am not a very caring person as well, I realised this because I don’t show much care and concern even to my own family and friends.

Someone can post an extremely emotional post and I wouldn’t comment or get in touch, my husband can injure himself (so far only minor injuries) like hit his shin against the bed frame, stub his toe, or I accidentally elbow his stomach but I wouldn’t feel inclined to be like “omg are you ok?” and show lots of care. Instead, I’m like “you see la, tell you don’t run into the room” or “be more careful lei”

I sometimes wonder do I have a problem? Do I not love him enough that’s why I’m like that? Or is it normal to be not expressive? I feel bad because I do love him, I just cannot bring myself to lovey dovey with him like other couples do, and it’s sad that he cannot receive the same kind of affection he gives me.

Here are what netiezns think:

  • There’s many forms of love language. Some use actions like hugs, some use words, acts of service etc. You can google and understand more.From the things you say like “you see lah…. ” it reminds me of my parents who would say similar things to me when I fall down as a child. Basically who you are now as a person, how you react to things, is basically how you were brought up as a child, your experience growing up in situations like these resulted in who you are. There’s no right or wrong way. Basically for me, my husband is the lovey dovey one when we got tgt and I would cringe fr it. Bcos my parents aren’t the ones who would shower me words of affection but rather the tough love sort. But over the years, I appreciate what my hub do more for me and the love language from him. Everyone loves differently. And it’s ok!
  • It’s ok sis. My wife also like that, different people express love differently.When I tell her “I love you”, she will reply “k” or stare at me and say “You got other woman!”. I think she feels my overwhelming love! Just that she dunno how to reply because she’s no good in words. I don’t mind. I think your hubby won’t mind too.So It’s perfectly ok not to be expressive in words. There are different love languages, acts of service is also a way to express your love for each other.

GIRL FLIRTING WITH ATTACHED GUY EXPECTS MORE

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GIRL FLIRTING WITH ATTACHED GUY EXPECTS MORE

I’ve been text flirting with this guy for 9 months. I have been dropping hints and he has yet to make a move. I have the impression he thinks of me often.

He ignores me when I try to talk serious, other than that, he doesn’t stop texting me. He’s in a relationship with someone else. Is he not interested in me? Is he waiting for me to express myself? I find that I’m falling for him and I’m wondering if he feels the same. I’m quite sure he likes me, I just don’t know how much.

Is he ever going to make a move? I check out his social media and I cannot tell if he has any problems with his partner as she still posts about their relationship. This is starting to feel frustrating and at the same time I still enjoy his attention. I look forward to seeing his texts every day.

I wonder if I will enjoy his company if he didn’t have someone else and I think I still will so its not because he’s attached.

Here is what netizens think:

  • Sometimes when I look at this kind of post I wondered if OP is plain blind or just stupid.You mean the rest of the single men in the world all dead you have to hang on to someone who is attached?Come on lah go out and meet somemore guys, open up your circle and suddenly he’s not special liao.The real winners in this sort of dating games are the ones who knows when to let go and look for greener pastures.送你一句-不要吊死在一棵树。
  • Go to his house naked and demand for answer..Come my house also can..Then ask him for answer
  • If you can consider breaking boundaries with someone already in a relationship, then I’ve no doubts should you ever be with him (or with any other guy for that matter), someday you’ll look elsewhere too.Settle your values and principles you hold on to in the first place, then being the steady one in a future love relationship would never be an issue.
  • He IS in a relationship. Full stop.
  • U know behind car boot. We got something special called spare tyre? Haha..

31 Y.O FOUND DEAD AT KALLANG MRT WAS PREVIOUSLY ARRESTED FOR DRUGS

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31 Y.O FOUND DEAD AT KALLANG MRT WAS PREVIOUSLY ARRESTED FOR DRUGS

Last year in February, a man was found dead along the MRT tracks near Kallang MRT.

The State Coroner has released the findings on the reason why the man had taken his life.

Drugs

Just days before the incident, the 31-year-old Bangladeshi national, Ahmed Faisa was arrested for drugs and on the day he was supposed to receive his sentence he did not turn up to court.

The state coroner said that substances such as methamphetamine, eutylone, and amphetamine was found in his system.

BODY FOUND ON MRT TRACK WAS 31Y.O MAN. POLICE SAY NO FOUL PLAY SUSPECTED

The cause of death was due to injuries from a train collision.

The man was arrested more than once for drugs in Nov 2018 and 19 February 2021. The man was supposed to turn up to court for his sentencing on Feb 25 but he went missing.

The man was run over by a train near Kallang MRT station on the East-West Line towards Pasir Ris. At about 9pm, a train captain reported hitting an object near Kallang MRT station. Our station manager was sent on track and found a motionless man, about 150 metres from Kallang MRT station.

TODAY news reported that Faisal’s friend noticed that he was behaving abnormally prior to the incident

GUY RELEASES GAS AT CLINIC, DOCTOR DOES THE SAME BACK

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GUY RELEASES GAS AT CLINIC, DOCTOR DOES THE SAME BACK

A guy shared a story of how he once went to a clinic for a medical checkup and released too much gas which stunk up the whole room, angering the doctor.

The doctor then did the same back to him during the medical checkup when the man was required to take deep breaths.

Here is the story

“A day before my medical checkup, I had to fast a certain period so I ate a lot earlier in the day.

My colleagues wanted to have mala and satay at a nearby coffeeshop and so we decided to have lunch there.

As I was required to fast after a certain time and I was afraid that I might be hungry after the time came, I ate a lot from what we ordered.

This caused me to keep going to the toilet and also let out a lot of gas throughout the night and even in the morning of my medical checkup.

I reached the clinic for my check up half an hour earlier than my appointment time. After registering, the nurse walked me back to the examination room and told me to wait for the doctor.

I had been waiting about five minutes when I farted.

It was those loud and airy type and I knew that I needed to excuse myself for five minutes before the exam started.

I stuck my head out of the room and told the nurse that work called, I’ll be back in five minutes please let the doctor know if he comes by and I am still not back

I returned to find the room had not aired out completely and in the middle of the room stood my doctor with his arms crossed with a very annoyed look on his face.

I apologised and continued with the lie about needing to call work as I did not want to smell my farts.

He nodded and told me that was fine and to hop up on the table and proceed to start with other checkups first.

We arrived at the part of the checkup where the doctor has you take multiple deep breaths while he listens with a stethoscope.

On the first take a deep breath command as I started breathing in the doctor let loose, farting so loud they could hear it in the waiting room.

He then told me, its a 1-1 draw now.”

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GUY TELLS GF HIS DEEDS WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER & ‘HORMONAL’

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GUY TELLS GF HIS DEEDS WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER & ‘HORMONAL’

A guy shared a story of how he let his girlfriend in on some of the stuff which he did when he was younger in his teenage period and had raging hormones and now his girlfriend feels awkward with him and is wary of him when he is at her place.

Here is the story

“Hi, bit of an awkward one…

12 years ago my raging hormones started to be very strong and I would talk dirty with girls in my class and one day was invited to one of my best friend’s house. He wanted me to stay over while his mom was at work.

He was showing of his new phone and his playstation device when we I got there.

While we were gaming, I needed a toilet break.

So of course, I went to use the toilet.

Right when I was about to flush I saw a dirty laundry basket and at the top was a panties.

Being young and full of raging hormones, I instantly grabbed it and sniffed it (bad idea). I then proceeded to do things I should have not done…

I cleaned up my mess anyway and quickly made my way back upstairs where my friend was.

It was then time for me to go home.

I started getting addicted to this so the next time my friend invited me over I couldn’t wait to use the toilet excuse again just to go through the dirty laundry again.

Same thing happened, cleaned, ran upstairs.

The third time it just so happens there were no dirty underwear in the laundry basket so being the really stupid teen I sneaked into his moms room and she had a HUGE collection of different brands of underwear, I sneaked one into my pockets and went home to “enjoy it” and washed it after I’m done and returned it back to her wardrobe on my next visit.

I told this to my girlfriend and she is acting strange with me, almost as though she feels I would do the same to her mom’s underwear.

The whole point of me telling her is to show how much I matured and how embarrassed I was but no it just made things awkward.

I am still good friends with that friend 12 years on btw”

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GUY CONFESSES FEELINGS TO BEST FRIEND BUT SHE’S ENGAGED

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GUY CONFESSES FEELINGS TO BEST FRIEND BUT SHE’S ENGAGED

A guy shared a story on how he had feelings for his best female friend and she also felt the same way but they never ever let each other know about it.

Years later when she told him that she had feelings for him, he poured his heart out to her only to find out that it was all too late as she has already been engaged to someone else.

Here is the story

“okay so to start this story off me (28M) met my bestfriend (26F) in 2016 and ever since we have been sooo close.

For stories sake lets we’ll call her “P”.

Whenever me and P met we weren’t that close, we had some mutual friends which made us closer. We both lived different total lives. I was into partying and drinking, and though she was too, she was kind of by herself as well.

We gotten closer throughout those years, and then in 2018 she moved overseas to do stuff for her job. we stayed close while she was away, I even got a girlfriend while she got a boyfriend.

Right when the pandemic hit in 2020, she came back home and we started to get extremely close.

By this time, I’m no longer with my girlfriend. I should specify that we weren’t even flirting or anything along those lines before she came back, but when she did, we were flirting. & she still had a boyfriend..

One night we were in the car talking and what not and she expressed her feelings for me.

She told me how shes in love with me and if she could go back in time she’ll do it all over and just tell me that before she left back then.

The night ended kind of awkwardly but we left on good terms.

A few days later she came over and I tried to express that I’ve always had that vibe around her, and I also do love her.

That might be my fault I dont know. I wasn’t lying by saying that, even though it might seem like I only said it cause she did.

I’ve had my moments in the past where I wanted to be with her. not even that, but just tell her how my feelings were towards her, but I never did because I couldnt find a good enough reason to bring it up.

I thought maybe since she said that, it would be a safe spot for me to reciprocate the feelings.

Well I was dead wronggg lmao.

She came to tell me she was recently engaged and she was shocked to find out I felt that way, that she only told me because she had some uncleared old feelings and she didnt expect me to say this?

I told her that it was unfair for her to be upset with me because she told me that stuff out of no where and I had no idea how to respond.

I wasnt expecting much out of my confession but I honestly didnt expect to get owned over a conversation I never had the guts to start to begin with lol.

So anyways yes, they’re happily married and even though we arent close anymore, I’m very glad shes happy :)”

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GIRL KISSES BF IN ‘TEAMS’ MEETING AND FORGOT TO OFF THE CAMERA

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GIRL KISSES BF IN ‘TEAMS’ MEETING AND FORGOT TO OFF THE CAMERA

A girl shared a story of how she was embarrassed by her lecturer one day while having a zoom class because she kissed her boyfriend in front of her laptop without switching off the camera.

The boyfriend had came into her room and asked her if the camera was on because he intended to give her a kiss.

She then absent mindedly and carelessly said that it is not on and so he proceeded to give her the biggest smooch in her life.

Here is the story

“There I am, sitting online in a huge lecture, with only 3 people (including me) and the professor with their camera on. So you know how it is in Teams – my stream occupied 1/4 of the entire lecture view in a class of roughly 80 people.

My boyfriend asks if the camera is on. Its 9am and I just had a few sips of my coffee, “Nope!” I said.

He lunges over at me and gives me a huge smooch.

A good 5 seconds, he inserts his tongue and all with his hands on my neck.

We’re enjoying it when I hear my professor: “Hello there! Is this a student joining us today?”

I have my headphones in so my boyfriend couldn’t even hear it.

I push him off, look at the camera in shock and turn my cam off.

The students and professor were NOT impressed. Not even a smirk or laugh, just looks of disapproval. My private chat starts blowing up with messages from friends.

I’m a high-scoring student, well-known to the department and faculty and its not like my behaviours escape under the radar.

What happens now?

Does anyone know who to call to get a new identity?

The worst of all of it is that it is captured on the posted recording for everyone to replay.”

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GUY CLEARS SON’S LAUNDRY BASKET, FINDS FEMALE UNDERWEAR INSIDE

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GUY CLEARS SON’S LAUNDRY BASKET, FINDS FEMALE UNDERWEAR INSIDE

A guy shared a story of how he was going to do the laundry one day and while clearing the laundry basket from his son’s room found female underwear inside the laundry basket.

The thing is the son had not been out of the house for the past two days and could not have got his hands on any female underwear from outside and the only female at home was the guy’s girlfriend.

Here is the story

“I live together with my son and my girlfriend comes over frequently to stay.

He has been a single child all his life ever since his mother passed away shortly after he was born from an accident.

As any parent does, I tell my son to give me all his dirty laundry (mostly so I don’t have to touch it) so I can wash them for him.

One day he was not home, so, I went into his room and grabbed his dirty laundry. I notice a balled up towel in the corner of his wardrobe and I just grabbed the end of it, thinking it was just a towel.

But nope! Out falls two pairs of recently worn/dirty female underwear! I stand there coming up with crazy scenarios in my head for a second like “must have gotten caught in the towel when he was done showering” or “maybe it got messed up in the clean laundry”. Then the realisation hits me that our laundry basket is in the bathroom where we shower.

I went to my girlfriend and all I could say was “we are about to have a weird conversation and I’m sorry”. I pull out the underwear and say “I found these in (insert son’s name) room” and her jaw just drops. I didn’t know what else to say besides “at least we know he likes you”.

Now it is a little weird and quiet around my house.

The worst part is, I don’t know how to bring it up to him and he does not know that we found out about it.”

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BOY IS AFFECTIONATE TO LITTLE SISTER, MUM’S BF CALLS HIM “GROSS”

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BOY IS AFFECTIONATE TO LITTLE SISTER, MUM’S BF CALLS HIM “GROSS”

A boy shared how he love his little sister and is affectionate with her, but his mother’s boyfriend apparently find it “gross” when he kisses his little sister on the cheek.

Here is the story:

I am 15-years-old and I have a sweet little 6-year-old sister who I absolutely love with all of my heart and more than anything in the world.

I always give her hugs and cuddles and kiss her cheek and for some reason my mom’s boyfriend thinks this is gross that someone 9 years older than her would kiss her.

I don’t see anything wrong with it and she often kisses my cheek in return.

Yesterday it was really cold inside the aircon room so me and her were cuddled up with a blanket while watching movies on the laptop.

My mom’s boyfriend then comes in and yanks the blanket away to “make sure I wasn’t doing anything inappropriate”.

I got pretty offended at that comment due to the implications and told him to quit being so disgusting..

He still insists what I’m doing is gross even though I’d rather die than even consider doing anything to her.

Netizens comments

  • The fact that he has thoughts like that makes me think he’s the weird one.
  • Have you spoken to your mother about this? Please watch this man around your sister
  • He’s the one with the problem if he thinks your behaviour is weird. You seem to adore your sister and give her a lot of affection as you should! He shouldn’t think there’s anything wrong with that, nor does he have the right to tell you how to act around your little sister when there is no issue, he’s the one creating an issue, honestly, please talk to your mother about it, or anyone else that lives in your household, it’s honestly strange
  • I get it. I have a 5yo sister, I’m 26. I love like she’s one of mine. I kiss, hug and tell her I love her a million times a day. Just like I do with my kids. What’s wrong with that? I’d be watching him really closely and not let him be alone with her if I was in your position. He is the creepy one. Let’s hope it’s just some childhood trauma and not him projecting.

MAN FINDS OUT CHILD’S IMAGINARY FRIEND IS HIS DEAD GRANDFATHER

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MAN FINDS OUT CHILD’S IMAGINARY FRIEND IS HIS DEAD GRANDFATHER

A man shared how he found out that his daughter has an imaginary friend who was his grandfather, who had passed away.

Here is the story:

A little back story: my mother’s biological father passed away at the age of 26, while my grandma was still pregnant with my mother. As such. I’ve only ever seen photos of my grandpa.

Well, one day, I hear my kid talking to someone in her room. I go to check. I knock and enter and she’s sitting on her bed talking to no one.

I think nothing of it. Days go by and she mentions that “David says he’s proud of you”. Okay, thats weird. I ask who and what he looks like.

She tells me “like you, dad. He says he’s my great-grandpa”. None of her grandpa’s look like me, except my father who is in prison, and she’s never met him.

Fast forward a couple months, and my mom is looking through an old family photo album with her. She comes across my grandpa’s photo. Kid exclaims “thats my friend! I talk to him all the time!”

My only real explanation would be that she saw a picture and made a real imaginary friend from it. Only issue is, she knows details she shouldn’t.

Like that he died in a car accident, when he lost control and crashed into the side of the road. And she didn’t use those exact words, but the specific wording was childish, like children’s languiage, and its easier for me to just state it like that.

And mind you, this started when she 7. She’s now almost 9. This is her first imaginary friend (other than talking to her toys).

Netizen’s comments

This gave me chills. Also your daughter may have a gift. 9 is pretty old to see spirits/ghosts. Kids that are connected in that way usually lose that ability as they get older.

David has probably been around you and the family a long time. Fascinating that he chose her, or she chose him to communicate directly with.

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