I have a close friend in school who kept taking photos and videos of me. He always tries to take them secretly but I knew he was taking because of the angle of the phone camera. While he was showing me some photos he took the other days, I saw snippets of myself when he scrolled through his gallery.
There was even once when we were having a meeting with few other people. When I was having a private discussion with another member, that friend who was sitting next to me, took out his DSLR and started taking pictures of me and my notes for the meeting. I pretended not to notice that while I was discussing the meeting with the other member. I’m quite embarrassed at the attention I was getting – I was teased by those who attended that meeting.
He claims that he did it “For the memories with my friends”. We sought this out before and he said he treated me as a close friend of his. I believed what he said was true to himself, but I find it creepy when this friend decides to keep all the pictures to himself – I hope that he would at least post on his insta story sometimes or something. I believe I was pretty firm with him about taking pictures and videos many times before but I wish he would stop doing it.
I met this super nice and handsome guy from medicine and have been together for 2 year plus. He is really sweet, respectful, responsible etc (unlike douchebag and player from previous relationship) and I really feel we are meant for each other.
Recently we thought of doing it but I am super scared because I’m not a virgin. I admit I was a terrible person in the past. I lost my virginity to someone I don’t even know cos I’m drunk in a club. After that, I had a few ONS cos I’m lonely and guys in club are good in smooth talks and I got tricked into thinking they really love me.
Initially I thought guys in this era shouldn’t mind it already, but after reading #40822, I am dam worried. My bf is really a noble and responsible guy with ethics. Unlike all the players I met, he actually restrained his sexual desire at night during our holiday because he thought I’m not ready for it.
Now that we are ready to do it, i came across this post #40822 and sudddnly I feel so worried about it that I don’t feel like doing it anymore. I had never tell my bf my past actions because I’m scared I will lose him. He also didn’t ask me before so I feel it’s ok. But on the other hand, I also feel bad for hiding all these issues because not revealing everything is sort of lying. But I really cannot lose him!! It is even worse given that he studies medicine and I’m scared he can tell I’m not a virgin using his anatomy textbook. But I can’t possibly hide forever and don’t have sex for whole life right? I really want kids with him next time..
Sorry that my ideas are all over the place. I think I’m falling into a depression soon with all these thoughts. Sometimes I feel I’m tainted and don’t deserve him in the first place. Any advice please? Please be kind 🙁
Not everyone on your Facebook, instagram or Twitter are truly your friends/family. It’s a sad fact. Be mindful of what you share/post even if your account is private because honestly, there’s really no private domain for social media. Some pretend to be “friends” but are really waiting to see you fall.
“hi guise do help me share around this post, found a dead cat just along the pathway @yishun block 269b 😔 pls pls pls help me share around this post until the owner its self 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 feeling disspointed whoever killed this, heartless ppl.. im sure the owner will be worried.
thank you so much 🙏”
It is unfortunate that this would happen to an animal. We hope it is not caused by physical abuse by residents around that area.
SCDF said that five workers were injured in an industrial incident at the Enterprise Centre in Bukit Batok on Monday morning. SCDF confirmed that they responded to the industrial incident at 20 Bukit Batok Crescent at about 11 am.
In a subsequent update, the SCDF said the industrial incident resulted in the “partial collapse of a wall and significant damage within the premises”, but no one was trapped in the incident. There was no fire when the SCDF arrived in the incident, and the five injured workers were sent to hospitals for treatment.
Investigations are currently still ongoing, though no details were released on the kind of injuries suffered by the five workers, and indeed, the nature of the industrial incident. However, one eyewitness, Jason Ong, reportedly said that he heard an ‘explosion’, and photos showing the windows of a floor of the building damaged by what may seem like an explosion was taken by him.
Awkward freshman struggling with feeling loneliness here, especially during random late nights. While I am practising speaking with new people and getting slightly better every day, to a point where I can do some basic small talk, it’s really tough overcoming the social awkwardness that really isolates myself from people. I realized that after nearly 21 years of my life I don’t have one friend I can truly can connect with and can call up this hour and share my true feelings with.
I get that it takes time to build meaningful relationships and trust, and over the last few months I’ve grasped the opportunities this year, going for CCAs, signing up for external events, speaking to many people who I really appreciate, but sometimes the intense feeling of loneliness just keeps coming back.
Tbh I’m not someone who is super clingy and am quite cool with doing things myself mostly whether it’s eating alone or doing stuff alone (which i’ve made an effort to reduce since I entered uni), but I think deep down I can’t handle so much of it especially over such a long time period. Ironically I appreciate that uni is busy enough that these are mostly fleeting instances where I feel this way, instead of a permanent feeling.
I think it has really improved alot since my jc and ns days where at two points i wrote out a super long negative note and to document all that fear frustration and regret in an attempt to vent it out since I didn’t exactly have people I felt I could speak to without having them leave me the next day.
Today, I don’t need a shoulder to cry on, but I really want to deepen the friendships, to share my listening ear and shoulder with someone else, so that when I know I can share my real feelings when I go through a rough patch and they’ll be there for me. Hoping you guys have some suggestions of how I can get there.
A video released by the Thai police investigating ATM scams have shown the popular trick used in China ATM’s is now moving down south.
An attachment is added to the entry of the card and another hidden camera is installed at the top of the machine to video the ATM pins.
After the attachment added by the thug reads the card. The thug will make a copy of the card and use the footage of the ATM pin to draw your account out dry.
In the video, the police mentioned that this attachment at the card slot was customized to fit the Kasikorn Bank’s color but at the same time the attachment could be used to fit any other ATM machines.
ATM scams are common. Just take note of the machine if its been tampered with.
I don’t have a throwaway account, so please don’t hunt me down. Anyway, hope i can obtain some advice.
Some background info about me. I went to a 6 year IP Secondary School/Junior College. I’m an introvert, was a loner, had only 1-2 good friends, stuck with gaming for the first 3-4 years.
Fast forward to JC1, i am taking PCME H1 econs. Grades are really bad since i have no motivation to learn useless subjects just for a certificate that would allow me to enter a Uni. I have shit year 4 results, O level equivalent would be around 28 points.
I also got bored of gaming in early JC1 and quit gaming cold turkey. I am sort of a loner, didn’t fit in with my male classmates as all were on the very noisy, rowdy, gaming spectrum.
Also, I have very severe eczema that is hindering my ability to carry out activities that require sweating & sometimes even walking and also studies. I feel as if the JC curriculum is just not for me due to the immense amount of stress. It also took a turn for the worse 1-2 weeks ago where I had to “sleep off the pain”.
However, i am very interested in AI, cryptocurrency trading & blockchain technologies. Also am founder of a small project in cryptocurrencies & have a sizeable stack from trading/investing. I want to pick up programming, mainly C++, Python, Javascript & Solidity to potentially prepare for my career in the cryptocurrency space.
Thus, i am thinking of dropping out from JC to Poly and taking up an information technology (IT) course as I thought it would help me build a good foundation for potential further studies in University or for my future career. I am appealing to all polys except temasek. Have sent an email to them but have not received any replies yet. I am very worried about not being able to enter a poly & my desired course. Also my prelims start a few hours later & i’m not very optimistic about even subpassing. Do Polys look at JC1 grades as reference too?
I understand that my case is very unique, but I would appreciate any advice from anyone who has been in a similar situation before.
TLDR
Have shit grades, social issues, severe eczema, but very interested in blockchain/crypto technology. Am worried about not getting into my desired course in Poly.