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CONCERNED SISTER WANTS BRO TO DO PRENUP BEFORE WEDDING

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So my (25F) older brother (28M) and his gf have been dating for like 4 or 5 years now and recently my brother proposed.

Everyone has been super supportive and happy for them, my parents are over the moon and excited for the first of their children’s weddings. And im also really happy for my brother, but there was one thing that bothered me. My brother pays for everything. He is constantly surprising his gf with gifts, he always pays for their dates or meals when they go out.

I’ve brought it up before and my brother says he doesn’t mind, that our family have more money than most and that he likes treating his gf. His gf does work and does do the cooking and keeping their house(which my brother brought btw) clean, but that’s nothing compared to what he’s getting in return. My brother also vaguely explained that there is a “dynamic” to it (he didn’t really wanna talk about it with me) which I don’t really get and the whole situation still looks like my brother is getting exploited.

Last night my family went out for a celebratory dinner for the engagement. While we were there my brother started showing them the ring and shared plans for what they would want at the wedding, then the bill came, we split it (my parents paying for theirs and my youngest sister’s (16F), me and my bf (29M) split ours, my siblings all paid for theirs and like always my brother paid for both his and his gf.

I joked and said that my brother should get a prenup, my brother told me that isn’t funny, I said back that with how many gifts he’s gotten him and how many things his gf has his name on it probably won’t do much anyway. His gf looked guilty and upset, my brother told me I was being super effing rude and he and his bf left.

Most of my family are telling me I was out of line, tho my older sister agrees with me that she thinks our brother is being exploited.

There was probably a better scenario I could have brought that up?

5554 NEW CASES IN SINGAPORE, 3 DEATHS

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The Ministry of Health (MOH) has reported a total of 5,554 new cases on 28 January 2022 with 3 fatalities.

Case details

Of the 5,554 new cases, 5,272 are local and 3 fatalities. The death toll is 853.

The remaining 282 are imported cases.

Of the cases today, 3,646 cases are detected via ART test while 1,626 cases are detected via PCR.

MOH has stopped reporting separately about Omicron variant cases and have included it inside with the total case count.

This is because the bulk of infections now is Omicron cases.

The confirmed cases are now a total of cases tested via PCR test and GP-Protocol 2 cases.

The infection growth rate is at 2.24 down from yesterday’s 2.37.

GP-Protocol 2 cases refer to individuals who are well but test positive or have been diagnosed by a doctor to have mild conditions.

Hospital

There are 636 patients at the hospital, including 46 requiring oxygen. There are 10 patients in the intensive care unit.

92% of Singapore’s eligible population has finished the national immunization program’s entire vaccine regimen.

Approximately 57% of the overall population has had their vaccination booster doses.

56 F&B CAUGHT FLOUTING COVID RULES, 360 PEOPLE CAUGHT

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According to the Ministry of Sustainability and the Environment, 56 businesses has been ordered to shut down and/or fined after they were caught flouting COVID-19 rules.

One of the outlets even allowed their customers to sing Karaoke, the customer was later tested positive for COVID-19.

Various rules were broken including “interactions” between staff and customers, while some exceeded the maximum number of pax per group, serving alcohol after 10.30 PM, allowing customers to sing song and play darts.

Candy K-Bar (111 Somerset Road, #02-07/08/09) accepted a dining group above the permitted group size, and continued to serve, sell and allow consumption of alcohol within its premises after 10.30 pm. The establishment also allowed customers to use a KTV system for singing, screened videos on the KTV system, and allowed customers to play darts on a dart machine.

27 outlets ordered to close

  • Alankar Restaurant
  • Alter Ego
  • BK Eating House
  • Burger King at (Plaza Singapura)
  • Candy K-Bar
  • Eno-Oka Japanese Restaurant
  • Fragrance Hotel (Balestier)
  • Friends Bistro Bar
  • Go Ang Pratunam Chicken Rice
  • Gui Fei Ji 
  • Halfpipe Skate Bar
  • Inasal 
  • Komma
  • Lady Wu
  • Li Zhi Lai Jie Jia
  • Lu La
  • Mr Boss Disco
  • Phaya Chalawan Corner
  • Rooftop Cafe & Bar
  • Sake Labo
  • Sanook Kitchen (Parkway Parade)
  • Soi Happi Thai Food Bistro and Bar
  • The Eastern (497)
  • York Hotel
  • Yellow Goldenland
  • Xing Hua Xing
  • Warm BBQ
The Eastern (497 Geylang Road), a nightlife establishment that pivoted to F&B, allowed intermingling between patrons, failed to maintain a safe distance of at least 1 metre between tables and groups, and failed to keep each recording made using the electronic video surveillance system for a period of not less than 28 days after the date the recording was made. The operator has been issued an order to close for 10 days from 12 to 21 January 2022.

29 outlets got fined

  • 3 Hot Shot Cafe & Bar
  • Belle-Ville Pancake Cafe
  • BaoBao Food Court
  • Bayside Drinks & Eats
  • Bizen
  • Cash Studio Family Karaoke (SingPost Centre)
  • Cedele Bakery Kitchen (Raffles City Shopping Centre)
  • Chef Kiosk by Chef
  • Club Luxe
  • Concorde Hotel and Shopping Mall
  • Dondaebak
  • Fluff Stack
  • Fortune Garden
  • Gangnam Story
  • Ichikukodo Ramen
  • Jollibee (Paya Lebar Square)
  • KFC (PLQ Mall)
  • Legendary Hong Kong (Jurong Point)
  • Nyonya Deli
  • Ocean Star Bar & Grill
  • One15 Marina Club
  • Reddot Kitchen
  • Song Fa Bak Kut Teh (Northpoint City)
  • The Great Madras
  • The Original Vadai
  • The Original Boat Noodle
  • The Soup Spoon (AMK Hub)
  • Treasure Vegetarian Restaurant
  • Whisk Group

Image Source: MSE

FIGHT BETWEEN AH BENGS – THROW BOTTLES, THROW CHAIRS, FREE FOR ALL

A video emerged online showing a huge group of intoxicated hooligans brawling at what appears to be a pub/bistro.

The group was seen fighting with each other, as they used beer bottles and chairs as weapons.

They were shouting incoherently but we did manage to hear a guy saying “steady ah!”.

The group of hooligans were also seen without their face masks on and gathering in a very large group as well.

Potential penalties

Breach of safe distancing measures

First-time offenders who breach safe distancing measures are fined $300.

For non-compliance with safe management measures under the Covid-19 (Temporary Measures) (Control Order) Regulations 2020, offenders may be jailed for up to six months, fined up to S$10,000, or both.

Not wearing masks

If they are caught by the Police for not wearing a mask or not wearing a mask properly they can be charged under the Covid-19 (Temporary Measures) (Control Order) Regulations 2020.

Penalties include a fine of up to SGD$10,000 and jail for up to six months.

Fighting and assault

According to Chapter 224 of the Penal Code, anyone who disturbs public peace by fighting in public is guilty of committing an affray.

Upon conviction, offenders could face a jail term of up to one year and/or a fine of up to $5,000.

According to Chapter 321 of the Penal Code, anyone who performs an act that causes hurt to a person is guilty of Voluntarily Causing Hurt.

Upon conviction, offenders could face a jail term of up to 3 years and/or a fine of up to $5,000.

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VAN DRIVER PLAYING POKEMON GO WHILE DRIVING, THEN HARASSES TAXI

A video emerged online showing a van driver being filmed playing with Pokemon Go on his phone while driving.

He was seen coming to a stop beside a yellow taxi at a red light, before he held his phone up with the Pokemon Go game still on.

He then aimed his phone at the camera to make it look like he was filming the taxi driver, before driving away.

According to the OP, the van driver is purportedly the same person seen in a previous viral video throwing water at a cyclist’s face last month.

Potential penalties

Under Singapore’s traffic laws, it is an offence to use a mobile device while driving a motor vehicle.

A motorist convicted for the first time for using a mobile device while driving can be liable to a fine of up to $1,000 and or a jail term of up to 6 months. The offender can also be disqualified from driving.

A driver convicted for a second or subsequent time can be liable to a maximum fine of $2,000, and or a jail term up to 12 months.

EX-CERTIS CISCO MANAGER ALLEGEDLY RECEIVED $83K IN BRIBES, CHARGED

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Alvin Lee May Sim, 41-years-old, was charged with 13 counts of graft and 9 counts of forgery.

Lee was a senior manager at Certis Cisco Protection Services and had allegedly received bribes of about $83,000. He was working in the security solutions and development department at the time of the alleged offense and had purportedly accepted money from Abdul Razeez Rasit, 35, and Nazarisham Mohamed Isa, 42, from Scar Services, between 2017 and 2019.

Certis Cisco said that they removed Lee from all of his duties immediately after learning that he was under investigation, and he then resigned on 31 December 2019.

Razeez is facing 6 counts of corruption, while Nazarisiham is facing 13 counts of graft, one count of forgery, and one count of using a forged document.

What happened?

Razeez and Nazarisham allegedly bribed Lee with about $43,000 to get him to do favours for their firm.

Nazarisham then allegedly gave Lee another $40,000 in bribes through a car loan by allegedly forging Certis documents.

According to the CPIB, Lee allegedly forged documents like standing orders and safe-keeping receipts related to the deposit of gemstones.

They were allegedly forged and intended to make others believe that the Certis Cisco Security, as well as the Auxiliary Police Force had issued the documents.

Lee also allegedly forged an insurance certification document with Nazarisham, who separately is being accused to have used and presented a false safe-keeping receipt by submitting it to a notary public.

BMT RECRUITS TRAINING WITH MATS, NETIZENS SAY “NCC SCHOOL BOYS TOUGHER”

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The Bastic Military Training centre posted photos of new recruits training with mats on the ground.

This triggered many netizens that were once in the army and said that “their silky” hands cannot touch the rough ground.

Here are some of the best comments:

  • We are looking at army training on a very thin surface level. Having mats to “protect” your soft hands can be considered as safety, that is true. But, hard training have something else other than building muscles and pain. That is to train the mind for endurance and overcome temporary discomfort. To take hardship as it is. Not many BMT trainees are “lucky” to become trainers or some non-combat vocations. Training for that little endurance in your mind to push u to take that 1 extra step really helps if u got posted to a combat unit. This is the SAF, not NCC. But happy to know that the food at the cookhouse and rations really improved a lot!
  • Hello even 10 years ago CCA UNIFORMED GROUPs also knock it down under 1pm sun touching the bloody tarmac bare hands. Sure kana blister
  • Didn’t realise Facebook has a time travel feature, just one post and suddenly all the millennials become boomers instantly.
  • Will yoga mats be provided for jungle training as well?
  • Yoga mat… Remember to bring along for fieldcamp
  • My condolences to all the previous batches of NSFs including myself who had to be cooked on the parade square like roasted pigs.Looking forward to the following year where they’ll install aircon at the parade square too.
  • Why you all say they lucky got yoga mat?Can you imagine getting weekend confinement because your SGT sneakily take your mat and say you never take care?Extra burden.
  • How dare you make training more comfortable!! Don’t you know BMT is supposed to be the most insufferable and worst period of any male’s life?Why would you be trying to reduce the number of training-related injuries??? Make it so that NSFs maybe injure themselves for life again!!!

Image Source: Basic Military Training Centre

TRUCK BEATS RED LIGHT, CRASHES INTO ANOTHER TRUCK LIKE TRANSFORMERS

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A video emerged online showing a truck beating a red light and crashing into another truck at a traffic junction.

The incident happened on 24 January at about 3.41pm, and the truck that was hit was seen making a right turn from the opposite side of the road.

The other truck, which appeared to be carrying sand, then crashed into it after beating the red light, which had been red for a while.

The resulting impact even sent some sand flying out of the truck.

Potential penalties

It is an offence to beat a red light in Singapore.

Drivers found guilty of failing to conform to traffic light signals face a composition fine of $400 for light vehicles and $500 for heavy vehicles.

They also face 12 demerit points and if a driver accumulates 24 or more demerit points within 24 months, their license will be suspended.

GUY SHARED PICTURES TO ICLOUD, WHOLE FAMILY SEES HIS PRIVATE PHOTOS

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A guy shared a story of how he had changed his phone from an older model of an iPhone to a new model after decades and did a major screw up.

He had wanted to back up his pictures but instead of putting the two phones together to transfer the data over, he accidentally backed it up on iCloud, enabling his whole family to see all his pictures including some of the ‘private’ photos which he had.

Here is the story

“My family all share the same Apple ID so stuff like paid apps we can all use. This also means pictures are shared.

But my setting have always been “do not share photos to cloud.” So they are only on my device and not shared with the rest of the family.

I have my reasons for doing so as a lot of photos in my device are ‘private’ photos which are not meant for the public eye, only for my own viewing and for girls which I am trying to flirt with.

I decided to change my iPhone to a newer one as I have been using an iPhone 8 for the longest time and the moment I got my hands on this new phone, I literally transferred all the data on one to the other “app data and settings.” Well guess what? It re-enabled cloud sharing for my photos.

So guess who’s parents, and probably siblings too got to see their son/brother showing off their ‘private’ photos in several different angles.

With the best lighting of course because that’s why I have them saved in the first place.

I’m actually very very pissed right now because I thought that all settings that I have on my old phone could have been port over just like this but I guess this is just life getting back at me.”

Image source: Unsplash.com

KIND BUS CAPTAIN STOPS BUS TO GIVE CRYING CHILD SOME CHOCOLATES

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A netizen shared an encounter with a kind bus captain on board a bus on 27 January.

Here is the story

As usual, I fetched my children from school at around 5pm and we would board the bus service 98 around 5.15-5.20pm to go home. At this hour, my son has shown distress and he needed to feed on bm, he cried throughout the journey and broke free from my arms many times and threw his body towards the chair. I’m helpless.

I carried him to the window, showed him moving vehicles, and occasionally there’s trucks passed through (he kept quiet for awhile), but cried again when the bus moved and the trucks was out of his sight. I almost cried too, because I could not help him and have no idea how to calm him down.

The bus stopped at a junction, bus driver came out from his driver’s seat, at this time, I really thought he was gonna scold me for not being able to take care of him and make him quiet.

But I was wrong. He walked towards me with 2 pieces of chocolates and gave it to Adrianna and Haider. I was too stunned to speak, almost cried again because there’s still kind soul around me.

Haider stopped crying immediately and from his rear mirror, I thanked him and raised up my hands to show my appreciation. This bus driver of bus service 98, with plate number SBS 3414X deserves a shoutout and commendable service award for his kindness and thoughts for his passengers.

I knew it was totally wrong to eat in the bus, but for this 1 time just to make my son quiet, please excuse us.

Thank you bus driver! 

Updates: Sent my good feedbacks to both LTA and Tower Transit to their online platforms. I hope that this bus captain will be praise for his good work. I didn’t took his name. So I only gauged the time and the route we were at. Tower Transit Singapore Land Transport Authority – We Keep Your World Moving