A netizen shared how she is thinking about breaking up with her boyfriend, whom she started dating about a week ago.
Here is the story:
“hi, I would like to keep anonymous tq.
so basically, i have a boyfriend and i just dated him last week.
before we were dating, we were best friend.
but recently, his sister said that my boyfriend have a rly bad temper and she also advise me to break up with him.
he also usually fight with his family alot and i am scared if next time, when me and my bf relationship is btr, he would treat me the way he treat his parents and family.
I’m a pervert but i get away with everything only because im a girl.
Since secondary school, if i saw any handsome attractive man at crowded areas like MRT gantries or shops, I would casually brush my breast against the back of their elbows and wait. The same scene plays out over and over: the man would freeze, turn around slowly, eyes widening in shock upon seeing me and then they will start profusely apologising.
I especially love it when they are with other guy friends because they will start whistling and playfully shout ”eh apologize leh” while i act all innocent and tell them its alright. Before the world went to hell i enjoyed my daily MRT commutes to MBFC because well, looking at men wearing slim fit work pants makes mornings so much better. Its really obvious to spot any lingering morning wood.
I got caught staring a few times but usually the men will just sheepishly turn their attention back to their phones. I cant emphasise how much i love public transport. On the weekends when guys wear shorts and manspread the view is perfect. I cant wait until all this is over so i can enjoy my scenery again.
There was even once i saw a secondary school boy and involuntarily started poking my tongue against my cheek while maintaining eye contact with him. All in all, if it werent for the fact that im a girl in my early twenties with a cute face and slim body, i would probably be writing this from changi prison.
I also just wanted to say that if im ever caught at least im an NUS alumni with good grades and a bright future.
One of my classmates (we went to HCI together) inherited around $25 million in cash and real estate when his father passed away (heart attack) in the year we were in NS.
His mother died when he was even younger due to breast cancer. He is now 25 (just graduated) and he has decided to grow his portfolio full-time. I just did a simple calculation: if he averages a modest 10% annualized return, he will be worth $270,000,000 by the time he reaches 50; and by the time he reaches 60, he will be $700 million.
Here I am, at my $3800/mo first job, wondering how long I would take to earn enough to afford my first HDB apartment, which I will spend the next 30 years paying. Even if I make it to partner-level at my auditing firm now, I will only have accumulated around $10 million by the time I reach 60.
The reality is, I will probably spend the next 15 years slaving away at my sub-10k a month job, and I could very well be stuck there for the rest of my career. Life isn’t fair.
I heard I can get good advise here. I am really a bit disturbed and need some advise. I have known my boyfriend for almost 2 years and he is very understanding. He respects the boundaries I have set knowing that virginity means a lot to me.
A lot of my friends told me that since he is a guy, he surely must be getting his needs satisfied elsewhere. I refused to believe them because he has always cared for me and been very nice to me. At times, I wanted him to take off his tshirt and feel my body against his naked chest. But he had politely declined saying that he will keep it for after marriage since he may get turned on. He told me that this way he can keep me as a virgin like what I wanted.
Then one day, I stayed over his appartment and I was watching television while he was in his room on his bed. I decided to pop in. I saw him quickly hide something under the pillow. My heart skipped a beat. Was he cheating on me? Was he texting other girls?. He seemed very nervous and told me I should have knocked on the door. In any case I sat and we kissed and chat a little. He said he needed to go and get something to drink and led me to the living room.
He asked me to wait there while he went to Starbucks. My mind was still curious. So I went to his bedroom and searched under the pillow and to my shock it was Kinohimitsu Bust Up Drink! And it was empty! “Gosh! Dont tell me he is drinking that!” I thought. I searched his room and found a carton of it. I also found fenugreek tablets.
As if it was not enough I found a pump that makes those humps bigger. My heart sank. Now I understand why he had never taken off his tshirt even when swimming.
He said he wants to respect that women are in the pool as well. Now I understand why he did not seem so thrilled when I wore a skimpy top at his place. He does seem a little bigger there. Don’t tell me he looks the same up there as me? I quickly left the room and when he returned, I pretended I did not know anything at all. Can anyone tell me how I can even ask him about this?
I love him but now I am lost. Is he even interested in women? Please help me and tell me what to do.
On 19 September 2021, the Ministry of Health reported over 1,000 cases on the 2nd day in a row.
According to the Ministry of Health, 919 of the local cases occurred in the community, while 90 occurred among dormitory occupants (MOH). There are 321 seniors over the age of 60 among them.
Windsor Convalescent Home has 10 cases an increase of 8.
In My Little Campus (Yishun), a new cluster emerged transmission amongst staff and students in the school. Of the 11 cases, 2 are staff and 9 are students.
Cluster
New Cases
Total4
Remarks
Toa Payoh Lorong 8 Market and Food Centre
2
41
Workplace transmission with further spread to household contacts of cases. Of the 41 cases, 24 are staff and 17 are household contacts of cases. All workers at the market and food centre will be tested.
Woodlands Care Home
9
12
Transmission amongst residents and staff. Of the 12 cases, 11 are residents and 1 is a staff.
Windsor Convalescent Home
8
10
Transmission amongst residents and staff. Of the 10 cases, 9 are residents and 1 is staff.
My Little Campus (Yishun)
7
11
Transmission amongst staff and students in the school. Of the 11 cases, 2 are staff and 9 are students.
Pfizer Asia Pacific Pte Ltd
3
29
Workplace transmission, no evidence of spread beyond worksite. All cases are staff. The facility is not involved in vaccine production.
NSL OilChem
1
30
Workplace transmission with further spread to household contacts of cases. Of the 30 cases, 26 are staff and 4 are household contacts of cases.
Sembcorp Marine Admiralty Yard
3
55
Workplace transmission with further spread to household contacts of cases. Of the 55 cases, 47 are staff and 8 are household contacts of cases.
Blue Stars Dormitory
1
110
Intra-dormitory transmission amongst residents with no evidence of spread beyond dormitory. All residents are being tested.
Chinatown Complex
5
281
Ongoing workplace transmission, including 198 stallholders and assistants, 12 working as cleaners/ Safe Distancing Ambassador, 64 household contacts of workers. All new cases have been quarantined.
Avery Lodge Dormitory
12
113
Intra-dormitory transmission amongst residents, detected through proactive testing. Residents have been placed on Movement Restriction Order, and are being tested.
Boon Lay Bus Interchange staff
5
242
Workplace transmission amongst bus captains and interchange staff, no evidence of spread to commuters.
All Saints Home Jurong East
1
15
Intra-home transmission amongst residents and staff. Of the 15 cases, 11 are residents and 4 are staff.
Punggol Bus Interchange staff
3
70
Workplace transmission amongst bus captains and interchange staff, no evidence of spread to commuters.
Tampines Bus Interchange staff
9
162
Workplace transmission amongst bus captains and interchange staff, no evidence of spread to commuters.
DHL Supply Chain Advanced Regional Centre (1 Greenwich Drive)
2
92
Workplace transmission with further spread to household contacts of cases. Of the 92 cases, 68 are staff and 24 are household contacts of cases. New cases are secondary family and social contacts.
Jamiyah Nursing Home
1
15
Transmission amongst staff and residents. Of the 15 cases, 12 are residents and 3 are staff.
