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ROAD TYRANT DRIVING DANGEROUSLY TO INTIMIDATE MOTORCYCLIST @ PIE

A video emerged online showing a Honda Civic driving dangerously and endangering the life of a motorcyclist.

The Civic was seen trying to overtake the motorcyclist on numerous attempts, succeeding and causing the rider to swerve away from the car.

The rider then evaded the car, before the Civic then repeated his actions and tried to dangerously overtake the rider again in what appears to be an attempt to intimidate the motorcyclist.

The incident happened on 19 January at about 8.30am, along the Pan Island Expressway.

Here is the camcar’s statement:

“Witnessed a dark blue Honda Civic (SLH5294B) rage and driving dangerously against a motorcyclist.

First Civic overtook the rider and did a break check, forcing rider to take evasive actions. Driver then came back for round 2 and attempted side swipe, almost sandwiching rider into a van.

Irresponsible and could have easily cost someone their life.”

Potential penalties

Drivers who drive in a manner that is dangerous to the public is guilty of an offence under section 64(1) of the Road Traffic Act (RTA).

Persons found guilty face a jail term of up to 1 year and/or a $5,000 fine.

If the driver causes hurt, he faces a jail term of up to 2 years and a fine of $10,000.

If the driver caused grievous hurt, he faces a jail term of betewen 1 to 5 years and disqualified from driving for at least 8 years.

If the driver’s actions caused death, he faces a jail term of up to 2 to 8 years and disqualified from driving for at least 10 years.

WIFE THINKS HUSBAND IS CHEATING, FOUND MSGS FROM OTHER WOMAN

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A netizen shared how she found messages between her husband and another woman from his office, and now she thinks he is cheating.

Here is the story:

Hi, I’m a married woman with kids. To cut the story short, I need help in analyzing if I’m being over paranoid.

As I do not check my husband’s phone, 2 months ago, I was putting his phone to charge and I saw a weird notification.

I opened up from the Microsoft apps and saw numerous missed calls from a certain woman that I have never heard before. As my husband often told me that there are only the same few women in the office I heard about. I started worrying and asked him.

To my surprise, it turned out to be a female friend of hers that he approached to fill up a certain role in his company.  She has worked over a year in that company and yet my husband has never mentioned this friend.

He explained that those phone calls are due to meetings conducted online as she can’t find him. However, despite me asking him about work over the last few years. It’s always the same boring reply. I was busy caring for my newborn child last year when he got her into this company. I feel betrayed.

He explained and I accepted. However, weeks later, I accidentally saw their conversation in WhatsApp too.

Mostly work-related but this female friend was telling him about the sleepless night she had due to work. Non-work-related? And she’s newly married too. The chat could be every other day due to their work-related meetings.

Having said so much, though she’s in a different branch office, then I found out too that they pretty much see each other online due to meetings conducted between a few of them only and occasionally he will have to drop by her branch office too. (He initially told me it’s just to fill up the role which has not much contact).

Dear readers, I do admit I’m worried and having low confidence as I have just recently given birth a year ago. He’s always portrayed as a man who doesn’t have many female friends and is always home with us therefore this came too sudden. Despite him assuring that there’s nothing going on, he starts drawing a line between.

Am I over paranoid?

GUY ASKS WHY IS IT OK FOR GIRLS TO PINCH/SLAP THEIR BF WHEN ANGRY

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A netizen shared how his girlfriend like to pinch and slap him when she is annoyed with him and he doesn’t like it.

Here is the story:

Is it normal for girls to think it’s ok to use physical attack (e.g. slapping, pinching etc) as a form of “scolding” for their partners when they do something that annoys / angers them?

My girlfriend seems to like to, for things as mundane as me saying something she doesn’t like. Not like every day, but enough to be annoying (and rather humiliating to be honest).

I’ve asked one or two of her friends and gotten the answer “she playing only la” or “you must have annoyed her”.

I can get that people unintentionally annoy or anger each other, but I’m mystified as to why girls seem to think that an act of physical violence is justified and should in fact be accepted in any circumstance short of an actual physical altercation.

I’m absolutely sure this would be unacceptable if it went the other way round. Wondering if this is common / normal.

Netizens comments

  • Nope, not normal… if she says it’s normal, then you do it on her and use her logic on her, I can guarantee you… it will not apply.
  • No get rid of this kind of toxic bs. Physical bs if tolerated no matter how small is how SIMPS are born and moulded. Respect is in short supply in such relationships.
  • I think there a few considerations that you may take up:
    1. Talk with your partner about your feelings and thoughts on you feeling hurt by the actions. Choose a good time to do so. She may not realized the gravity of the situation to you.
    2. If she is totally aware of her impact to you and she felt it is perfectly fine to continue her actions despite you expressing your discomfort and hurt by it, then you may need to seriously consider the following: A. Suffers silently and pray that she may stop one day but of course there is a possibility that she may never stop doing so. B. End the relationship.
    Of course what you see in the comments here including mine is based on whatever little information that we have from your side of the story and from our own experiences which is not yours. You also need to see whether this behavioral tendency that you observe only applies to you, her family, or friends? To assess the relativity of the behvavior and whether it is normative.
    You can also adopt an imagination exercise, would you want to live the rest of your life with her if she continues to do what she do? What if she continues this habitual tendency as a mother of your child?
    I wish you all the best. And may both of you be well and happy.

GUY DID NOT READ LABEL ON BOTTLE, ENDS UP BURNING MOUTH

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A guy shared a story of how he accidentally took a bottle that was left on the sink top by his girlfriend to gargle his mouth with the liquid inside the bottle one day thinking that it was a mouth wash.

After gargling the bottle of liquid, he had a bad reaction inside his mouth which led to him having a burning sensation.

It turns out that the bottle of liquid which was left on the top of the sink was a type of mouthwash for sores in the mouth and it was prescribed to the girlfriend by a doctor.

The girlfriend had also decided to leave it there for him as he gets sores in his mouth from time to time as well.

Here is the story

“My girlfriend left a bottle with mouthwash at my apartment, or at least that’s what I thought. She recently had a sore in her mouth and went to visit a doctor who prescribed that bottle of wash to her.

She has claimed many times that this helped her and since I sometimes have them she left it there for me.

Well today I thought I’d try it, so I took the bottle and, stupidly with out reading the label, I put a normal amount in the cap and put it in my mouth.

Take note that I did not have any sores in my mouth at this very moment.

Immediately after gargling the liquid, my mouth was on fire and I had to spit it out and rinse my mouth.

I was very confused since she normally is very sensitive to things like that until I read what’s actually in it. It wasn’t mouthwash but mouthwash concentrate.

You were supposed to mix a few drops with half a glass of water and my dumb self just took the amount that you would normally take from normal mouthwash.

Now I’m lying in my bed, just dying because my mouth is burning so bad and she’s laughing at me.”

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GUY STOLE FRIEND’S CRUSH BACK IN SCHOOL, ENDS UP MARRYING HER

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A guy shared a story on how he ended up stealing a friend’s crush away from him back in their schooling days and ended up marrying her.

It happened because he was always insecure and jealous and therefore he always hit on girls to feed his insecurities.

However in his defense, his friend already has a girlfriend and to be honest he did not really do anything wrong except breaking the bro code.

Here is the story

“Years back, I had this really close friend of mine, we will call him J. I met him at university. He was a foreign exchange student. One night, he introduced this girl, we will call her C, to our group. This girl was beautiful. Very shy, but beautiful.

I’m going to be honest. I was a jerk back then. I was very insecure, and to make myself feel better, I would find girls for fun. I feel terrible about it to this day. I tried doing the same with this girl. I just met her that night, but I was overly flirtatious with her. However, she knew I just wanted to do it with her, so she didn’t reciprocate.

My friend got really jealous. Later on, he told me to back off because he liked her. Being his friend, I felt obligated to step away. He knew her longer, and had feelings for her, whereas I just wanted some action from her.

One of our other friends told her what he said. He actually denied what he said. It turns out, he was dating a girl at home. The parents set it up because they are both from affluent families and wanted them to get engaged.

He cut off all contact with her for the rest of the semester. He went back to Europe, and I still kept in contact with him. He broke up with his girlfriend not too long after.

I felt responsible for what happened. Had it not been for me wanting to get some action, she wouldn’t have gotten led on. We still hung out, but I think she was embarrassed by what happened, so I didn’t see her as often.

C and I went to the same company. At that point, we hadn’t spoken for about four years. We still were social media friends, but that was it. I didn’t speak to J at all, but when he found out, he asked me to help him with C. I still felt really guilty about what happened years ago, so I tried to explain on his behalf.

I took C out for coffee one day, and we were catching up. I brought up J, and how he felt really bad for the situation, and he still liked C. C told me not to make excuses for him. She didn’t think she’d ever truly forgive him. He was the first boy to ever say that he liked her, and he just took it all back.

I told J this, and he said that he was too scared to face her. I didn’t know what to do at that point, but I figured maybe C and I could be friends. Not only was C beautiful, but smart and compassionate. I liked everything about her. Over time, I caught feelings. We got married three years ago.

J and I don’t talk anymore. He hates my guts. However, he refuses to marry anyone. He’s still waiting on C. His parents are furious with him, because he’s supposed to continue the family line, but he says that he’ll wait until I die or we divorce to marry her.”

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GIRL PUKED ON BED WHILE IN ACTION WITH BOYFRIEND

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A girl shared a story of how she screwed up one time by puking on the bed while her boyfriend and herself were having some ‘action’.

Basically, she had pizza for dinner and then got into action with the boyfriend almost immediately after consuming the pizza.

The boyfriend was behind her and moving a bit too hard and it resulted in her puking it all out on the bed when she tried to let out a burp.

Here is the story

“My boyfriend and I decided to have some ‘action’ last night as we had been on a hiatus for a period of time.

We started to get into the act with him moving from the back and at first I’m loving it and I managed to be satisfied a few times if you know what I mean.

After a couple minutes I noticed that I was getting a little burpy whenever he would move forward.

That really felt weird as I have never felt this way but whatever I want to enjoy myself.

I thought to myself that I will just burp it out, no big deal, right? WRONG!!

At that very second of me trying to let out the burp, he moved hard and all of a sudden my mouth is filled with literal chunks of the pizza I ate about 10 minutes before.

I quickly leaped out of bed and rushed to the bathroom but behold, the door from my room to my bathroom was locked so I had to completely back track and go around to the other entrance.

I spit out my puke in the toilet, washed up, and then went back into the bedroom.

I explained what happened and we decided to continue but in a different position so it wouldn’t happen again, completely ignoring the mess which I have created just a few minutes ago.”

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GUY FEELS LIKE A LONER AT SCHOOL, ALWAYS ALONE AND HAS NO FRIENDS

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A netizen shared how he feels like a loner at school – he doesn’t have any friends and eat alone, has no one to do projects with, and stands by himself while he watches others talking and laughing with each other outside classes.

Here is the story:

I’ve been wanting to get this off of my chest for a while now but I’m not comfortable enough to tell anyone in my life about it.

If I do, I know their response will be the same. “Just try starting conversation”, etc but I am very bad at it and will most likely embarrass myself like I always do.

Whenever I’m at school I always eat and sit alone. I’m always left alone to do class projects because I have no one to partner up with. When waiting for class to start. I always stand by myself while my classmates talk and laugh with each other.

I have this empty feeling whenever I see posts on social media with people having the time of their lives with their friends. I’m so envious of them and I desperately wish someone would just talk to me.

I wish I had my own group of friends like everyone else. It’s so isolating to watch everyone else with their friends. I hate it.

Is there something wrong with me? Is it the way I dress? Am I too ugly to want to be seen with?

I honestly feel so pathetic and I feel like my classmates know how much of a loner I am just by looking at me.

I don’t want to feel this way anymore and I feel like I’m wasting my school years away.

Netizens comments

Do you have any clubs you’d be interested in joining? After-school activities? It’s easier to make friends with someone who has common interests as you.

Also, you can’t tell yourself you’ll screw up a conversation before you even have it. That’s setting yourself up for failure with that mentality.

Not only that, the more you do get into those conversations you say you’re bad at, the better you get. No one gets worse at something they often practice at.

Have any interests like photography or cars? Great! Pursue those and make yourself interesting. That’s part of making yourself attractive.

Friends don’t have to be from school either. It doesn’t matter where you get your friends it matters how you get them.

Have no expectations either. Just have fun with it and it’ll work itself out.

MAN MISSES LATE MOTHER VERY MUCH, KEEPING ALL HIS SADNESS INSIDE

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A netizen shared how his mother passed away on her birthday and he misses her very much.

Here is the story:

My mum passed away on her birthday last month, and while she was sick and we knew we didn’t have long, this was so sudden and totally unexpected.

I’ve been keeping it together ever since, as I know the rest of my family can’t be stoic in these times.

I didn’t cry the morning she passed, not until I was alone with her to say goodbye, so I could be strong for the people that needed it, and I didn’t cry at her funeral so everyone else could fall apart. I’ve always done it and I’ve usually kept a lid on things, only now it’s getting really hard to be ‘that person’.

One thing about me is that I’m always sad. Always. I have been for nearly 40 years, and so many people think I’m a happy guy as I make everyone laugh or am always so positive when people need me to be, and that’s just because, I think it was the late-great Robin Williams who said something along the lines of ‘I make people laugh, because I know what it feels like to feel truly sad, and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.’ I know, I’m paraphrasing, but it’s so true.

Anyway, as I said, I can usually keep a lid on the sadness, so no one knows, not my loving wife, my family or work colleagues, but when I’m alone now, which is a lot due to my wife’s job, I just cant stop myself from crying, and it’s spilling over into when I’m with people.

My wife lay on my chest and asked me if I wanted to get intimate last night, and I had to decline under the pretense that I knew she was tired, but I couldn’t turn my head to look at her because my eyes were so full of tears, so I kissed the top of her head and turned over, to stare at the wall and do everything I could to not start sobbing.

I’m losing control. I’m losing the one thing I have always done, and I am so scared of what will happen if all of this finally comes out.

The sadness.

The loneliness, even in a full room of loved ones I feel locked away.

The very, very bad things I think of myself and the worse things I contemplate daily.

I don’t want to face it.

I just want my Mum back so it can all go back inside.

God, it was all so simple when she was here.

GUY NOT HAPPY THAT GF IS KEEPING PHOTOS OF HER EX

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My girlfriend keeps pictures of her exes in her Face account. I know it is not clearly visible from the public and she said she has to scroll way from the past to delete all (she has many pics) and it’s too much work (??) but her point is, it is not big of a deal and she just keeps them just because I don’t know? memories?

That’s just her excuse, she can just click on photos and all of it will be out.

I know she’s over her exes but I can’t help to feel jealous inside. We’ve been together for 2 months now. Any advice?

is it normal for s/o to keep pictures of exes in social media?

Here are what netizens think:

  • I wouldn’t worry – sometimes people like to keep the pictures for the memory. It doesn’t mean they’re not over the person, it just means sometimes that the time the picture was taken/the status they wrote is something they want to remember. If you have to scroll back a long way as well I don’t think it’s a huge deal.
  • This is something you need to work on letting go because the jealousy won’t help your relationship. I have pictures of my exes on my socials somewhere for the same reason I’ve listed above. Not many, but there are some. Look forward into the future, not back at the past.
  • I still have photos of my ex on my Facebook page and just as the things I’ve posted some time ago, those pictures and people are in the past. Yes, I could delete them, but no one cares about them anyways and they’re very old, so I personally don’t see a point in deleting them I’m not sure whether it’s normal or not, I guess it depends on the people that are in the actual relationship. Some people would be OK with it and others not. It’s also how you bring it.
  • I have pictures of my ex on my phone as well. My current boyfriend is aware of this. The reason behind this is because, back then, I was incredibly insecure to take pictures of myself / let others take pictures of me. Unfortunate the pictures with my ex are pretty much the only pictures I have from the age of 15-19. I rarely look at them, but the thought of simply having something to look back on later in life is somehow… reassuring.
  • I think your GF’s excuse that “it’s not a big deal” and “too much work” are, well, BS. She can have a good reason of why she doesn’t want to delete them, but she should at least tell you.
  • Playfully ask her to delete it yourself. Regardless if people say that you are overthinking — which you are. I think, sharing the idea with your gf has to be settled on both your ends. She will allow that if none of it makes sense to her anymore. Then it becomes settled on both parties.

GIRL GLAD PARENTS ARE DIVORCING, NO MORE LISTENING TO THEM KPKB

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A netizen shared how her parents are divorcing but while her brother was sad and cried about it, she was actually glad and happy.

Here is the story:

I’m a 15 year old girl. My parents are constantly fighting and at each other’s throats. I’m not close to either of them, and have no idea how they can even breathe in such a horrible relationship.

Yesterday they told my brother (13) and I that they’re getting a divorce. My brother was really sad about it and actually cried. I couldn’t be happier.

Finally I won’t have to listen to their complaining for hours and hours.

Take this from a soon to be child of divorce, don’t stay together just for your kids. It doesn’t do any good. If you hate your spouse just get a divorce and try to treat each other like human beings.

For now, I’m just glad that I can look forward to some peace.

Netizens comments

  • unhappy marriages are soo annoying to go through. my parents have been divorced for around a year now, its WAY better
  • Good; glad you’re getting it. I’m a 50 year old man. My parents are both fairly young for older people (70) and get along well, but got divorced when I was 5. There were literal decades of bad blood between them, court cases, other spouses, and division between myself and my father. Now, everyone gets along great, but the thought of having grown up with them staying married is a nightmare.
  • You have no idea how right you truly are. Mine stayed together and are the most toxic couple I’ve ever seen. They openly belittle one another. It’s sad and pathetic. Anyway…. I’m glad that you will be able to find some peace and I hope nothing but the best for you. You’re a smart cookie. Keep your wits about you and you’ll be just fine in this lifetime. All the best to you, sweetie!