A netizen shared how he and his girlfriend are together for 2 years, but when he tried to initiate sex, she wouldn’t do it.

Here is the story:

“Hi all, I just want to get the viewpoint from others. Me and my gf were together for 2 years+. The rs is going well.

There are times where I tried to initiate sexual talks and of course sex throughout our rs once in awhile as sometimes, I have raging hormones and sexual desires.

I don’t view intimacy as the key factor to our rs nor it is as important as other factors in a rs like communication and quality time etc.

However, my gf does not feel comfortable to do it and not even talk about it. We do fight about it from time to time and I felt like its my own problem/desires.

Not that I have a major problem with it, its just that it is sometimes frustrating for me as I like intimate times but she don’t even initiate any sexual conversation.

I did convey my msg to her that intimacy is somewhat important to me as it helps to builds the bond and of course It helps us to understand one another emotionally and physically better.

It need not be sexual acts but I do wish that she is at least willing to try out intimacy acts with me and at least willing to talk about it is enough as it do help us progress our rs and to the future.

Throughout the two years, I tried to initiate it during our staycays or home tits, but was rejected and I’m not the type to force it if she is not comfortable with it..

However, If intimacy is important to me and she still rejects me countless times despite all the talks/fights abt intimacy we had , does that means we are incompatible?

Yes loving one another is one thing, but if this poses as a potential problem for me, does that validate my reasoning to end the rs with her? I just want to get the views from others.”

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hi all! will like to share my experience dealing with a rude and dishonest seller on carousell. i dont want anyone else falling for his scam business.

i bought a bicycle for $208 from this seller on carousell. checked with him if there is any warranty and he said there is 3 months warranty. on the 2nd day of riding this bicycle, the break suddenly became loose, the bicycle chain got stuck and the pedal broke! i got flung out of the bicycle and nearly got into an accident. i informed the seller about the incident and asked if he could do a replacement ASAP as im using the bicycle for food delivery purposes (i was still being patient at this point of time).

seller was super rude and asked me not to make things difficult for him just cause i asked him if he could do the replacement earlier the next day. he didnt even bother saying sorry and blocked me off on whatsapp. surprisingly, the replacement bicycle came in the evening the following day, and guess what? after using it for 2 days, im facing issues again! the bicycle chain suddenly got stuck while riding and i had to deliver the food on foot.

i was so pissed off. tried messaging him again on carousell, asking back for refund as this is the 2nd time he sent bicycle w defects to me. no reply from him at all and even whatsapped him from another number but he has blocked that number as well. i rly dont want anyone else falling for this scam. and till now he hasnt return back to me the refund or replied any of my messages.

(btw pls note the ‘user’s account under review after a dispute’ on the seller’s carousell only appeared a week after i made the purchase from him).

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Ho Ching, the wife of Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong, will be appointed as the director of Temasek Trust today (1 October).

She also stepped down from her previous role as CEO of Temasek Holdings.

Temasek trust also added that Ho will be their board’s chairman from 1 April 2022, succeeding S Dhanabalan, who has been the chairman since 2015, but will remain on the board as “Chairman Emeritus”.

Ho remarked that she was honoured to join the board and that she was very pleased that Dhanabalan would stay on as Chairman Emeritus.

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Muhammad Ismail Zainudin, 40-years-old, robbed a 7-Eleven store of 8 packs of cigarettes.

The former security guard was convicted on a charge of robbery and sentenced to 3 years imprisonment, along with 12 strokes of the cane yesterday (30 September).

He begged the court for leniency and promised not to do it again.

But the Judge said that the minimum punishment for the crime was a mandatory sentence of 3 years and 12 strokes.

What happened?

Ismail wore a long sleeve shirt and a hoodie on 19 April at around 4.10am, and went to a 7-Eleven outlet at Bukit Batok Street 52.

He bought a bottle of coffee and asked the cashier if he could buy alcohol, to which she refused to sell him as it was against the law to sell alcohol at that timing.

She threatened to call the police if Ismail refused to leave.

Ismail then showed her a plastic dummy nunchaku in his pocket, threatening to cut her if she refused to sit down.

The cashier did as she was told and asked him not to hurt her.

Ismail then took 8 packs of cigarettes from the shop and fled the scene.

He was tracked down and arrested on the same day.

Polcice found the plastic dummy nunchaku and the cigarettes that he robbed from the store at his unit.

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Jerell Lim Jing Kai, 19-years-old, was on probation for fighting when he then reoffended by pretending to be a female sex worker, scamming 2 men of $4,000 online.

Lim pleaded guilty 5 counts of cheating and one count of dealing with the benefits of criminal activities in his latest offences, and subsequently had his probation revoked.

He was sentenced to 6 months of reformative training yesterday (30 September).

What happened?

Lim created a fake profile, posing as Bernise, a 20-year-old woman, on Locanto.

He took a photo of an unidentified woman from Instagram and used it as his profile picture.

He also created a Telegram account with the name “bernisewz” and asked to borrow the bank account of a friend.

His friend would help him withdraw the scammed money and keep 20% of it as commission.

His friend agreed to his request.

A 24-year-old man found “Bernise” on Locanto and messaged “her”, making arrangements to meet up for sexual service.

“Bernise” then told the victim that “her sister” was hospitalised and asked him for a loan with the medical bill, sending him a photo of a medical bill as proof.

The victim then transferred $1,000 to the bank account of Lim’s friend, who kept $200 as commission.

The friend later decided he wanted nothing to do with the scam anymore, to which Lim then found another person to help him.

Lim continued his scam which resulted in the victim transferring another $2,520 into the new accomplice’s account.

A police report was then made after the victim eventually suspected he had been scammed.

Lim then cheated a second victim of $480 by posing as another female sex worker, Felicia.

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30-year-old Tan Sen Yang, allegedly slashed a man in the face so viciously that it left him disfigured, just moments before the infamous murder of Mr Satheese Noel Gobidass at Orchard Towers in 2019.

Tan also allegedly waved his kerambit knife in the air and cut the finger of another man.

He then confronted the murder victim, Satheesh, 10 minutes later at the mall, in a murder case that has gripped the nation.

Tan was charged with at least 10 offences on 1 October.

According to court documents, the 2019 murder of Satheesh was not the only time that Tan had allegedly used a weapon.

He is also being accused by the prosecution of stabbing a man in the chest with a knife at a Compassvale Walk HDB void deck in 23 August 2016.

He also allegedly used a chopper to attack 2 other men outside Orchard Towers on the morning of 22 March 2017.

Tan also allegedly punched another man at Comfor Delgro Driving Centre back in 2 November 2015.

On 23 February 2017, he also punched a woman in the face at St James Power Station.

Tan also allegedly messaged a woman, threatening to injured a man that the woman knew, on 2 June 2019.

He also allegedly had a fight with a public servant on the day before the murder at Orchard Towers, kicking a parking warden’s motorbike and punching him.

Tan’s case has been adjourned to 22 October.

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Singaporean man, Yu Kwong Zee, aged 51 has been sentenced to five weeks and five days jail on Thursday (Sept 30) for using the NRIC numbers of seven bankruptcy personnel to redeem free masks.

He had apparently gotten these details from the Straits Times newspaper bankruptcy section.

He pleaded guilty to cheating by impersonation and retaining personal information of others without consent.

Another charge of having 13 masks which he could not account for satisfactory has been taken into consideration.

Details of his doings

On Dec 3, 2020, Yu stumbled upon a list of NRIC numbers of individuals who had been declared bankrupt while reading the Straits Times.

He wrote down seven of the numbers, and proceeded to Nee Soon Community Centre on Dec 5 to claim the masks from the vending machine.

On Dec 8, one of the victims lodged a report saying that his NRIC was used to claim the mask already as he could not seem to redeem it.

CCTV footage was then used by authorities who managed to trace and identify Yu and discovered 20 masks at his home.

Liable penalties

Yu could have received up to 10 years jail and fined for cheating.

For unlawfully retaining personal information, Yu could have received up to three years jail, fined up to $10,000 or both.

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